OK here is my problem. This guys I like a lot is in Arizona and he will be gone for the whole week. There is this other kid in my class who I had a thing with in the begining of the year. We are starting to have that same thing again but I still really like this other guy who is on vacation.I dont want to have to start flirting and hanging out with this other guy and still have feeling for the other one. Basically I dont want to hurt the kid in my class. What should I do?
2007-06-02 11:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by toppercheerleader2012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your with a guy, he leaves for a week and you are having issues already? How lame. Be nice to the guy in class but be firm. You stand firm too, if you don't know how you are not ready for a lasting relationship. Have friends but don't get serious with anyone, you'll just jack it up. Good Luck
2007-06-02 11:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instincts...I think you already know what you want to do...most times we already know what we want to do!
But if I was in your position I would wait for the guy in Arizona cuz it's only a week that he's gonna be gone for and you said that you have feelings for him. If you let the kid in your class down gently he will get over it (even if you don't let him down gently he will get over it but it'll just take longer), it just might be awkward between the two of you at first.
2007-06-02 18:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just folllow ur heart if u realli like the guy who is away for the week then dont flirt with the other guy...u shouldnt flirt with the other guy if u dont reali like him cause then he will get the wrong idea and he will get hurt n it would b kinda awkward around him
2007-06-02 18:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by special K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sat far away from the kid in your class. You'll both get hurt.
2007-06-02 18:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please define thing. Are you having sex with him?
If you are not in a committed relationship to begin with, not in a serious exclusive relationship, don't sweat it. You have no strong ties to consider; just enjoy yourself, if that is what you want.
When you are in a serious relationship you would not feel so free, and you would not mind because you would have someone you love.
2007-06-02 18:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy that week with the kid on you class but talk to him and put things clear
2007-06-02 18:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by karlai a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, for a second i thought, it was me, because I live in Arizona, and 2nd I am on a week vacation. I still am now, haha.. IS it me?
and sorry, I don't know how to answer this.
2007-06-02 18:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time out, sort out your feelings and then decide. It's only fair on them both.
2007-06-02 18:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to grow..and think...that a man must have some big qualities..in order to marry him....
they must know where the life come from and to where they go...
2007-06-02 18:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋