Okay i love him but he pushes me against stuff when he gets mad because i'm flirting with another guy!
2007-06-02 12:28:29 · 37 answers · asked by Treeluver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
14 is very young and a guy beating you is just crazy any fighting i not love that is stupidness never try to make something like this work. If he really cares he would talk to you about it not beat you anyways guys at that age are beyond immature perverts whose only goal is to lose their virginity before their friends and when you grow up you will see the gentlemen are the keepers
2007-06-02 12:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should drop him like a kite. No one deserves any kind of abuse. If you were to go further, he would only get worse and more controlling. Love is not hitting or pushing.
You are only 14. I couldn't even date until I was 16, even then I was not ready.
I hope you love yourself. You should not be around him at all. do not accept phone calls from him or call him. How can someone who hurts you make you happy? You are so young, you will love again. Drop him before you wind up in the hospital. You are worth much more than that.
Someday, when the timing is right, God will send you the right person. You have to let go of this jerk and you should tell your parents that he hits and pushes you. How old is he?
Someone else will love you and treat you with the respect you deserve. Please do not spend another minute with him. Guys like that will hurt you then apologize and say they love you and will not do it again. They do do it again and it only gets worse.
Love yourself and respect yourself. You are worth a lot. God made you and he loves you. He doesn't want you to get hurt. Take the right path and run..............
Hugs to you. I will pray for your strength and courage. You will be better without him.
Have fun with your friends and family. They will always be there for you. Forget the boys for now. Especially this one.
2007-06-02 12:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
R u for real?
This is really, scary , u flirt in front of him, he gets mad and pushes u around is this what u r saying?
I hope u r not like those people who likes to be punished.
So they set up situations to start a problem to get what they want violence. Knowing their partner will give them just that. And this makes them happy because in their sick mines , love he is showing. And live in the world that says if he does not beat me he does not love me.
Little girl u can get hurt, stop playing dangerous games ,too young to start, hit the books.
Do u really want to move on, if u do , just do it.
2007-06-02 12:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Analyst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy s h i t honestly when you ask a stupid question like this you'll get a stupid answer. Yes continue to let this guy hit your *** and when you end up in the hospital half dying then and maybe just maybe you'll move on. ****** idiot... move the **** on RIGHT NOW. how can you love someone that hits you? He makes you happy... how so??? you're 14 man... go read a friggin book.
2007-06-02 12:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what your doing you think that by him showing you he is jealous this proves he loves you so by flirting this gets the reaction you want you are playing a very dangers game i also did this with a boyfriend when i was about your age and i went on to marry him 17 years later many black eyes a split lip that had to be stitched and never healed right and lots of broken bones i finally left but looking back at this now I'm older and wiser i can see that i see the pattern it is not OK for him to push you about but its also not OK for you to play with his emotions so either finish with him and learn by your mistake or stop flirting and try to get a normal healthy relationship going i wish you luck but don't let this carry on
2007-06-02 12:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by disco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you don't need to be his punching bag.... You deserve better and need to be treated right....... Plus you are only 14 what are you doing hanging out with boys anyway?!? You need to know yourself and focus on your school; not some dumb boy who hits you and wonder if it's ok for a guy to hit a girl? That is just absolutely wrong!!! Hmmmnnn you flirt with other guys? then that is wrong on your part... if your hooked up already with this guy you are not allowed to be flirting with other boys..anyways goodluck.
2007-06-02 12:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you happy and he hits you then I'd have to say you are some sort of masochist (look it up) or to young and stupid to know better.
Even if you do flirt (which is another sign of immaturity on your part) it does not give him the right to put his hands on you!
That is not love it's dominance. Work on your self esteem you are on a very slippy slope.
2007-06-02 12:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hitting you and pushing you around is not acceptable behavior and I don't know why you would want to stick around and take it. You deserve better and there are plenty of guys out there who won't treat you that way. Move on.
2007-06-02 12:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Judy W 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
my sister was in a relationship like that only he was the one cheating and he beat her and she found out he will only get worse the day he tried to choke her with their son in her arms so think about this do you wan that to be you one of these days? is he really that important to you where you would be risking your life just to be with him? i dont think any guy is that important. so i would say leave him. but make your choice. stay with him and risk your own live or leave and live your life as much as yo want after all you are only 14.
2007-06-02 12:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by eaw_mkj 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Then he'll more than likely beat you up eventually. Get away, girl! Go talk to your parents about this no good idiot. A push leads to another and another, then he'll hit you.
2007-06-02 12:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Suzie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋