Family & Relationships - 2 June 2007

ok so there's this boi in my class.i really like him but i dont think he likes me.sumtimes it seems like he does but then theres those times when he doesnt.he already knows bcuz of my x best friend.blurted it out.im only 13 in 7th grade.so nothing slutty or ya.i just want him 2 at least think of me as not a dork that hes known since prescool.plz help!!!!!

2007-06-02 09:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by boi_crazy112293 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't believe it. He got sentenced to a year probation before he met me. Something about harrasment... Anyway - He moved away to a different state and didnt go back to visit his PO after he moved. Apparently there was a warrant put out on him - unknown by his current PO. Anyway - he got arrested on an outstanding warrant when he went back to visit his family. He's in custody and I found out he's sentenced to 6 months now. I'm a litle bummed because we had a LOT of plans for the summer. I really do love him, but I don't know if it will work out in the end. I am pretty sure he will have to do more time after he gets out because he pled guility to an assault charge in the state he lives in and he's missing court on that because he's in custody in that other state. He meets with his private attorney in a week or so. I've never been a relationship with a criminal before. And friends of mine actually work to PROSECUTE them! I'm sad to share this news with thIs them Advice?

2007-06-02 08:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by ani 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm taller than alot of girls and even most guy ALOT of people say that i'll even out but i don't know if i will

do you think guys will still like me even if i'm taller than them

2007-06-02 08:58:59 · 8 answers · asked by gabby c 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship now, I just don't want to be in. Thing is, I feel so sorry for her, she has had more than her fair share of bad boyfriends. She is so insecure about losing me, her insecurities have pushed me away. I can't take the relationship any more, and I have tried to talk about it with her, but she just keeps saying that she can't help being the way she is. I went into the relationship for all the wrong reasons, I just felt so sorry for her. Now I feel trapped. I will break her heart so bad if I leave, and I really don't want to do that. She has introduced me to all her friends and family, and they are all overwelmed that she has found someone decent for a change, and I will feel as though I am letting all those guys down too. She gets so jealous when I get text messages, can't bear the fact I have female friends, constantly calls me when I am away, please help, I just don't know what to do, I do know that if I could get out of this without hurting her, I would.

2007-06-02 08:49:58 · 24 answers · asked by Tom B 2 in Singles & Dating

when you had your first date?

2007-06-02 08:46:43 · 16 answers · asked by cuttie pie 2 in Singles & Dating

this daughter does what she is told and always helps out at the house but when she trys to talk to her mom about going more, her mom says that if she asks again that she (the mother) will make sure that the daughter will never get to do anything, not even drive to work or school and back.

2007-06-02 08:42:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

our daughter just turned 12 and throughout her life my husband and I have fought over discipline. I understand hes a man and he doesn't want to end up on Jerry Springer but sometimes I think his punishment are too much. I'll punish her for a couple days and he'll turn around and tell me i'm crazy and drag it out for weeks Sometimes when she's not even punished hell remember something that happened that week and tell her to go to her room. Then he'll explain that earlier she was being disrespectful and mouthy which I admit she is very testy w/me not w/ him. We are constantly argueing about discipline and my 12 year old has said to me "Why don't you guys get a divorce?" We fight constantly and she heres us. I just don't know if I'm fighting a battle that's not worth it .Or if I have a valid point.I'm just sick of fighting and our daughter uses us against each other. When he says no she'll come to me and Ill feel bad and she knows that.any suggestions?

2007-06-02 08:41:16 · 19 answers · asked by ssamm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She says she wants to feel those feelings, but she can't. We have been married for 14 years. What do I do?? She doesn't want to separate or get divorce because first she doesn't believe in it and second we have to beautiful little girls and she doesn't want to just up them out of there comfort zone, if you get what i mean. I don't know what to do, as far as getting or helping her get those feelings back. I don't want to just stay for the kids.. i know it's selfish in my part.. but i am not getting any younger... i don't want to get to a point when my girls are out of the house and we decided to end it... i will be to old to find another person. Please help with what i should do...

2007-06-02 08:40:56 · 4 answers · asked by turbospd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked my ex bill about the stuff that people have been telling me bad things about him. we are still friends. and my best friend sara was his girlfriend awhile ago. now he's dating this girl katelyn. and he denies everything that people tell me. here's some:

this is what i was told by sara’s cousin

did u know he cheated on sara the first time they were dating
did u know he didnt wait for even 5 minutes after breaking up with her to go for another girl
did u know he was already starting to go out with the girl he has now before he actually told sara that they were done
he kissed this girl and he did other things with her before sara knew that he wanted someone else
oh and his new girlfriend was bisexual
and she was dating a girl

this is what he said

well lets see NO WRONG my girl is alittle bi but only datin me i never did **** with her i never dated her till after breaking up with sara we didnt even kiss for like the first week and i never cheated in my life

2007-06-02 08:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this MEAN:
thats a bit odd you mean a lot

???

2007-06-02 08:26:35 · 1 answers · asked by EmotionallyWritten 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 08:24:55 · 6 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family

i am married and I chose this name because my Husband calls me this (I am the librarian type, take my hair down and blah blah blah)! LOL HE SAYS! But although I like this name perverts keep emailing me from answers, but really isnt that their problem?? HELP and what should I change it too suggestions taken!

2007-06-02 08:16:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-02 08:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by siri_porter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a younger brother who just turned 16 and now wants to experiment with weed. I'm 19 and have never smoked weed since I have never felt the need to and have felt that the negatives outweighted the positives. I was also turned off from drugs thanks to my middle school anti-drug classes that I feel that my younger brother did not have much of at his middle school. Almost all of my friends have or still smoke weed and a lot of them don't think it's that big of a deal. Is it OK for me to let my brother smoke weed just to see what the "high" is? Is he old enough to make a decision like this by himself? I am torn between being a good big brother and letting my younger brother make decisions on his own. Also, another reason I haven't tried opening the door to drugs is because both of my grandfathers were alcohol addicts and my parents have also told me to never do drugs or alcohol because I might have this "addict" gene.

2007-06-02 08:12:17 · 30 answers · asked by Jeff K 1 in Family

Its been exactly 6 months since my cousins death...kinda sad today. Can you cheer me up? :(

2007-06-02 08:11:21 · 17 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Friends

Would it get me more attention if I wear my Armani cologne to school eveyday? How much should I use?

2007-06-02 08:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by GiorgioArmaniRules 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy raising my daughter. She's 9 yo. Anyway the mother has been hooked on meth for about 8-9 years(that's why I raise my daughter) I've tried to keep things cool and not use the court system.
But this week she was with her mother. I picked her up yesterday and she started telling me about she went to the mountains with her mom, and they went to a boarded up cabin and there were booby-traps and a gun under a matteress, and she was talking about she seen some tubes and tunnels.
I'm PISSED!! this sounds like a drug lab to me!! Please help, what should I do?, and where should a start? I don't want my daughter to have anything to do with her mother anymore. has this happened to you? what do I do? I'm so mad I can't think straight.

2007-06-02 08:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by the shiz 5 in Family

In South Carolina a teacher was sentenced to 10 years for having sex with student... He was a 11 year old student.. Do u think she got enough time???

Because I dont, I think they should throw away the key, she was definetly old enough to know right and wrong, and he was just a child. They go through enough peer pressure at school without dealing with teachers like this. GOD has it came down so low that we have to worry about our grade school kids?? And what if this had been a male teacher, you think 10 years is all he would have got. (Dont think so!!!!!)

2007-06-02 08:05:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are on a pretty tight budget for our wedding but we also have a ton of people that we both want to and are obliged to spend the day with. The location we are looking at only can accomodate 80 people. If we were to choose this location for our reception site it would be cutting out first cousins immediately and most of our friends. I have already looked into other locations but the cost is very high.

Would it be a lot to ask to have a multi day wedding.
I was thinking having the ceremony and then having a brief cocktail reception or something of the likes where we could invite our expanded list of everyone we want to be there and all the ones we have to invite. Then the next day have our reception where we invite all of the people that we are obliged to invite to an actual reception.

Does this sound like too much or too ambitious. I'm also afraid of making people mad by inviting them to one party but not the other....I am so confused!

2007-06-02 08:03:08 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda & Tom 3 in Weddings

I want to make out with my boyfriend but we are in 6th grade but please can i have some pointers like how to do it when to do it and how to say i want to and about 20 people have already did this so it not new and dont tell me i am to young

2007-06-02 07:54:12 · 31 answers · asked by wakeboardchick 3 in Singles & Dating

I need to find some songs to play at my wedding and so far...it's not going so good.

2007-06-02 07:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by Alice Cullen 2 in Weddings

I am about to take out a very wonderful lady. I truly wish to impress this lady. We are in our late 20s and I am not interested in going to a club. I am going to start with dinner, then I thought about miniature golf, then hopefully I can get some pointers on other activities to keep our night fun. I don't want to seem like a stuffed shirt on our first date. This both of our first dates after divorce, so being that I do like her, I would love to do right on our first date, so maybe there will be a second. Yes it has been years since I have been out on a date. So anything worth while will be appreciated. Thanks

2007-06-02 07:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by mykd4sound 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i've kissed like a h*ll of a lot of guys n this time we've been dating for almost two months n this is the first time we kissed... but the rest of the kisses i u noe i felt special like it meant something but this kiss i keep replaying it and i am soo happy and it is different from all the other kisses like this one is more important or it means more... like i kissed him on the cheek to let him noe i love him n he turned after and kissed me on the lips n we kissed like 7more times within like idk a min i guess... n idk but it's the only thing i can think about... does it mean something??

2007-06-02 07:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by pretty girl!! 3 in Singles & Dating

my Fience has these friends who are getting married today. thye're complete jerks. they talk shite about me behind my back, AND to my Fience.

they are constantly putting me down, and acting like they are so much better than me.

they are spending money they don't have on their wedding, and than making fun of me when I get inexpensive stuff.

they make fun of me cuz my engagemtn ring is an alexandrite, and not a diamond (which, I specifically told my fience, I dont want a diamond)

so why do I have to go to this wedding?? I hate these people, they're jerks, but if I dont go they'll give me all this crap.....

how can I tell them, that Im not obligated to go to their wedding when they treat me like this??

and sorry if things are spelled badly, Answers won't let me spell check.

2007-06-02 07:38:29 · 18 answers · asked by Lizzie_bee 3 in Weddings

Weve been going out for like 3 weeks and it seemed as if he didnt even care about the relationship then we kissed thursday and he is like so happy and calls me all the time?

2007-06-02 07:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by marya 5 in Singles & Dating

im a grown adult man who lives with my mother. She makes me think that i cannot be independent on my own. I suffer from depression. She will leave and go with her boyfriend for periods of time then come back she will scream how you can live this way? you filthy pig, im suprised you dont have roaches.. I said you clean it, its your house, she said i dont have time, i just did the dishes. You're disgusting she says to me, she screams curses at me, says how dirty filthy and disgusting i am, what should i do? Nothing I do can please her. I just moped and scrubbed the floor and she came in telling me she is suprised i dont have roaches?

2007-06-02 07:31:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say for example your hubby/wife does something with talking to you or asking your opinion about it, and they do it, would you see them differently? say for example you are really like your wife's hair and she chops it into a bob, would you see her differently.

2007-06-02 07:26:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with a married man, his marriage is not what it used to be, and i am sure he loves me, he even wanted to end that marriage because of me.. I tried not to fall in love, and sometimes i feel like a b.tch because he is cheating on his wife with me... He has no sexual life with her, they hardly ever talk, and they're avoiding each other.. What should i do? They have no kids. I cant just stop loving him!!!

2007-06-02 07:24:03 · 37 answers · asked by WhatAnIdiotIam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for a dude

2007-06-02 07:22:56 · 5 answers · asked by yuda buda b 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok Ok. So there is this guy i really lke.
well he likes me to... But sometimes i just wish i didnt know him cause i spend to much time thinking about him. I dont even think he thinks of me like i do!
I think im waisting my time thinking bout him too much...when he does not even give a care about me....only when he see's me.

But i want to get over him...
any tips or advice!
please i want to get over him now...

=] Thank You and god bless ya'll..

T_T

2007-06-02 07:21:18 · 11 answers · asked by MistyFlower 4 in Singles & Dating