Family & Relationships - 2 June 2007

i have a classmate who i think has a crush on me...i already saw her many times take quick glances on me...you see she is not my classmate in all classes but i know her quite well because we talk...but i don't want to ask her if she had a crush on me because i might offend her...i don't want to ask her close friends either because of the same reason

2007-06-02 20:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by accused 2 in Singles & Dating

When my girlfriend and I get into a fight over something, she will say one thing, then later change her story. When I tell her what she originally said, she completely denies it or says she doesn't remember saying it. Is she lying all the time or does she have a memory disorder? She sure seems to remember everything I said.

2007-06-02 20:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by s s 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out for the past 2 years and Ive come to know alot of people...I tend to go out by myself, the girl that has been hanging out with me said that me knowing everybody that it can be a bad thing, how is that possible?

2007-06-02 20:25:27 · 6 answers · asked by Dani021 2 in Friends

There has being drama going on between my friend and me . He just send me a text asking me if I wanted to chill. I am not sure if I should answer or ignore him.

2007-06-02 20:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by Meowmix 2 in Friends

My sister & I are two years apart. I'm older (but not the oldest) & today was her 17th bday & I ruined it because she didn't invite me & she'd been planning it for a month. We live in the same house too. Everyone else in our family plus ten of her friends were invited.

I knew about less than 24 hours before it started. I don't see myself ever getting over that I'm happy I embarrassed her because she's been emotionally abusing my family & I for the passed 4 years.

She had her boyfriend's sister (she's 20 yrs old) move in with us & now they act like they're sisters and always going places together & I never get invited anywhere. I mean I have my own life, but an invitation once in awhile would be nice.

My sister thinks she's older than me & I constantly have to try & put her in her place.

Where do I go from? When I say I ruined her party I'm talking about bringing up all her dirty laundry in front of her friends & our family.

2007-06-02 20:20:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just turned 33 and have no desire to have sex. I love my wife. and am not cheating. Is it natural to feel this way?

2007-06-02 20:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It should be a site on the topic, because I see a huge difference between guy’s answers and girl’s answers. I got the feeling that I’m not the first with this problem. That almost feels good. I’m not a freak anymore. By far the gordoncruse54 gave the most funny (although not 100% true, I hope) answer. It was just what I needed. Be sure that long time from now, I’ll drink for you. I’m not drinking now, but with the girls’ answers I’ll start to. And thank you for SOB/SOAB,… I’m kinda new in English, mate, so be gentle J
I’m not too available and also I do not stalk women. I do not enjoy what nature gave me since the results are so disappointing, so I’m not cocky. And I do not use women to do my laundry or housework since nowadays they don’t… It is a lot to talk about it, and too little space. And also I’m sure it’s me, because I value a kiss on the chick more than a French kiss, I prefer smalltalk and philosophy late in the night instead of smelly pubs and drugs, and I really love to look at my heartlady in the morning sleeping, considering myself lucky. Well… I’m not.

2007-06-02 20:20:16 · 7 answers · asked by redyco 1 in Singles & Dating

You had a shagging partner, that you had to break it off with cos your new girlfriend found out. You work away and will not see your girlfriend for 6 months.

Your ex works away too. You send her a message saying that you hope that she is ok, and that you would like to meet her if she fancies a chat (you have not spoke for 2 months).

What would your reasons be for sending her a message like this after no contact for such a long time? SEX??

2007-06-02 20:19:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy told me I was High Maintenance what does it means?

2007-06-02 20:13:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-02 19:48:15 · 20 answers · asked by Alicia M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been out of a romantic relationship for a few years, but we've remained friends. I've been in a happy "new" romantic relationship for a couple of years. Although I've considered it, I just think it's crazy because I know him too well, and I'd be honest about his misgivings that I think a "new" girlfriend should know. What do you think?

2007-06-02 19:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyway, Im not gonna get into why he's there, but he truly is a great guy who made a mistake that treats me well.
He is not a bad guy.
ANYWAY, he is in jail for 8 months, to a year, and befor ehe went in I told him I was gonna wait for him, and NEVER cheat, I made a commitment to him.
EVERYONE keeps telling me, "You can't expect him to wait for you that long with no sex..he got himself in there in the first place",
Yes I believe that is true, but I also believe I made a commitment to him before he went into jail, I don't wanna do anything with anybody EVER, and YES I am waiting, but don't you think I am right?
That I made a choice to wait BEFORE he went in, therefore shouldn't break it?

2007-06-02 19:39:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just started keeping our money together. I give him all my money. He is the big spender & I often feel like he is selfish. In your relationships, who is the spoiled one, the wife or the husband? Is spending money equal? He spends a ton of money on his "fancy" truck which is another issue, because I feel like he's trying to impress women with it. What do u all think?

2007-06-02 19:31:57 · 16 answers · asked by mom of 2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

without turning red?

2007-06-02 19:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by blingding 5 in Singles & Dating

and i want to name this one but i can't think of anything really hot or amazing to name it... It might be dumb but you got n e ideas?

2007-06-02 19:21:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if there is a girl that is married and she goes to work- there is a guy coworker that buy her lunch and breakfast practically everyday. He calls her every morning before work and after work. On fridays and weekends she usually have plans with this coworker. But she says this is just a "friend" although she talks very highly of this coworker and not her husband. is this cheating.

2007-06-02 19:02:37 · 44 answers · asked by katie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom and me have been fighting for about two weeks she has not called me so i called her and she hung up on me, so i called her back and her phone was turned off. So i called her back a few days latter and we had a huge fight about how she is trying to run my life when she does not even know how to run her own. She is living with an abusive guy who does drugs and she has my brother in the home what do i do i am trying to tell her to get out of the relationship but she will not listen so what do i do?

2007-06-02 18:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by Callie 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends want me to do this with them, but I'm not too sure. When they asked me I was really emberassed, i felt really uncomfortable, but they called me a "nigge*" and said it was ok. I'm shocked and appalled, what should I do?!?!?!??!?!

2007-06-02 18:46:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 18:38:48 · 28 answers · asked by Tim 1 in Singles & Dating

We are booking the banquet hall pretty soon, actually its an old mansion turned into a hall...the estimate they gave us is 20,000. That includes, food, alcohol, the rentals, the hall, servers, decorations. Is this to much? 100 people attending

2007-06-02 18:25:17 · 15 answers · asked by Ken W 1 in Weddings

My sister has taken polaroids of me naked as I was sleeping. She posted them on YA.

Should I do the same to her?

2007-06-02 18:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

let me see.. would u think that 2 times a month is normal?

i would like to say get off me
and no i am not ugly. i am not like i was, but is still have it

i hope----

so what is it that turns the man on to his wife, are some men not so driven?

2007-06-02 18:12:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well on the 4th of july i am going to kiss this girl as a dare that i am not going out with what should i do ... plz help (i am in my late 12 years )

2007-06-02 18:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband drives truck, Comes home once a week and sleeps the whole time!! He walks in the doors, says "Hello, beautiful" then goes to bed!! I am totally and absolutely Lonely!! I love him and have turned down many opportunities!! Now, I am beginning to wonder why I turned them down! I am tired of being Lonely, but really need laid too!!! Pathetic I know, but True!!

2007-06-02 18:07:51 · 53 answers · asked by jacah5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

seems like my family lives together only for the sake of looking like a family...but when the five of us come together, we only seem to argue and fight...

2007-06-02 18:05:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you're truly in-love with someone, you'd wait for them for forever, right? People say moving on doesn't mean giving up, it only means we're strong enough to let go... do you agree?

>True love never dies<

Loves means to NEVER give up on someone. If you love that person enough you'd rather live your life alone, than with someone else. I'm so confused, can you fall out of love and if you do, does that mean you even loved in the first place?

2007-06-02 18:03:30 · 4 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Singles & Dating

married over 10 years. we are in our 30's.
do men have this prolbem,
or is he a loser. I get mad cause he never has energy.he never comes on to me. never, i have to to him. i know he is not cheating so please keep that thought to self. he has never been a go getter. he slacks at home, but he works his butt off at work. what would u do?
talking to him is like talking to the wall. my dad is sick and he asked me what are you bringing home to eat--dad is hospital --

tried of this---------------------------what do u think?

he has cryed saying that he just does not have desire to do it- now how would u feel? he wanted to go to doctor. he ssays it hurts and crap.sounds gay to me.that is what i said

2007-06-02 17:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My situation: my boyfriend hasn't made the best choices thru out his life (if it's important at all, he's been to jail and has a couple of felonies).He said he's tried to be a "square" and get a job and stuff, but I think there's more he can do.He thinks he can't live a better life, that hes been condemned to live out the life the world has given him and the only thing he can do is be a drug-dealer. He thinks I deserve better and gave me the choice to stay or leave him and be "successful".Now, I'm wonderin if he even has a chance at changin his life, I know it's a risk I'm takin being with him, I know it will be a long hard and bumpy road, but that doesn't bother me (I have a family full of criminals and drug-addicts). I love him with all my heart and am willin to walk this path with him. Now, if I can help him believe in himself, can he change his life? What can he do? Can he get a job? Should he volunteer somwhere?Are there any examples of people who have turned their life around?

2007-06-02 17:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok since 8th grade my friend nd I met we have always talked good,really good,but i,a nerd,was kinda the quiet guy with her,so we went out anyways nd she broke up cuz well no duh i was so quiet and she wanted to be single,so of course she went out with the loser after me. shortly after he cheated on her nd we never talked until after she moved via email.so wen we talked she said she thought so much about me even a dream.im like woah,so we talk nd talk nd i'm feelin i have another chance because shes talking to me flirtaciously nd like she likes me,so we continue talking nd she doesn't go out with any guys,but one day im like so do we still have a chance nd,the most painful words,we're just friends nd after im like oh ok sadly so now on we talk,i haven seen her in person for 4 years, she scams nd aims for losers,but im different now,not being conceited,good looking slim guy,pretty built about to play college football, mature, respectful, can she reconsider us? cuz i wud treat her better.

2007-06-02 17:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok ive met this wonderful girl and I believe she is the one but when I asked her out she replied im not ready for a relationship right now I think we should be just real good friends,she also mentioned she was scared of getting into a relationship. Is she basically saying it wont happen? Or just wait? ARGG!! im confused!

2007-06-02 17:55:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating