how many times does a man want to have sex with wife in a week?

Question

let me see.. would u think that 2 times a month is normal?

i would like to say get off me
and no i am not ugly. i am not like i was, but is still have it

i hope----

so what is it that turns the man on to his wife, are some men not so driven?

Answer 1

Two times a month? Are you serious? I don't think is not normal, but where is the fun? What turns men on? Well my man likes surprises. I like to wait for him at night when he comes from work. I usually have some candles on and some nice sexy underwear on. Buying sexy outfits with turns him on aswell. He would be thinking on how I look on those all day long.

Answer 2

once every two months once a yr once a day however many times that work for the couple is normal.this is the only thing i can give you my opinion on because well i really don't understand what you mean by the rest of it this here
"i would like to say get off me
and no i am not ugly. i am not like i was, but is still have it

i hope----

so what is it that turns the man on to his wife, are some men not so driven?'
i have no idea of how to interpret what you mean he married you so he must been turned on by you at some time or another.

Answer 3

Well, most men will take it as often as they can get it. If a man isn't pursuing his wife, it usually means there is some type of problem (i.e. maybe he is tired of being rejected). It is very important for a man to feel wanted and love is a two-way street, so you probably need to approach him more often if you are feeling the need to be loved. You should also try to find out what his "love language" and you can read more about this on my blog at the link below.

You didn't mention your age. He may also have a physical problem or a problem with depression. Talk to you husband...look him in the eyes and tell him what you need and want...you might be surprised at his willingness to work with you.

Answer 4

It depends on age, physical condition, how busy the man is, how much responsibility he's burdened with, whether he's depressed, how good the marriage is, his testosterone level (some naturally have a low level), how he was raised to feel about sex, whether he's getting his jollies off porn or whether he's recently found himself more interested in other men. The two of you need to take this up with a marriage counselor. I'd say if a married couple goes a week without, something's wrong.

Answer 5

My hubby would take it every day if i offered. He tries every day, and says when hes old and i want it ill regret turning him down. Im allright with every other day or every two days, he cant go without for more than 2 days and weve been together for years and hes still like that. I dont have specifics, he says my laugh, my body and how i am turns him on, that i dont wear granny panties i wear cotton but i still wear boy shorts and i love him. But some men arent so driven.

Answer 6

Sometimes the stress of life, work, and a busy schedule can severely decrease a man's drive. I found that in myself and have worked to simplefy my life, get more sleep, eat better, excercize, and it's all beginning to pay off. 3 to 5 times a week now.

Answer 7

Mostly once a day every day , but if possible, sometimes maybe twice a day..during a week, depending on work week, stress, and other factors....except of course for pms week...then thats when both people have 1 week off and have to resort to other things..instead of sex..

Answer 8

sex , times a month, on average based on my experience thru counseling, the average is 2 times a week, but some European women like every night.
Its not how many times other people are doing it. It is how you and your spouse decide when and how often.
Tell him what you want
but listen to what he wants.

as for turn ons ? ask him.

Answer 9

That is abnormal for a healthy male. If he only asks for sex twice a month he is getting it somewhere else ; trust me. I am in the opposite position to you. I've quit asking my wife for sex because she is unresponsive. Now i have a "bit on the side". We haven't had sex in over a year and she is either clueless or in denial. Dumb b#@ch. What do women expect men to do if they wont give us any?!

Answer 10

well i love sex so id say every day even if its just a quicky
may be you nneed to spice things up were some sexy lingerie be a freak thats what a man wants girl watch some videos if you have to and try it on him if that doesent work tell him how you feel and what you want he is your husband