I just turned 33 and have no desire to have sex. I love my wife. and am not cheating. Is it natural to feel this way?
2007-06-02 20:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Call your doctor... It's not normal for a guy to have a low sex drive...
2007-06-02 20:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is unusual, don't know if its unnatural though.
Have you had a health check lately? There are medical conditions and medications that can affect your libido adversely. Physical and emotional conditions might be off putting too. Stress can be a real passion killer. Might be worth while to get a through check up.
And how does you wife feel about this? If your both happy with this, there is no problem. But if she has a problem - that she wants an active sex life - then you do need to work together to find a balance, a compromise that will work for both of you.
2007-06-03 03:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How is your life in general? If are overworked, and stressed out it is normal.
You are a guy, but women have the same problem if they are overworked, and stressed out.
If life is good in general, and you are content with it then you should check out if you have any physical ailments. Not necessarily with your sex hormones. It can be do to other causes. It is also possible that you had one bad experience with your wife and could not perform, and now you psychologically shut down the system.
2007-06-03 03:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether it is normal or not isn't the only question.
What is normal varies from person to person with different things, but the lack of sexual appetite may not be very healthy for your marriage.
Your wife has sexual needs that need to be taken care of and that you are responsible to her for.
She may start to believe that your lack of sexual appetite is due to her physical appearance and begin to look elsewhere for her needs to be fulfilled, unless her sexual appetite is low enough to where this is OK.
2007-06-03 03:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by runninfool 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but there could be something going on with you physically. Maybe your testosterone level is down. Time to get a referral to a urologist and get some testing done.
2007-06-03 09:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything can happen. Maybe you work too hard and the stress is affecting you. Whatever you do, don't get into any drug or medication because it is your head that lacks the desire, not the body.
2007-06-03 04:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's just a dry spell. You'll get your sex drive back. Maybe you could try different positions, foreplay etc.
2007-06-03 03:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes unfortunately. it is one thing if you just don't want to have sex with your wife, but not to have any sexual urges is another thing. are you asexual or depressed?
2007-06-03 03:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by llanna 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your not alone alot of people feel this way, some pepole can,t get enough sex while others couldn,t care less if they ever did!
2007-06-03 03:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by ska8ter 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
nope
go see a shrink or something
you got issue bud
don't know what they are
but you definitely got issues
2007-06-03 03:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋