When my girlfriend and I get into a fight over something, she will say one thing, then later change her story. When I tell her what she originally said, she completely denies it or says she doesn't remember saying it. Is she lying all the time or does she have a memory disorder? She sure seems to remember everything I said.
2007-06-02 20:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by s s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like I always say, watch Everybody Likes Raymond. It doesn't matter if you are right or not, you are always wrong. And it doesn't matter why you are wrong, you just are!
2007-06-02 20:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by maddog27271 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, she remembers, she just has issues with admitting that she is in the wrong...( I sooooo sympathize with you on this, for I have been there....and it's a battle that you will never win)
No matter how much you fight and try to prove her wrong, she will find any iota to show that she was right. It's an uphill battle, and unless you like constantly ramming into brick walls, I would suggest moving on....
And NO, it's not a woman thing......I am a woman, and I KNOW I am wrong probably everyday at one point or another.... This is a personality trait, not a gender trait.... YOU don't think guys have this problem?.....Guys just say "the woman is always right" because they r naturally the peace keepers....they don't want to argue it, cuz it will then cause a "problem" or drama.... I see their point, I do the same thing, but all you are doing is feeding that person the thing they crave the most...rightousness. No matter what your gender, some people just have issues with being wrong.....and you know what that's called?....I have a few suggestions: Stubborn, hard headed, proud........
2007-06-02 20:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That personality trait of hers is obviously conflicting with the general nature of how you do things and her unwillingness to admit fault will put a strain on you for the rest of your life until you realize that this is not a healthy relationship. You might want to think it is, even when you think of the best moments of the relationship, but if she has no conflict resolution skills whatsoever, you're going to be the one who has to take the fall every single. That's not fair. Whether or not you believe it yourself, you truly deserve somebody who is willing to put her differences aside for at least half an hour and who wants to genuinely discuss and solve the problem at hand. Once you do make that realization, she will take note. But, not in a positive way; she'll panic because she will realize she is going to lose her only outlet to project her faults onto. She will make a last stand and trying to do everything in her power to make you forgive her, and try to convince you that she can change. This will be a lie. Don't be swept up by the one and only act of kindness you will witness from her, when you have many experiences before you that shows she is not willing to change, and will be stubborn until the end. So be strong and don't give up your resolve. You deserve better.
2016-04-01 12:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, that made me laugh. Well you gotta remember. in a relationship "the girl is always right". Im pretty sure, by the sound of things, that its things like "i told you the last commerical was about Honda", "We had pizza last night, spaghetti was thursday" or "thats what i said, were you not paying attention i said i LOVE oprah, not hate her, your crazy" Don't worry these are petty little things you can let her win. If its something big or you just cant take it anymore. tell her it aggrivates you and it makes you mad how she is never wrong . i have a friend like that, its always like 8 vs 1 but he still stands his ground. If at times like that say something like "oh yeah, i guess you are right, your so smart, thats why im dating you,so you can do the thinking for us :P" it should get a laugh out of that or stop the arguing to remember why u guys are together haha sounds like a funny yet irritating relationship, good luck :)
2007-06-02 20:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by 1anOnly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that the most annoying thing in the world?! My boyfriend does the same thing! Is your GF a Taurus? Or born in the year of the Pig (Chinese Astrological Signs)? I am a very rational person until he pulls this kind of trip on me. My opinion, get out while you're young and vital. Don't waste your time in stupidity! Do a little compatibility research and seek out whichever sign is recommended. The Chinese were really brilliant in their discoveries and you will find their theories are pretty accurate and worth looking in to. Good searching and be happy! You're only young once! Make the most of it, life is made up of experiences, so get out there and experience sh*t!
2007-06-02 20:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like being told she's wrong. Do you? No one likes that. Practice letting the argument go without trying to "win." It's hard, but you'll come out ahead in the long run, at least with your girlfriend ... that is, if that's more important to you than "winning" an argument because you're right. If that's the case, then you'll always be a loser, at least where your girlfriend is concerned.
2007-06-02 20:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
seriously...I had an ex the same way....she could tell me every word I said(in the context that supported her argument), but could never quite remember what SHE said----i swear to you even if i recorded it she would deny saying it. Lose her man.........nobody can win in that situation. even if you love her.....she'll convince herself that you are a jerk and a liar and she'll lose you at the first opportune time(and that will be at the worst possible time for you---guaranteed)
2007-06-02 20:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by say what? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do when u guys START A FIGHT RECORD HER VOICEE so later on u can let her hear the recording and at the end shes going to turn out the wrong one ;)
2007-06-02 20:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your girlfriend is obviously didnt want to make things seems that she's wrong... she probably got a strong pride or so that she wont admit that shes wrong.. this shall be her negative part...
but maybe if you two are really in love... you probably should accept for who she is...
and another thing... sit down and lay things down... let her know that she cant be right all the time.. you cant always give in to her and she needs to understand...
if everything is possible... its better not to quarrel so much... isnt that better so it will not cause this kinda problem ?
my boyfriend and i hate to quarrel after so mani quarrelling... and now we give in to one another but he give in more but i'll give in when his in foul mood..
2007-06-02 20:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Daydream 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women dont like to be wrong. No matter what. A normal girl wont admitt but smart ones will.
2007-06-02 20:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋