Why do women like to be treated like crap? –part2?

Question

It should be a site on the topic, because I see a huge difference between guy’s answers and girl’s answers. I got the feeling that I’m not the first with this problem. That almost feels good. I’m not a freak anymore. By far the gordoncruse54 gave the most funny (although not 100% true, I hope) answer. It was just what I needed. Be sure that long time from now, I’ll drink for you. I’m not drinking now, but with the girls’ answers I’ll start to. And thank you for SOB/SOAB,… I’m kinda new in English, mate, so be gentle J
I’m not too available and also I do not stalk women. I do not enjoy what nature gave me since the results are so disappointing, so I’m not cocky. And I do not use women to do my laundry or housework since nowadays they don’t… It is a lot to talk about it, and too little space. And also I’m sure it’s me, because I value a kiss on the chick more than a French kiss, I prefer smalltalk and philosophy late in the night instead of smelly pubs and drugs, and I really love to look at my heartlady in the morning sleeping, considering myself lucky. Well… I’m not.

Answer 1

The only explanation that makes sense is that on some levels they must really enjoy it. Whether it is being cheated on, beaten up, whatever.

If they didn't like it, they wouldn't keep rejecting decent guys in favor of the ones who treat them like crap.

Answer 2

Look at women's rights in Muslim theocracies or where Islam has a strong influence on the governments. Biblical Christianity is little better, it is just that most societies where there is a majority Christians have become secular and either afford women equal rights and protections, or are on the way to that position. Edit: As for the two posters above me - arranged marriages and honour killings used to be the norm in Christian societies. This is not a Christian/Islam difference, but a theocratic/secular difference. Civil rights, women's rights, etc. have increased with secularism, not with Christianity.

Answer 3

You make your own luck. You make your own choices. Stop dating the ones that hang out in the pubs and do drugs and look for someone that likes the things you do. There are lots of them out there. I don't understand not liking what nature gave you means but that just might be the root of your problem. If you want to meet a pretty girl, go hang out at a department store-the men's department is next to the make up. If you want a smart girl, go to the library and check out the philosophy section. . .Try liking yourself for who you are. Then look for those that like you as you are. . .and have your values. You have to change your own luck. Smile at the world and go for it. There are plenty of women that take NO cr*p.

Answer 4

THEY DO NOT. It just looks like that because women love strong confident men. And women hate sappy desperate types. Ultimately a woman needs the man to be strong so if she is ever in trouble she has a man of strenght to lean on. If a guy can TCB and stack paper he can offer the leadership she is looking for and that is what women find attractive. If a woman snaps her fingers and you jump she has just lost all respect for you. Consider that relationship over. You have to charge it to the game and move on.

Answer 5

i think it's not like they take "every" kinda crap that guys give them .....it's complicated sometimes....because the emotions are involved and the lack of confidence and security makes them unable to make the right choice , i think it's not so easy for them to end the abusive relationship cause there has been something more , something chemical between them must have occured that makes the chain between them and ,for sure cause the women are having a harder time to control their emotions they tend to let this relationship go on and on and on ...so when you stand out of the relationship and have no contact with it , it's sure so easy to say "oh, wtf !she is gonna take all that crap and do NOTHING" but i say it's mostly because of the good things and the good traits that actually had happend before (obviously not now), that's only my piont of view ...hope it helps you;)

Answer 6

huh any woman who stays in a mental, emotional. and physical abused infused relationship is stupid for staying. simple really. to me there is " no i can't leave I love him"
how can anyone love a person who beats them or what ever it may be..... you should rephrase your question to.... "Why do SOME women like to be treated like crap....?".... as not all of us obviously do. and hey someone who will like you for you will come along one day so stop thinking yourself un lucky

Answer 7

They don't respect themselves. They are used to being treated that way that it's what they are willing to take and get. They dont know any other way men can please them besides the crappiness they received