ok since 8th grade my friend nd I met we have always talked good,really good,but i,a nerd,was kinda the quiet guy with her,so we went out anyways nd she broke up cuz well no duh i was so quiet and she wanted to be single,so of course she went out with the loser after me. shortly after he cheated on her nd we never talked until after she moved via email.so wen we talked she said she thought so much about me even a dream.im like woah,so we talk nd talk nd i'm feelin i have another chance because shes talking to me flirtaciously nd like she likes me,so we continue talking nd she doesn't go out with any guys,but one day im like so do we still have a chance nd,the most painful words,we're just friends nd after im like oh ok sadly so now on we talk,i haven seen her in person for 4 years, she scams nd aims for losers,but im different now,not being conceited,good looking slim guy,pretty built about to play college football, mature, respectful, can she reconsider us? cuz i wud treat her better.
2007-06-02 17:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just let it play out. If you guys are meant to be together, then you will be, so try to move on for now. Sometimes ppl just can't realize that they've got a great thing right in front of their nose. Be "just friends" for now, and she'll come to see that you're a great guy. Just don't rush things.
2007-06-02 18:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by angelfire22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....
My Fiance had the same problem when he was in high school
The best thing is just be straight with her
tell her how you feel and then if she still says no then just drop it
you will find someone better and that is the truth... no point getting wrapped up in someone and them not truly give two figs about you
yes you may treat her better but it is her life and if she wants to run herself into the ground then let her, just if that happens be a true friend and catch her when that does happen ( and not off the rebound by this time you will have found someone else and be happy)
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2007-06-03 01:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by littleangel_1500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just continue to talk to her. pretend that you think this friendship deal is working if she asks. just be the NICE guy that listens and earn points. maybe meet her if you are in the same area. really, as some more time passes, maybe some years she will realize that you are the good guy. i really don't know your age but if you can continue to be friends you never know. it's all about timing, moment and ppl to grow. i really don't believe that just because you are friends there can never be anything more. often good & long relationships start as friendship and end up in something more. just see the whole thing as a project. and whatever you do - don't rush this. it might completely ruin the whole thing.
2007-06-03 01:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Elisabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think u do have a chance man, just be cool :D alot can change in 4 yrs, just give her a chance to be around u again......good luck man!
2007-06-03 01:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's been too long. Forget her and move on. Good night!
2007-06-03 01:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww dats messed up, if i wus ur fwend i'll beat hur up just 4 u
2007-06-03 01:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by *_NAiiOOMEEH_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're in the friend zone, it's pretty damn hard to get out....
2007-06-03 01:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋