Family & Relationships - 2 June 2007

married over 10 years. we are in our 30's.
do men have this prolbem,
or is he a loser. I get mad cause he never has energy.he never comes on to me. never, i have to to him. i know he is not cheating so please keep that thought to self. he has never been a go getter. he slacks at home, but he works his butt off at work. what would u do?
talking to him is like talking to the wall. my dad is sick and he asked me what are you bringing home to eat--dad is hospital --

tried of this---------------------------what do u think?

he has cryed saying that he just does not have desire to do it- now how would u feel? he wanted to go to doctor. he ssays it hurts and crap.sounds gay to me.that is what i said

2007-06-02 17:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a low self esteem problem. I never think Im pretty enough, even though a lot of guys tell me Im pretty. I always assume they are just trying to be polite. Also, I get ackward around guys I really like and wind up seeming either "out of it" or quiet/ackward. Im afraid that I appear boring because I get so nervous I dont know what to say. I never believe I am good enough. I always wonder why someone would want to be with me and assume its only a matter of time before they realize that too. I have a hard time opening up to guys because I assume that they wont like what they see. Then I wind up getting really attached really fast to a guy if he shows interest because I crave the closeness of a relationship. Is there anything I can do to help raise my confidence?

2007-06-02 17:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

My niece is getting married and I'm thinking of buying a gift for the bridal showers. I've heard from couple of co-workers that if you are a close relative of the bride-to-be you should bring more than one gift for the bridal shower meaning you should buy more than one gift for the bridal shower. My question... in general do close relatives do that...is that the norm??? Or close relatives just buy one gift for the bride-to-be. Someone pls let me know!

2007-06-02 17:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by Help06 1 in Weddings

I was hoping to have advice on this. i am 23. i never had a relationship or even a real-life genuine friend. So, I currently have no in-person friends. I never went on a date or had my first kiss. I never even held hands. I never went to a prom, homecoming dance or a winter formal. I never went to the party or over the house of someone of the opposite gender. I am not sure why this happened. how do you feel about this?

2007-06-02 17:42:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:41:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:40:17 · 28 answers · asked by Ankelinda 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is very superstitious. She claims that if you are having sex and it goes past midnight, bad things will happen. Anyway, I usually keep this in mind whenever we get intimate, but last night I forgot, and she insisted that we stop halfway through it since it was already 11:59. I frantically tried to adjust the time on the clock, but it was too late. WTF?? Has anyone ever had sex that spanned the midnight hour and, if so, did anything come of it? (specifically, the, "little beaver and rooster people" coming out of the closet)

2007-06-02 17:36:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well , i gave advice to ppl before to not stay in a marraige if they do nothing but fight. but i am in same position myself. verbally abusive husband , always argue etc etc. i know i need to leave but for the love i have for my children keeps me here. i dont want them seperated. there are 5 kids. 1 before hubby 4 with hubby. i know it would break their hearts to be apart from one another cause they love each other alot. but it is hard for me to deal with the verbal abuse from him especially when my 6+7 yr olds call me and tells me the same things he does. other than his disregard about fighting in front of them hes a good father. but it has taken its toll on my health an well being to be putting up with "your a worthless mother" "whore, *****,slut" on a daily basis. Am I wrong to stay because i love my babies so much i dont wanna seperate them? I know i should get out of this marraige but cant seem to overcome the thought that it would be selfish of me to split the children up...

2007-06-02 17:35:22 · 10 answers · asked by war 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im dating my best friends brother...should I do that? Well heres the whole story...We went out before but my bff thought he was too touchy and stuff and then was mad at me for like a week and got Andr'e to break up with me and then that same day we got back to together cuz me and my bff made up and now me bff doesnt like us to even hold hands and I feel like shes tearing me and Andr'e apart...should I say something to her?...btw, shes gets mad like really easily

2007-06-02 17:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by KiaBoBia 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my brother go to these concerts and like to take good pics. One of us needs to be on shoulders for this, but when I ask him to put me on his shoulders, he wants to get on MY shoulders. What should I do. Should I let him even though he is a boy. He refuses to put me on his shoulders unless I put him on mine first. what should I do, I need to do this one way or another, concert pics are my hobby. He's kinda girly, and likes to be on top. he says he dont think he can hold me, but somehow we want these pics. she is also 1 YEAR older than him

2007-06-02 17:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by petite man 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married I dont think I love him anymore.He is mentally abusive,not only to me but our kids as well.Threatens alot although I dont know if he would ever carry those threats out.I want to leave but I feel trapped.I have no family to go to, no friends.I have no money or car.I dont know how I can ever leave...any suggestions PLEASE.

2007-06-02 17:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by angel_love572 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's my boyfriend and I don't want him to take it the wrong way.

2007-06-02 17:24:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very concerned about a potential problem with a wedding guest. I used to be friends with the giel 10 years ago but we have since grown apart. Upon hearing about our wedding she called assuming she was a bridesmaid. I found this odd as we had not been close or hung out in years. I broke the news that she was not in the party but if it meant that much to her I could fine a place for her doing something else. She started screaming at me and calling me names. I did not speak to her for a few months and then she called again. She acted normal and so I thought we would let it go. I sent her an invitation. Things seemed ok. Then I had a batcholette party and she was invited. She ended up freaking out at all my bridesmaids that she wasn't included and told me she didn't want to come and stormed out of the party. She then phoned me the day after and said it was my bridesmaids fault for planning the party without her. I expained this behaviour was not acceptable and she needed to appologize

2007-06-02 17:24:27 · 24 answers · asked by nakiska11111 2 in Weddings

summer but family is getting on my nerves. The dude's family still did not given me a list and my want me to invite everybody. What really sent me in my room crying is the fact, my dude always say we don't have the money or nobody is trying to help us; but we have a flat screen tv, xbox360, WII & Playstation 3. I don't understand if we can afford this things, why not a WEDDING? Am I, being a spoil brat? I got the rings & the invite, my anut is getting the cake & food. I don't know what to do. We been together for 9 years.

2007-06-02 17:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by JO`NAE 3 in Weddings

I have been cheated on a couple of times have confronted him many times and really went thru an emotional turmoil each time then i decided to take to get a grip of my life and met wonderful sumone online whom i have been talkin wit for a year now. It gave me sum relief and sumone to turn to. I have children so thats why i stuck on the marriage even though i am miserable. Now suddenly he has turned into a new leaf and here I am in this secret online r'ship and Im the one cheating. How do u reconcille this? Pls advise

2007-06-02 17:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by misha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 17:15:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy online, he's obviously the horny type, how do i make him not be so horny?

2007-06-02 17:14:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:13:51 · 17 answers · asked by tanlaask 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:12:39 · 5 answers · asked by Chris C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there is this guy i know, he always likes to say sexii and dirty things to me. He also stares at my body a lot. He always says I'm a great person with a great personality, but he always talks about some girl he says he knows. There is a pool party at his house soon. Does he like me? Wat do I do at the party?

2007-06-02 17:11:46 · 6 answers · asked by Still Doll << 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:10:21 · 14 answers · asked by tanlaask 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:07:15 · 25 answers · asked by Nadia H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

recently my sister-in-law verbially attacked me and my husband said that it was between us and that he could not back me up. she was lieing about everything. she said that I have personal problems and should see a professional, that I hate my life and the world and everyone in it. that I snap at everyone. that I don't have any friends and is a depressing person. that I bring nothing but gloom where ever I go. that I am the one that causes all the problems at work, that it is always me and I drive the other employees away. my husband just stood there and let her talk to me that way. I would back him up if someone was verbially attacking him.

2007-06-02 17:06:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you handle it when he is suppose too pick the child up for a visit and is a no show, and you try too keep the peace with this person for the childs sake?I am about too loose it, HELP.

2007-06-02 17:05:45 · 14 answers · asked by *~**~~**~~* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:05:19 · 8 answers · asked by tanlaask 3 in Weddings

2007-06-02 17:04:22 · 6 answers · asked by tanlaask 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 17:02:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like to have stubbles on my face , what features should the electric razor that im goin to buy have ?

2007-06-02 17:01:58 · 1 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

i mean obviesly a lot of girls like at least 2 girls daliy ask me if i am or i am ont circumsized lol and some of them say the like circumsized better byt why

2007-06-02 16:52:45 · 4 answers · asked by coolpolishguy13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 16:52:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce