He's my boyfriend and I don't want him to take it the wrong way.
2007-06-02 17:24:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that I don't love him ANYMORE, I never loved him to begin with. We've been going out for about a month now, and I'm only 15 and he just told me over Myspace and I'm freaking out!
2007-06-02 17:38:14 · update #1
I don't want to break up with him either, I just don't love him.
2007-06-02 17:46:23 · update #2
The difficulty is - did you tell him you did? Or give him the impression that you do/would with time? Has he declared his love for you?
The only way to proceed is with honesty. If you can do so gently, then do that. Tell him the truth. All good, real relationships should be based on that. Tell him you like him, enjoy his company, but just don't feel that special spark that happens when you're with the one you love. Tell him you don't want to hurt him, but that you respect him too much to lie to him.
He may still re-act badly, but you will have done the best thing for the both of you. Whether you two still spend time together is uncertain, but then nothing in life is.
2007-06-02 17:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then u already know the answer 2 ya question --like u said u love him so then just 2 tell him--but make sure he's alone when u 1st tell him and make sure u really feel that way deep down in ya heart and if u do then tell him that 2--it might help if yaw are somewhere romantic or if u take him 2 where yaw's 1st date was--that way it would be special 4 yaw---but most importantly make sure u really love him cause if u dont dont say trust me u will know when u are truely in love--because all u can think bout would be him night and day!!!
2016-04-01 12:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better sooner rather than l8er... The best thing to do is just sit him down and tell him. The longer you wait the more it will hurt him and the harder it will be for you. Just be easy with it... My ex told me to come over one night because she really wanted to see me... Then when I got there my stuff was packed up and rdy to go. Don't be like that. It will be hard to do but you know... If you're not happy then you're not happy.
2007-06-02 17:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Grant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you two have been going out just say I really apriciate the way you feel about me but my feeling aren't up to that stage with you I like you but I don't love you yet give me some time. But i still want to be with you
2007-06-02 17:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must of had a better impression of him when you first became his girlfriend!
Just open up and tell him you don't want to be his girl anymore!
He'll get the hint!
Good Luck!
2007-06-02 17:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just tell him, that is really the only way, Trust me it is better that way, I went through that samw stuff about 6 months ago. It hurts really bad at first, but it gets better
2007-06-02 17:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by kick flip 68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you no longer have the strong feelings for him that brought you together.Say that you would like it if you and he stayed friends.No matter how you break it to him he will feel some hurt.Just assure him it is you and that he did nothing wrong.
2007-06-02 17:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by john s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to him easy about it. if he takes it the wrong way,,,,, sorry but, it falls on him
2007-06-02 17:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tim O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you love him if he's your BOYFRIEND?
2007-06-02 17:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋