Family & Relationships - 2 June 2007

I catch the bad guys and that seems to intimidate a lot of men. Any ideas on how to deal with this. Maybe not tell them what I do but I dont want to lie. What do you think ?

2007-06-02 13:37:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think of myself as straight but 2day i kissed my best friend'd (girl) boyfriend - hu is bi 4 a laugh bt it got quite serious an now i think im bi, her an her bf say its fine but i feel reli wierd, is it ok 2 be a bisexual?

2007-06-02 13:34:24 · 23 answers · asked by dead0609 1 in Singles & Dating

HONESTY: WE ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP
WE JUST SEEM TO ENJOY EACH OTHER'S SENSUAL QUALITY TIME. I AM WITH SOMEONE AND I REALIZE HE IS SINGLE AND LOOKING.
I AM WONDERING IF I GOT TOO CLOSE THAN HE REALIZED OR WANTED TO ME.
6MONTHS OF THIS QUALITY TIME OFF/ON
HAD A ACKWARD INCIDENT HAPPEN BETWEEN US AND HE ASKED ME TO CALL HIM BACK AND I GOT BACK TO HIM 4 HOURS LATER. HE WENT OUT OF TOWN WITH OUT A WORD( DURING THIS I WAS CALLING EVERY OTHER 2 DAYS) I FINALLY GET HIM WHEN HE CAME BACK ONLY FOR HIM TO BE IN A BUSINESS MEETING. I NEVER Heard FROM HIM AGAIN. I CAN BE HONEST AND SAY I AM SO PISSED OFF AND I FEEL REJECTED BUT I GOT TO DEAL.I AM JUST WONDERING WHY A PERSON WOULD GO FROM HAVING AN INTEREST TO THEN JUST DISS me LIKE THAT WITHOUT AN EXPLANATION OF ANY KIND. I MEAN COME ON I THOUGHT I WAS TALKING TO AN ADULT MAN FOR CRYING OUT LOUD. OPINIONS GRANTED.

2007-06-02 13:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by roughdelicate 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 13:30:49 · 8 answers · asked by Jaime S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 13:23:07 · 21 answers · asked by Joce 1 in Weddings

ight here the thing when i found out i was pregnant and told my parents they were fine about it because i am old enough etc
but i noticed they started acting different like they were newly married(all cuddly n all that stuff) they were not really like that as much before and feels like i am having 2 be the parent in the house because they are always doing stuff like blarring music and things that people my age would do. n tbh its startin 2 make me feel out of place.
is that just there way of reacting 2 be grandparents?
this is there first grandchild they are in there early 40s

2007-06-02 13:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 in Family

I'm 48 twice divorced, hard working, own my own home, fit and active!!!!!

2007-06-02 13:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for three years but we have been together on and off for six. We were both very young when we met and fell in love right away. We have both said hurtful things to each other and lost a lot of feelings along with trust. We love each other so much and now have a son to think about. I have ran out of ideas and still don't want to give up but happiness just seems so far away. I could really use a non-bias opinion on how to fix things. Is there any hope?

2007-06-02 13:09:31 · 1 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 13:08:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i pefer the man ask out the women but my friends say let the women do it so i can know they like me so what do u pefer

2007-06-02 13:05:49 · 18 answers · asked by $SpeedSoldier$ 2 in Singles & Dating

Married 23 years, two lovley daughters, good std of living, holiday home abroad, very few finanicial worries, but she found another man and left me & the kids, without warning, jI ust got back from work one day and she was gone. I thought we had a fairly good marriage except for last few weeks when she went cold on me. Did not see what was coming. She now makes very little contact. She has made very little contact with her kids, texts every now and then. No contact with her mum, dad brother & Sisters. Refuses to pay anything towards mortgage or anything, but still insists she will get 50% of everything when we divorse. She don't want divorse yet, cant afford it she says. But managing to pay for rent on new home with this man, buy new car and new laptop. Problem is, I cant think of anything else but her, the things we have done together etc . She is constantly on my mind. Its driving me mad. I still love her so much, but she don't seem interested.

2007-06-02 13:01:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 13:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by keio 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 13:00:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i just broke up with my girlfriend because i think i loved her too much and she loved me too much. too much to the piont where we figured that we shouldnt be together. And really she was saying it, then i was saying it and now we are both saying it. Our lives just didnt match up. but our love for each other was pure yet us being so young didnt bind us together in an enviroment of training and changing like they do with the married people. and i really dont have the confidence or patience to wait until 4 or 5 years until she grows up and realizes that i was what she needed, (or maybe thats just me) but its all good and im moving on but i know i still love her and she loves me, but theres just something there thats not meant to be, and i hate it. has anybody been through this? and whats the best thing to do in anybodies opinion?

2007-06-02 12:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by the sponge 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin killed herself last year. of course im not over it and never will be. sometimes i wanna cry but i dont. i dont like to cry cause my nose gets all stuffy plus my mom makes a big deal about it. if im gonna cry i dont want people to feel bad for me. it doesnt bother me when some people ask but when my friends and family make a big deal over me crying i hate it. how do i deal with it? should i let myself cry even if i dont want to?

2007-06-02 12:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by ~redneck~sweetheart~ 2 in Family

2 years of separation, at least. Please be honest ;)

2007-06-02 12:57:10 · 9 answers · asked by Hmmmmmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

ok I have this friend...she is not me
shes pritty, her nose is a little bit big for her face but not weirdly big, she has big brown eyes and curl/wavy brown hair. She is 5'3 and 100 pounds, shes very happy and entergetic but can be serious. She is very outgoing and has a ton of friends, guys and girls. Everyone says they love her because she is so nice. she doesn't swear unless she is mad, she goes to church. she is not really tan but not weirdly pale. she plays sports and is athletic, she has long muscular legs and size B boobs. Shes frirty and competitive, and sort of confident, but not overconfident. she has a bad temper,but most say its "silly" and they laugh when shes mad, wich makes her feel better. shes funny and sort've a class clown. shes not very smart, but gets decent grades, she doesn't hav alot of common sence but shes creative and has alot of good ideas. she likes to shop but doesnt spend too much. most say shes cute funny and nice but guys don't like her. Why is this?

2007-06-02 12:55:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, i like this guy right, but he likes me and my best friend? what do i do i don't want to tell her to back off, b/c i don't want to hurt her feelings! but all i know is we is going to go out he said this, but he doesn't show he likes me. what is happening, and what should i do?Wait but wheni talk to him on the phone he completly opens up to me, and we geet closer to eachother, we can spend a minimum of and 1 hour on the phone! advice? just tell me wahts going on and what to do!?

2007-06-02 12:55:36 · 3 answers · asked by lilmama_horses_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I think about this i break into tears. i've tryed get help from counselors but they never help. so i need your help.

my father severly abuses me =[

he recently started drinking and ever since my mom died i have no one to go to and talk to when i really need them. my dad comes home at 2 or 3 in the morning, wasted. I've tried getting help for him but he threatens to kick me out and beat me. It hurts me so much to look at all my cuts and bruises... I cry myself to sleep every night.. if only i can have a normal father! when i talk to him he slaps me across my face. we used to be so close but now i feel like he doesn't know me. im 17 and i dont want to do anything bad to him.. i love him... i mean hes my father.... i just need some help to straighten him out. I would love it if i had my father again! please help me i would greatly appreaciate it. =/

2007-06-02 12:51:49 · 16 answers · asked by AmAnDa K 1 in Family

i'm not the most suave person when it comes to asking ladies out and i have a dillema.

i have an acquantance from church who i would like to ask out.

now, the only problem is i only see her at church and on top of that I learned that she will be moving away in a few weeks so that makes tomorrow (i.e. sunday at church) the last day I will probably ever see her again.

i don't want to regret not having asked her out later. how do you think i should approach this situation and how should i ask her out?

2007-06-02 12:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by tom 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends are not available tonight and the ones that are I dont particualry want to hang out with. I dont have a car. Does someone want to talk to me over yahoo messanger?

2007-06-02 12:47:52 · 6 answers · asked by GiorgioArmaniRules 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so I am a university student and I am attracted to my teacher hes like 3 yrs older than I am. Now I dont say nothing during class and he never picks on me. When he teaches he looks at everyone in the class and looks at me in this strange way then looks away quickly as if to avoid eye contact. When we pass each other there is this strange uncomfortable tension between us...anyway I remember this one time I had gotten a very bad cut on my leg and my friend went into the office to get a bandage my teacher came out and tended to my leg which by the way my friend was about to do he dressed it and everything. Then this other time he saw me on the corridoor and tried to talk and forgot my name..by the way he knows my name. The very first day of school every one needed to introduce themselves but he knew my name what are the odds huh? he tries to avoid me and any eye contact. is it he likes me but afraid that because he's a teacher and i a student it may cause problems and is with holding?

2007-06-02 12:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by hershey's kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 23-year-old lady & all I've ever known is fear, loneliness & emotional pain. Over the years, it has become worse. I'm the youngest in my family. My older brother is married & has his own place, leaving my older sister, myself & our parents. My family are ruining my life & my sister drove my brother away. My sister has a severe personality problem, is very paranoid and suffers from depression. She is a workaholic & constantly invades my bedroom & goes through my stuff. I have tried to ask her nicely to stay out of my room & even lock my door every time I go in & out but she always breaks in. My father will never let me have freedom of speech & I feel limited in the usage of words to express my feelings (swearing, etc). He's also trying to stop me from leaving home. As for my mother, she's always loved my sister more than me & it really hurts. I DESPERATELY need to escape & get my freedom but I have nowhere to go and I have no friends to turn to. Please help me!!!

2007-06-02 12:43:44 · 10 answers · asked by Mel B 1 in Family

see my parents have this "Thing" about me dating black people. I wouldnt exactly say they are racist but.. There gonna find out soon or later. I just dont know what to tell em.
I mean i go to almost a all black school so.. I am just scared they will throw me out of the house or something?
help?

2007-06-02 12:43:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not sure what the intention is but my friend who is a girl has not called me back in 3 days. We ussually go hang out atleast once a week and lately she has been going out with other guys. Does it mean she lost her interest to hang out with me? The last time i saw her i gave her a kiss on the cheeks as a friendly good bye. i left her a text message on wednesday, a miss call on thursday, and a voice message to hang out on friday. I even asked a friend who is going out with the sister to see if she is mad at me, and the sister said no. I just don't get why she hasn't called, i've known her for 7 months...any opinions?

2007-06-02 12:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for around 2 months. All of our friends have either kissed or french kissed. We have kissed eachother on the cheek, but I'm not sure if I want to kiss him on the lips yet. I mean I want to but my older sister hasn't had her 1st kiss and I don't want to kiss someone before her. We are going to my friends house tomorrow, her boyfriend is going to be there too. I KNOW that they will kiss, and he said that we are going to do truth or dare and that he is going to make us kiss. Should I kiss him or not? And if yes, what do I do? Thanks!! ♥

2007-06-02 12:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by SexyBack 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe I'm thinking too much about this, but I'm thinking and hoping at the same time that this girl likes me. I've been friends with her this year, and I went to a couple of parties with her, even her Sweet 16, which I got an honorable mention.

Now, I'm up to the point of considering to ask her out, but I'm just worried if I should do it in the first place, because I've been denied 2 times, 1 in a humiliating way that still bothers me to this day, and one more denial would just crush my morale.

With the school year coming to an end, I'm feeling more and more pressured to ask her out, because we talk most of the time in school, and that was the basis of a good chunk of conversations. Now with that chance slipping away, I don't know what to do with myself.

The girl I like tends to be really friendly and playful, but I have no clue if that's towards me, being treated as if I was a friend, and nothing else, or either she's flirting with me.

2007-06-02 12:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never regretted my dissciousin to do this.. but i read on here and here other people now sometimes i wonder if i was wrong.. my bf ex gf told him she would take more child support if she could.. and i hear other women say the same thing.. but i gave my ex a 40% reduction in child support.. he has to live as well and he will go in half with me if our child need something...was i being stupid..should i have taken him to the cleaners..is that what having children and being a coustiodal parent all about..or are people like that because most people want give the extras when a child needs it..and do you consider me lucky because my ex would.. i know i consider myself to be lucky to have one that would help with the extras..but it is in the divorce that he do so

2007-06-02 12:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 12:33:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so my boyfriend and I are planning on going to the movies.

But yet, I'm nervous...if he makes a move to kiss me, what do I do?


We've only been dating for 3 days and I'm in 8th grade and he's in 10th.

2007-06-02 12:30:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating