i think of myself as straight but 2day i kissed my best friend'd (girl) boyfriend - hu is bi 4 a laugh bt it got quite serious an now i think im bi, her an her bf say its fine but i feel reli wierd, is it ok 2 be a bisexual?
2007-06-02 13:34:24 · 23 answers · asked by dead0609 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't help who you like. You should find a guy to have sex with and see if you like it.
2007-06-02 13:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
being bi can be great and believe me, I should know! There are some problems though i.e. if you keep changing your alliances then you need to get to meet some very understanding people. I have a boyfriend who is very understanding and is fine when I want to spend some time with a woman but I try not to do anything that would upset him. I think it could be more difficult if you were dating a woman unless she were very open minded. Guess that it can give you the best of both worlds as long as you are careful. Take care and let us know how it goes!
2007-06-03 10:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by diggermol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, there is nothing at all wrong with being bi!
If that's who you are then no one can say anything about it.
I myself kissed my bi friend(girl), i was sure i was straight, but after that i fell for her in a big way. for 2 years i felt unsure of who i was cos i didn't find any woman attractive except her. anyway to cut a long story short, we had a few encounters then she stopped talking to me a year ago and we haven't spoke since. it made me realise i am straight because no matter how hard i try, i didnt find women attractive.
anyway what I'm trying to say is, if you are bi its OK, if your not then that's OK too.u cannot change who u are just because u are scared about what others think. who knows, u may be going through a phase, just take it easy, take each day as it comes cos only time will tell! good luck xxx
2007-06-02 20:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by MissyKGodsAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, although, I'm not Bisexual. Being Bi just means, you like a specific feature of someone that is so extra, you crave it. Being bi is better then homo because, well, Homo's tend to go all out on there homoness, and occur for rapes and such
2007-06-02 20:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brian W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you typed out your words, your post would be EVER so much easier to read.
One kiss does not a bisexual make. However, if you are attracted to both males and females, then bisexual would be the appropriate label. No, there's nothing wrong with that...just be honest with the people you date about it, and realize that most would still expect you to be monogamous while dating them.
Be whoever you are...in time you may end up going one way or the other, or sticking with both...be safe, be honest, be responsible. It's all good. âº
2007-06-02 20:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are the only one who can determine your sexual orientation. Why did you kiss this other male, and was it pleasant for you. Maybe you are not a bisexual. If you suspect you are gay, but feel better defining yourself as a bisexual because it sounds more socially acceptable, then define yourself that way.
2007-06-02 20:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone experiences bi-sexual curiosities whether they want to admit it or not. Dont be so hard on yourself.
If you enjoyed it... maybe you need explore those feelings more. If you didnt - dont.
Good luck in finding yourself
2007-06-02 21:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't like kissing the guy, chances are you are straight. If you didn't like kissing a guy, why did you do it in the first place? You do things on a dare?
2007-06-02 20:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your bisexual it's completley okay. You just have to be able to be comfortable with yourself and relax. It can be a phase and it may pass. Don't try to hard to be someone your not.
-alec
2007-06-02 20:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by alec.singer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's ok. But are you sure you're not trying to fit in??
leading people on about sexuality is very negative.
Also , you shouldn't be doing anything with your best friends boyfriend, that makes you a s*l*u*t.
2007-06-02 20:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by Himiko 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um does it matter the fact that it's your best friend's boyfriend? And she's okay with that? Wow... That's something new... Is it okay? Um... It depends on what your religion is. If you are a christian, it's not okay, if you don't have any religion, then it's okay....
2007-06-02 20:45:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋