because of his work schedule, I'm home alone with her for a few hours a day. not sure if i should mention it to him or not because she's the type of girl who would probably make up some crazy story that i was the one hitting on her or something like that...
2007-06-02 12:07:37 · 36 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's serious and she's not just joking, yeah. But I don't know what good that would do. If she makes up a story say "Stop lying." That almost always works for me.
2007-06-02 12:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Aint No Bugs On Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
He probably won't believe you anyway and the girl will just turn it around on you!
Just ignore her and try to put distance between you and her.
He will catch her with someone else sooner or later, just tell him that she is with someone else if you catch her and can find a way for him to see her flirting with the other guy.
Believe me, she will flirt with another some day and hopefully be seen.
If she is flirting with you, she surely is doing the same with others too, just protect your friendship if you value it by not causing undo stress on him.
A girl isn't worth a true friendship.
As a matter of fact, she may be just trying to stir up trouble and not even interested in you at all.
Be very careful around her!
2007-06-02 12:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront her and tell her to stop hitting on you, but get her in a position where you can record the things that she is doing, the whole conversation and if she try her crazy story, then you can blow the pants right off her ( oh, we're trying to keep her from taking them off. HA HA )
2007-06-02 12:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to say anything.
She's flirting. Is she embarrassing you? If not then you must be flirting too.
Oh! The pains of having a darling gal around who wants to play with all her little and big brothers. Of course the game is the same, just the distance you can go is different.
Watch out how far you take it or you will lose the demon of guilt upon your mind.
2007-06-02 12:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by d4d9er 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a micro recorder and when she starts, record it without her knowledge, yes it's legal. Then tell him about it and play the recording. She most likely has a history of playing this game. Then tell tell her to knock off her antics.
I tend to believe you're correct in assuming she would manipulate the situation to clear herself. After all, if she hasn't the character to be up front with him, what makes you think you can trust her if she elects to do something with you? Of course she'll throw you under the bus to save her own skin.
2007-06-02 12:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by wtshimmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you value your roommate's freindship, I would suggest that you explain that fact to his 'girl' directly. Given the fact that you obviously recongnize how repungnent her actions are, I trust that you can articulate your take on the situation to her without further coaching. Hopefully, she will 'get it.' It may not work though...and she may try to drive a wedge between you and your roommate. If your friendship and trust is stronger then his desire her her attentions, than all will work itself out...even if that does not prove to be the case, at least you can sleep with a clear conscience. Blessings.....
2007-06-02 12:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stevie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell him. I only say that because if his girlfriend denies it (which she will) or his ego gets bruised he'll get angry with you, and you'll still have to live with him. I'd confront her and tell her to leave you alone! Roommates suck because you come into it friends and then almost always you leave hating each other, and girlfriends don't help that situation. Good luck though!
2007-06-02 12:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by pditty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend you need to tell him but be careful because these things can sometimes go the wrong way.
If she convinces him that it's not true then he will see it as if you are jealous and just trying to break them up. She has to get caught in the act.
2007-06-02 12:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should let your roommate know that his girlfriend has been hitting on you, and let him know that you don't appreciate it. Also let him know that it would be best if she doesn't come to your room unless he is there with her. that way he knows your not trying to take her away from him, and she can go flirt with someone else just not you.
2007-06-02 12:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, do tell your roommate about what's going on. That's very important that you do. Who cares if she gets mad about it, that's her own doing. Get her before she gets you.
If it's not really bothering you that she's hitting on you and you don't find yourself tempted by her then there's really not a reason to tell him.
2007-06-02 12:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋