He reminds me how beautiful I am everyday but suggests I need a little nip and tuck on my chest region. I'm a 36C and he wants it one cup size bigger and a lift. I'm 23 female. What do u guys think?
2007-06-05 13:09:36 · 39 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do people get so outraged at his question? I think if you make your girl into his own persion of sexy girl is a great idea.........
2007-06-06 04:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by bust15nutz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on what kind of relationship you have but if my husband suggested I get a cup size bigger, I'd be offended. Maybe you can offer a trade: you get a boob job, he gets surgery to fix something on himself for you.
Again, I'm not you or your boyfriend, but I think it's rude and unreasonable to make comments like that to your girlfriend. Besides really, a 36C isn't big enough for him? Puhlease. He may need to grow up a little.
2007-06-05 13:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ahni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young and perfect. He is a sleeze. If he doesn;t love you the way you are, find someone who does!
One day there won't be enough plastic surgery to fix the fact that you will eventually get old, and he will dump you for something else that pleases his eyes.
He isn't ever going to love you with his HEART... only his EYES
2007-06-05 13:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by julianwhimsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds kinda like an insult. Surgery is serious stuff and painful too. Ultimately, it should be your decision, not his. You're prob fine. Looks like he needs to adjust his mind a little. Maybe it's his way of projecting his insecurities onto you. Something htat has nothing to do w/your breast size. I say you're fine. =)
2007-06-05 13:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u need to be insulted but do YOU feel like u need the surgery? i'd hate 2 think that ur one of those females that does EVERYTHING her bf wants her 2 do. i'm assuming u do have a mind of ur own and if those thoughts never crossed ur mind, then u don't need to go through with it. see how easy that was?
2007-06-05 13:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think BF needs a kick in the A**. and please tell me you know this.
Let's give him a little nip and tuck. Let's say we give him a set. Doesn't sound like he has any.
Real men don't need a manufactured woman. They do fine with the real thing!
2007-06-05 13:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by my_secret_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he doesn’t like you for who you are or what you look like then he can go. You’re his girlfriend, not a doll for him to mold. Besides if he really loved you he wouldn’t try to change you. Not to mention, what else is he going to want you to change about yourself down the road? Tell him how beautiful you think he is but suggest he needs a penis enlargement. =)~
2007-06-05 13:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by PhoebeBB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just being a pompose pig, but that's a typical guy. Tell him does it really matter what size your chest is. Something must be pleasing him for him to be with you now so why change it up now.
2007-06-05 13:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i would be insulted. he should be happy with the way you look i think that 36C size breasts are plenty to suite his needs. he should be happy with what he's got. I'm a 38C and i wish i were smaller!
2007-06-05 13:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by anabel. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try 2 discuss this issue with him first, try 2 clear ur point of view,then anyhow, u must consult more than one doctor 2 know if their any side effects on the long run or not, finally, u both should accept each other whatever ur look is!!!
2007-06-05 13:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do what makes you happy because if you end up not being together then your stuck wit breast you didnt want in the first place. So if you want bigger breast then get them if not then stay the same. Besides if you want them and he is paying go for it
2007-06-05 13:13:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋