Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

should we compromise and only get one boob done? that way we both get what we want....it has to be at least a c cup.

2007-06-05 02:43:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 02:42:18 · 25 answers · asked by missTQ 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents are ridiculously overprotective and i have never done anything to abuse their trust but they still dont give me my freedom. there is a sleepover coming up and my parents are telling me i cant go. im not little kid, nearly 17 and i was just wondering how to fite this thing with minimun problems?? how can u convince to incredible stubborn narrowminded parents??

2007-06-05 02:40:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-05 02:40:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend the 52 year old came round yesterday night at 1 am, our baby was awake so he attending to her, he did't even speak to me the Whole night, if I sat near him he moved, at night he slept on the sofa, I asked if he wanted a blanket etc.he said no, but I did come back and put one other him as he was asleep.

In the morning the same he didn't speak to me at all, when he left I unlocked the middle door for him and took the baby, said say bye bye to daddy and went into the living room, he then left in a huff, left the door next to the front door open and went. aarh

Yesterday morning when I phoned him if we could be friends for the babies sake, because the tension is hurting me as it seems that he HATES ME! but before he slaped the phone down he say the problem is that he loves me, he doesn't hate me?

I dont understand, I thought being in your 50s you were more grown up, 40s is the midlife crisis.

Can anybody tell me why hes acting like this?

2007-06-05 02:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the process of moving in with my boyfriend and I'm feeling so irritated recently, and wondering whether or not I made the right decision. Will these feelings subside as I get more settled into his house?? I hope so.

2007-06-05 02:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

I never really had any serious relationships in my teen years. Then when I was 18 I (regrettably) had an affair with a much older, married man. It lasted 3 tiring years and its done now. And I'm wondering (although I'm not wanting one right now) if I will be able to have a 'normal' relationship with a guy now? At the moment I'm completely put off by guys because of him, but in the future I would like to be in long term relationship. Is this possible for me anymore? and if my future man asks me about my past lovers/boyfriends..how would I go about answering that, because the affair isn't something I want to brag about?

2007-06-05 02:38:07 · 5 answers · asked by Danu 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 02:36:39 · 14 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We are newly married. Sex life is great for the last 7 months.
Issues are that she complains me about looking at girls.
also, she thinks I lie about small things...

when I am angry when she accuses me of things..she says I
do not love her..she says if I loved her I would never be that angry and look like complete stranger.

I believe relationship patience. she is only 22 and I am 28.
may be she is grown up and I am focusing on small issues more. May Be i am expecting too much perfection from her..

what do you guys think..I believe relationship grows by focusing on positiveness and work on weakness..

please share your thoughts and let me know how much
you came from your experience when you were newly married and how you learnt to work on it and grew stronger

2007-06-05 02:35:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so yes we broke up he went to the races with his friend for the weekend...but i wonder if he slept with another girl...I wonder because when he broke up with me he went to call me jen slipped and called me ashley which is my real name...But then when we got back togeather he was doing things in bed that he has never done before y is that could it be because he is afraid for me to find out or what is it if you know the answer leave me one and thank you for all your help!

2007-06-05 02:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you like a girl/boy to keep you on your toes or do do you prefer the easy life?

2007-06-05 02:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know if ive posted about this yet...but my ex and i dated for almost two years...about 5 months ago, he decided he didnt want to be with me any more...we had broken up for two weeks previous to this time, i think it was like a month and a half that went by and he left me again...i know i shouldnt care, and that i should move on, but its like, hes sticking in my life for some reason. he wont talk to me for three weeks at a time, then bam, he unblocks me on msn and asks how im doing, or texts me randomly. when we first broke up, he talked to me alot more. i dont understand why he keeps me in his life, its been months, and he says he wont take me back. why the hell is he still keeping contact with me? he says we will never be able to hang out. so like, why? why keep doing this to me?

2007-06-05 02:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by creepout 2 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I are getting married in November. He has a fully furnished house we will be living in. We do not need any kitchen utensils and electronics or any furniture. To be quite honest we need money for our honeymoon and the wedding. How should I convey this? Do I write a letter and include it in the invites? If so, what should I say? Please Help! Open to any suggestions! Thanks.

2007-06-05 02:29:43 · 28 answers · asked by Rose D 1 in Weddings

there is this women at my work, she is married, she is always changing her story, one minute its she only lives with her daughter, the next minute its, her husband is back in the house, then its he comes and goes but doesnt sleep there, then now she says she is trying to get him out of the house. she claims she is going through a divorce, one minute she wants the divorce, the next minute he wantsit, what the heck is wrong with this women?? we have gone out twice and every time i question her on things she looks defensive? any advice is welcome?

2007-06-05 02:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by louvandam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u use it?

2007-06-05 02:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 24 years old still works at Kroger. Thje only car he owns is because he wrecked his moms van after he had it for a year. The van was worth 4000 dollars he had it for a year and only paid mom 200 dollars. after the wreck hi mom wrote off the payments for 1000 so he bought a car with the remainder. Now He actually saved money for a motor cycle . Recently he started bragging about this and that and had the nerve to ask me and my GF why we are broke. my GF have live out of moms house since we were 18 and have payed our bills accordingly but have little extra cash so he thinks were broke. He pays a total of 140 to live at moms housxe a month and then only has insurance to pay for. Also His sis is almost thirty and still living at moms house as well. whos wierd me or him and should I be mad.

2007-06-05 02:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by fivelow83 2 in Family

For RCs in India, what is/are the :
a) Rules to obtain divorce (with or without mutual consent )

b) weightage given to the decisions of the Church and the court, if different, i.e, one grants divorce and the other does not? Whose decision will be considered final and binding, and is it possible to re-appeal?

2007-06-05 02:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man with issue to leaeve his matrimonial home and be sleeping elsewhere. Pls, your answer will be apraised when ur best answer come to me.

2007-06-05 02:16:18 · 3 answers · asked by joy o 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for 7.5 years and we have 5 little girls together. Over the course of our relationship he has kept me from working or going to school, or basically anything that would give me a leg up should I ever decided to leave. He has never once bought me a christmas present, or a birthday present. In fact he has forgotten my birthday completely 4 out of the 8 years we have been together. He has made me feel like nothing. Like a weak, dirty little animal with no purpose except to serve him. He does not treat our girls well either. He yells all the time, makes them go to bed at 7:00, and his tone is just- mean. There are so many things he has done in the past to hurt me badly that I just can't let go of, and he really hasn't changed much over the years. When he touches me, my skin crawls. I finally have the nerve to get up and leave when the school year ends. Am I doing the right thing?

2007-06-05 02:12:32 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 02:10:22 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is a seemingly insignificant issue, but just wanted to see if anyone had any thoughts on it. My boyfriend and I are "taking a break." The problem is that our lives are very intertwined (we've been together 3 years and have 4 kids between us from previous marriages.) Tonight is posing an issue. We bowl on a league together. I'm debating not going tonight to keep from being around each other. Am I being childish by not going, or is that taking the high road and allowing him the space he's asked for?

2007-06-05 02:06:54 · 15 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 02:04:46 · 32 answers · asked by veronica r 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been separated over a year, but always "working on it" b/c we both still really love and care for each other. Tough b/c last 6 months in different cities b/c of work. There are lots of issues that I can still see solving if we both agree to really work at it.

But my main concern has always been that no matter how close our hearts are, our minds are far apart. Often, he can't understand what's interesting to me - books I read, films I watch, writing I do. He loves sports TV. I have part of a master's degree - he never finished college. I'm a grammar freak and he ... isn't. But we DO have fun at movies, restaurants, sports, and traveling.

Even now, we haven't gone to other people, but I always worried that if I met someone more compatible, I would be tempted.

Basically, this is something I don't see how he can fix, so if our marriage is to have a chance, I have to accept him "as is." Anyone have experience in how to do this? Married to someone with a different language even?

2007-06-05 02:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother and I are going to my cousin's bridal shower, and my mom wanted to split the cost of one of the nicer gifts on the registry with me. Is it okay if we give a gift together, or should she receive a seperate gift from both of us? I'm only 18 if that matters at all.

2007-06-05 01:58:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay. I've known my best friend for 15 years. we dated a little in highschool just never worked out. He was a player and played me. He has long since changed. We know each other inside and out. He finally realized in april when i had my official big wedding that we are ment for each other! I would never cheat on my husband so we are strictly friends. the problem is I am happiest when i'm with my best friend. All my husband and i do is fight. He is disabled and when we married it was agreed he would be mr. mom. Well that isn't happening. I go to work and he also expects me to take care of the house and cook dinner all the while he is home all day. I don't know what to do! please help!

2007-06-05 01:57:58 · 13 answers · asked by catdogpenny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf & I av been seeing eachother for 8 Mnts now,got intimate 4 monts after and we've been good since then.he's a man's man.and I love him to pcs,I know i want to spend the rest of my life with him.he's very gentle with me,never holds a grudge,he's not verbally or emoitionally abusive,he's very objective,he says he's sorry when he's wrong&accepts when his flaws are pointed out,he corrects me in private and he so sweet[trys to sing to me],though he gets insensitive sometimes,it's not on purpose.tells me he'd never hurt me,luvs a lot of things about me.He gets verbally unxpressive with his emotions and he shuts me out and that hurts he doesn't no this.he looks at me & i know he cares.but he's nevr told me 'HE LOVES ME' & i wonder why,he has not doubt about the way i feel about him but why won't he just tell me ?
2> In all of 6mnts we made love 12 times do you think thats ok,is his libido [ok,average,high or low] I'll be 26&he'll be 30 both of us this year.Finally do you think we'r ok?

2007-06-05 01:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by beautyliz 1 in Singles & Dating

They have a lot of stuff together, who leaves, who gets what?
They are in their 50s. They have to be apart that isn't an option, but how do they move on?

2007-06-05 01:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by minnieab 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin keeps sending me digusting text messages such as "would you be my whore?" i try to tell his grandma but she thinks it's funny(he lives with her), show my dad and he calls him warning him not to continune(pardon my spelling) but his grandma calls and tells me off for getting my dad involved, so he comes back with more filthier messages witch i am not going to reapeat on this question but the words in it do contain a c at front and a t at end. i really need help. i'm sceard if i go to police this could break up my family as my aunt will tell some cottonball story turning my gran and other members of my family againt me. help.

2007-06-05 01:50:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-05 01:44:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I m frustrated and wants to marry her by this year I know I just cant live without her my parents have already approached but got a negetive answer now its really hurting me a lot and I am not able to concentrate anywhere until my marriage date is been finalised but the question comes in how what should I do to get her she loves me alot even I love her more than that please please please help THANK YOU
WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HER

2007-06-05 01:44:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings