how can you tell if a shy guy has a crush on you?

Answer 1

ask him, i dont get why people cant say or just ask..

Answer 2

Even shy guys give out subtle signals if they like you. Watch his body language. Does he look your way more often than necessary? Or he could even avoid you pointedly:) Does he get nervous or fidgety around you? Just watch him girl. Make eye contact and see how he responds. Let him know you are interested in a casual way. Be friendly. dont intimidate him. I was in a similar situation a long time ago. But ultimately I coaxed him out of his shell and we dated for 6 years! My strategy was to make friends with his friends and then he and I eventually became friends too. With the help of mutual friends and by making him comfortable around me I figured that he liked me. In fact it had been love at first sight for him but he concealed it so well for over a year. Anyway he asked me out soon after and although we broke up many years back we are still buddies. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

I can answer this because I myself even at 22 am still alittle shy. You can normally tell if a shy guy is constantly checking you out when your not looking in his direction. The other thing is if he talks to you he might studder. He might sort of speak "beat around the bush". Or he might talk about life, sex, relationships, etc. Things like that. Hopefully I helped.

Answer 4

I'm shy. If I like a girl I try to be very casual around her, waiting for a hint that she might like me. But I'm horrible at recognizing hints so usually a girl will be super friendly with me for a while and then get tired of me not asking her out and suddenly just turn off the friendliness.

Answer 5

well, the guy might not be shy just not want you to know he likes you.. so he acts shy around you. listen, the best way to find out is to just talk to him more, make him feel confortable around you... that way he will feel as if you are in his league... understand?? so if he believes he has a chance with you, and you wont completely shut him down... he will ask you.. guys like that (me) just want to be sure about why they are about to stick their neck out while you hold the axe... hehe...

be friendly around him, show him that you can get along with each other, and he will come around..
now, after you do this, and he still doesnt ask you, dont be afraid to ask him how he feels about you...

Answer 6

when he's walking alone just suddenly walk up and slow down next to him.... if he doesnt look up stop for a second tilt ur head and then catch up, if he looks up smile and possibly drop ur books, pretend like someone pushed you, if ur hallways are crowded like mine it'll work. i've done this aboout 6 times a good thng i've found to look at is the body language... i have six classes with a guy i like so it comes in handy. his body will be angled towards you, shoulders and pelvis, his feet will either be pointed inward or towards you, i've also interpreted that when he crosses his ancles and puts his feet under his chair he's anxious; if oyure colse this may be a good sign. guys also love physicl contact; a guy i hardly know but i know that he likes me was sitting next to me n class and he copied my movements (if i leaned forward, he leaned forward, if i crossed my arms, so did he, leaned back, he did too...etc) and i was straightening my shirt, he laughed at me (he must've found that funny) nd then poked me in the stomach, if he's really into you he'll bug you... a lot!!!!!

Answer 7

Stares at you...


May get lost for words around you, checking out your boobs if thinks you aint noticing him.

Wnats to hang out with you a lot.


May try and touch you.

ie tickle, hug, ice dowbn back,place vibrating teddy bear on your neck, .

try and make you laugh say with a puppet.


Behaves different around you then other girls like a bit tense or quiet.


or very chatty to you.

if you like the guy its best you move in on him and in a way you (ideally fun way) let him know its ok to think of you in a sexy way.


ie If you catch him staring at boobs ask him if he likes the view, you know when looking down your top? Hanve a laugh about it and tell him its cool, hes a guy hes supposed to and you like it as long as he keeps looking at face as well.


get touchy with him...

Ie you need lotion on your back, could he massage your sore spots etc.


ie givig permission to get touchy and relax with you.


Note sexaul behavour and touching does not have to mean full on groping and getting naked when younger it can mean holding hands, hugging sleeping on each others laps etc. Ie affection.


As you get used to each other engineer ways you may get to kiss going nose to nose or say bet a bra or kiss in a game.

and go cinema... say scarey movie and you need a hug as all scared... (corny and cheesy but works)

If you can get to a kissy touchy phase a few times you should be fine

Answer 8

every shy guy is different.

one guy i knew would stare at me. when i notice his stare, he would turn away. he barely ever said anything to me.

one guy sat next to me in class, and talked to me on the phone but never outright told me he liked me.

hope that helps

Answer 9

Invite him to a party, then get him drunk! it worked for me! lm marring my shy guy next year! (he isn't so shy anymore though)

Answer 10

You just have to ask him on a date. It's the only way.

Answer 11

Make a move, either make a prolonged eye contact w/ him or make a slight brush and see how he blushes. then kiss him, it doesn't matter --soft or passionate, that's how you make your mark...then he'll chase after you!!!!