I m frustrated and wants to marry her by this year I know I just cant live without her my parents have already approached but got a negetive answer now its really hurting me a lot and I am not able to concentrate anywhere until my marriage date is been finalised but the question comes in how what should I do to get her she loves me alot even I love her more than that please please please help THANK YOU
WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HER
2007-06-05 01:44:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It is apparent that you come from a country where the girl's parental approval is required. I guess if this is true, you have to live with it. If it is NOT necessary, just get married - period..
2007-06-05 01:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to think about how much you love your gf and want to do the right thing by her. It does not sound like you have to wait for a long time really. Pushing her and causing upset with her family is likely to hurt her. Have you talked to her about how you feel? It might not change the situation for you, but it might help to talk to her and share your feelings. Maybe the inlaws have wisdom in wanting you to wait. When you can get married, if it is that everyone is happy, maybe it will be worth the wait. Maybe there are some people in your family or acquaintances who have been through this sort of situation, such as separated by war or family wishes, and they can give you some advice. Good luck. Remember that you have your lovely gf and how lucky you are. If it is two years, it is not forever. Some people have to go their whole lives without having what you have, let alone the chance to share your lives together not too far into the future.
2007-06-05 01:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill out. You do not sound like you are mature enough for marriage and her parents are probably right to make you wait. You are acting like marriage is some sort of magic that is gonna make everything in your life OK. That is not what marriage is. You need to put your mind into your work or your studies so that you can be prepared to support a wife although from your post I suspect that the real truth is that you are both too young to be getting married and her parents are smart enough and the girl is smart enough to know it. Now you get smart and stop the nonsense. And if this is all about sex that you can't have until marriage, baby that is not a good reason to get married. Chill out.
2007-06-05 02:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar cituation, talk to her and ask her when she wants to get married, if she wants to wait then respect her and wait, but if she does not want to wait then you guys will have to break it to the family, and just start planning a wedding. I didn't have any help from my side of the family as a matter of fact none of them came to my wedding and my father almost didn't walk me down the isle. even if he hadn't walked me down the isle i would have done it anyways, becasue i knew it was right and he was the love of my life. If she says yes she wants to get married soon then explain to her how hard it will be with her family, but that when you are married you separte from your parent and join together as one. And even if her parents give both of you a hard time that you will be there for her through those time while planning the wedding. When it comes down to the who pays for what... her parents may not help out so don't make it a big issue forher just tell her you will do it or have your family help alot.. try to make things easy on her because it will be a very emotional time... Make sure to let her know you love her and God brought you two together and he is going to join you two together forever. Good luck, and try to have a little patients both of you are hurting
2007-06-05 02:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Christian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You understand that marriage is a lifetime commitment right? If you are planning on spending the REST OF YOUR LIFE with her, then what is the big deal about waiting a couple of years. If you have decided this is the person you are spending your life with, then marriage is just a title. You will be with her regardless. So wait, and let her have the wedding she has always dreamed of, with her dad walking her down the aisle and her mom crying (because she is happy)
2007-06-05 01:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 21:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by vyky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think theres an age issue that her parents are considering here. If her age didnt give her parents to come up with that, she would have decided to go ahead with the whole thing and her parents had to accept it because it would be her choice and they would have to stand behind it.. Well, if she said yes, and its what both of you want, than it wont make any harm if you both waited.. No need to frustrate yourself, cos you are not losing on anything, these things happen and at times we have to compromise and accomodate such.. goodluck..
2007-06-05 02:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Emdee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, then you will wait the 2 years that is being requested. Your in-laws can make your life easy, or they can make your life a living hell. Do you really want to start your married life off with your in-laws despising you and do you really want to show that kind of disrespect to them for going against their wishes?? I think not. Wait the 2 years.
2007-06-05 01:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her 2 years won't be so long.they may want her daughter to see what will happen in the next 2 years .the parents might think that you will be out of the picture.prove them wrong.go with the flow and don't keep bugging your girlfriend about it.be patient.
2007-06-05 01:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend agrees with her parents and doesn't want to marry you for another two years, then you need to be patient. You can't force her to marry you now. If you keep pushing her and pushing the issue, you may lose her completely. Chill out...there's no rush.
2007-06-05 01:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋