Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

2007-06-05 03:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by bunnyBoo 3 in Family

do i invite my current boyfriend who i just recently started going back out with or do i invite the other boys ive been dating while me and my boyfriend wasn't dating

2007-06-05 03:18:38 · 1 answers · asked by kilah_187 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so the photographer, decorater, hall, minister, dj are all booked. we are in the process of booking a florist and baker. invitation paper is ordered ( making my own) now what are the little things that get overlooked when planning a wedding. was their something specific from your wedding that you forgot to do. what steps should i take next? I want the day to be as flawless as possible.

2007-06-05 03:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am a 19 year old boy.this year i have passed my 12th board exam and soon i will join college outside my state.i have a girl friend who is 2 years younger than me. she is really really really gorgeous.and the fact is that she loves me too. but 2 months ago she met with an accident and now she has few stichtes on her face.it had spoiled her beauty a lot.but i dont mind it.i really love her more than anything else. but i dont know why she thinks i am trying to dump her.she avoids me, even doesnt reply my sms..at this critical point of time when i am leaving my state for higher studies this sort of complications have made life all the more difficult.i will definitely die if she moves out of my life. i cant even think of other gils except her..although i know that there wont be any scarcity of girls in my life.everynight when i think of those innocent eyes of her i fell like dyeing. life sucks..........

2007-06-05 03:13:08 · 13 answers · asked by emmanuel 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a married woman. Not a very happily married woman right now, for various reasons. But im starting to fancy other men. I sometimes feel guilty, but at other times it help to drift off into my own little fantasy world when things are tough at home.

Is this wrong of me to get the hots for other guys? Is this cheating, even if its only in my head?

2007-06-05 03:09:55 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i belive that there should be one that always has the final word on a subject and thats my husband i like to try and be a surrendered wife .If the man and woman are fighting for top spot you get lots of arguments whats your view

2007-06-05 03:09:18 · 27 answers · asked by noot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Several years ago, I picked out my engagement ring. I loved the setting. But when I broke up with the guy, I gave the ring back. (Because I felt it was the right thing to do, even though he told me to keep it). But I find myself thinking about the ring from time to time. The store no longer carries it, or the records, since it's been 10 years, or so. Depending on the price, I'd like to buy my own version... even if it's with a Ruby instead of a diamond.... or something like that.

It was a gold band, wth a sort of zigzag design. It was not big or gawdy. It had a center stone and then two or three smaller stones on each side where the zigzag was. It was very feminine and dainty, and I got tons of compliments on it. I never got any such compliments on any other ring. It also had a matching wedding band that would fit with the engagement ring.

I've searched the internet, and came up with nothing. Does anyone know of any really good resources to find this ring?

2007-06-05 03:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

i have this friend who used to date one of my ex boyfriend's friend...and when she and her ex was having some problems,my then boyfriend used to help her a lot...now that my ex and i have broken up,the both of them seems really close...she is seeing someone else and i think he might still have some slight feelings for me left in him but i cant stand the fact that they are so close...she sends him messages saying that she misses him,that she'll stand by him and...and my ex still tells me stuff about his conversation with her...i'm still in love with my ex but i know that its over and i have to move on but i'm still really bothered by the fact that they r so close,and the other day he told me that my friend is more of a woman than i'll ever be...and it really hurts coz my ex and i used to be closer than close and i'm emotionally attached to him...do you think they might get together?my ex doing this to make me feel jelous?i am still on talking terms with the both of them..

2007-06-05 03:08:15 · 6 answers · asked by broken angel 2 in Singles & Dating

So the last couple of days has just been horrible for me. I already don't have any friends anymore because I just graduated and they're getting ready for college. I thought I was had a lot of friends at my high school, but when I sent 50 invitations to them for my Open House, not a single one of my friends showed up. And I have known them for 6 years now. My best friend lives in Texas now. I know that I can rely on her but she lives in Texas and I live in Indiana. I talk to her some but not very much anymore. And my car keeps going out on me. I can't get out and meet new people because of that. I'm supposed to be moving soon, but I can't until my car gets fixed. My stepmom is always treating me worse than what she does her own son even though he is two years older than me and still lives at home. People keep treating me like I'm a punching bag or something. Why does every little bad thing that CAN happen, always ends up happening to me. Why does life suck right now and what can I do?

2007-06-05 03:08:08 · 14 answers · asked by Brandon G 2 in Friends

in some financial ways and I always thought he was generous and the sweetest thing ever. I don't ask for anything purposely b/c I don't want him to think I want him for only help. I pay for some things.. lunches,things for kids. Now after a vicous fight he tells me I am spoiled and I need so much help. what the hell is he talking about? He threw in my face that he helped me that once financially. Now my feelings towards him has changed. I no longer think he is a sweet generous guy. I think hes a creep for bringin it up in that manner. How am I suppose to trust him when I do need something? I don;t want to feel scared to ask my own man for something if I need it.

2007-06-05 03:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Teresa 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have at least 3-4 black tie weddings that we currently know of that we will be going to in the next 2 years, plus there may be a black tie Bar Mitzvah as well. Ther first wedding is in September. We plan to get married by 2009. Would it be financially better for him to buy a tux now or wait until our wedding is closer?

Also what is the average starting price for a tuxedo?

2007-06-05 03:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by Molly SH 4 in Weddings

Do girls prefer to stay naked at home all the time when they are alone or during their presence with their spouses?

2007-06-05 03:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Bean 2 in Singles & Dating

basicly theirs this women ive been trainning with shes on the level and fun to be aorund and generaly quit a impressive women but shes a weight lift/body builder hes face is pretty and that but a bigger than most women and most normal guys which is impressive but aint realy the sort of women i realy go for but i kinda of like her what are your thoughts

2007-06-05 03:01:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is having an affair with our social studies teacher! He's 50 and MARRIED! I keep telling her that she should give him up, but she won't listen! Whats worse is I think he is cheating on her with our ex best friend alex! What should I do?

2007-06-05 02:59:44 · 22 answers · asked by FU! -.~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he wants to get to know me, he spends most of his free time (days off) with me. He calls me about 4 days a week and on the days he doesn't call, then he usually texts me at least once. Is this guy a player? Is this something you would do if you truly liked the girl? We usually see each other about 2 times per week (movies, dinner, etc). I'm clueless!!LOL..Please help!!

2007-06-05 02:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Siren_Cin 2 in Singles & Dating

I stalled, and stalled and my beautiful girlfriend of 4 years brokeup with me. I am suffering enough as it, I dont need anyone else to tell me that I blew it. She just got sick of waiting for me and she told me she couldnt wait more and for my false promises, brokeup with me in January ( i thought we were simply taking time to think well) and married some ex-boyfriend 4 months later. Since she has been married, she has told me via email, phone, or messenger, that she only wanted to "be a wife, and be married." She contacted me each time. Says her husband treats her nice, but that she is still in love with me, missed me, and should have waited to marry me. However, she tells me she cant consider divorce as she just got married, but is confused bcs. she loves me too much.

As she seems to have married out of desperation and only wanting to be married, will she make herself happy? Is there any hope she will ever change her mind and get divorced? What should I do? I am too devastated.

2007-06-05 02:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I've known for about 3 weeks tells me I'm really cute and he loves talking to me. We talk every day for about 2 hours on msn, and he's recently stared text messaging me.
I would say he likes me because his actions and words suggest that, however there is this other girl who lives down the coast that he likes and is just about to get together with.
We've been hanging out heaps lately, pretty much every second day. He kissed me on the cheek when he was leaving a nightclub and said he's sorry we cant be more than friends because of the other girl.
I dont want to be second to any girl. I feel so angry because the girl he's after is a b*tch.
He asked me to hang out tomorrow, and I said yes. I asked him 2 c me this sunday at a club n he said he cant cos he's goin down the coast to see that girl.
He msgs me and n tells me im cute and flirts with me.. he kinda knows im into him and hes NOT after an easy lay with me.
What the hell is he doing?

2007-06-05 02:57:46 · 15 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

My father passed away in January after a very long bout with altzheimers. He was in a nursing home for almost a year. She came to live with us (me,hubby, and 2 kids). for about 10 months

she has always been a heavy drinker but when my father got sick she started even more. Now she has moved into her own place and starts drinking at about noon.
when i have talked to her about this she tells me that she has no responsibilities, she does not drink and drive and she does not see a problem with it.

She thinks she has nothing to live for. She has never been a big "kid" person so please dont suggest that she spends more time with the kids.

she never calls me, but waits till i call her then gives me guilt that i did not call her sooner.

what can i do? i know she is going to drink herself to death but i dont know what i can do to make her better. Its tearing me apart inside!

2007-06-05 02:56:17 · 4 answers · asked by missingoz 3 in Family

2007-06-05 02:55:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he was going to call but never did.

He was too busy like for a week and in fact TOO busy that he couldn’t even answer my call.

He’d disappear for a week and then came back and started talking bullsh!ts like “I’m so sorry.. I was so busy.., My phone is not working.. bla bla bla”

Now, he’s gone and don’t know where the h ell he is.

But I know He’d come back again someday soon.

So, My question is…
If he ever texts or calls me again, what should I say to NAIL him?
p.s. I don’t want to sound like a total ***** and I don’t want to sound mad cos he might think he’s something.
I want to say something steadily and makes him ‘hands down’ and realize… he isn’t as great as he thinks he is and that he can’t always play girls that way.

Thanks!


I am going to dump him.

2007-06-05 02:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by Melrose 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a confused situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 21 months, I have a 22 month son, my boyfriend is not the father of my child. My son is from a previous marriage. I met my boyfriend when my son was a month old. He is still talking to his x girlfriend and it's almost been 2 years now. He swears up and down that they are just friends. I believe him in away. But this guy is so protective of me, when we have a night out together he gets mad at me when I talk to my friends and have a good time. Once the night is over all he does is yell at me about ignoring him. We live together by the way. My boyfriend wants to get married and have kids one day. I don't know if I should ever get married again. I have had 2 failed army marriages. One right after the other, 2nd marriage I had my son, and x husband neglected my son. My boyfriend loves my son like he is his. This is why I don't know if I should stay or leave. what do you think I should do.

2007-06-05 02:53:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 and I haven't had any relationship since 15.
Am I depriving myself much? Is love essential to life?

2007-06-05 02:53:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 02:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by flaai 1 in Singles & Dating

its make or break for me, i have been in love with some one for 6 years at first it was young love with sex, but we have both had seperate relationships and he tells me he thinks im gorgeous, but his on/off constantly. I need to tell him the truth, but hes got a g/f so ill have to email him, how do i do it?

2007-06-05 02:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by herbie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

but he hasn't told me he loves me...is that normal...we have been together for a year, and get along great...and says I am very lovable...he just doesnt yet, and see's no reason why we wouldn't be together forever, So why doesn't he love me? He has been stressed lately and says things are getting better now, so he will have more time to focus on his heart....ahhh what should i think....I love him so much....

2007-06-05 02:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there something missing? It just seems that guys are not interested in being involved with me. Like when it seems it is time for the next step they bail. I like sports and having a good time. I think it is important for each person to have time on their own so I really don't care if a guy is out with his friends as long as I get some time with him. I am intelligent and have goals in life. I'm usually laid back and go with the flow. Some guys talk about how great I am but its really funny that they don't want to take a chance on me. Sorry but I am just kind of down right now because I thought someone really like me and I guess I was wrong.

2007-06-05 02:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 02:49:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I really like at work. She is really pretty and sweet, but english is not her first language, and when I flirt with her, I don't think she gets that I am flirting. Any suggestions?

2007-06-05 02:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Singles & Dating

ok. my ?'s are. What happens in highschool that doesn't in middle school. like do alot of things come up . and what after school things do they have. tell me pleasee i'm so scared!!!

2007-06-05 02:45:20 · 11 answers · asked by Hayden 1 in Friends

I've had mixed reactions to this! Some men don't mind others think its disgusting!!

2007-06-05 02:44:57 · 25 answers · asked by chesty la rue 2 in Marriage & Divorce