Why does my life suck so much?

Question

So the last couple of days has just been horrible for me. I already don't have any friends anymore because I just graduated and they're getting ready for college. I thought I was had a lot of friends at my high school, but when I sent 50 invitations to them for my Open House, not a single one of my friends showed up. And I have known them for 6 years now. My best friend lives in Texas now. I know that I can rely on her but she lives in Texas and I live in Indiana. I talk to her some but not very much anymore. And my car keeps going out on me. I can't get out and meet new people because of that. I'm supposed to be moving soon, but I can't until my car gets fixed. My stepmom is always treating me worse than what she does her own son even though he is two years older than me and still lives at home. People keep treating me like I'm a punching bag or something. Why does every little bad thing that CAN happen, always ends up happening to me. Why does life suck right now and what can I do?

Answer 1

All the bad things can't be happening to you, they all happen to me.

I'm sorry you're having a tough time. Try to remember that life has ups and downs. Change is inevitable...for good and bad. Learning to deal with stress will help you endure.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

That really hurts but I guess now you knows who's a true friend and who's not. From what I could observe, not many people can have many true friends. Most of us would have just a few of them, if we're lucky enough. One or two is pretty common. Anyway, there's really no reason to feel bad over those people.

You've graduate, you're gonna go out there, get a job and starts a new life for yourself. Don't let all this people hold you down. I know it's much harder to do, we all are humans and cant help feeling bad at times like this, but as long as you can focus on your future, I think you'll be just fine once you moved away start a new life elsewhere.

Good luck to you...

Answer 3

Welcome to the rest of your life, it certainly changes after graduating from high school.
Some general rules of life:
You are going to KNOW more people then have FRIENDS. There is a difference between knowing people and having friends. Real friends are far and few in between that is for sure, everyone else is just someone you know.

Next, the only person you can really count on most of the time is yourself. Go get yourself a job and either get your car fixed correctly or get another one. Get money saved up to get your own place, heck if you get enough money together, head to Texas and try hooking up with your friend.

Instead of worrying about meeting people right now, worry about getting yourself together and getting your feet firmly on the ground, so that when bad things happens, you are not shook up so badly. Set some goals for yourself, where do you want to be a year from now? Still at home with your stepmom and stepbrother, or out on your own, doing your own thing and worrying about you and only you?

It is hard to move from one phase of life to the other, you are entering one of the most scariest parts there is, but if you are determined enough, you will get through it just fine! And if you are really determined, you will find a real friend or two. One REAL friend is worth more then 10 friends, you will learn this in time.

Pull yourself up by your bootstraps hunny and get moving towards a life of your own! Good luck!

Answer 4

To us, it doesn't seem like what you are going through is very much because we've dealt with so much worse but for you, this can be a devastating time to have all these things happening at once.

Now, having said that, pick yourself up and start doing things to earn money so you can get your car fixed and do things around the house to help your stepmom to try and keep her off your back as much as possible.

Someday when you've had to deal with really serious problems, you will look back on this and realize this time may have been a hurtful time but it isn't devastating and is actually quite mild. What you have to decide is, what kind of man are you? Will you let problems defeat you or will you sit down like an adult and try to work out a solution.

You have alot of years ahead of you, Lord willing, so it's time to buck up and face your problems and not sit around feeling hurt or disappointed. Those negative qualities will pull you down and you will never make anything of yourself.

So sit down and make a list of goals, then try to work out a way to meet those goals, then set your plans in motion. Remember, you will have set backs but don't let those keep you from fighting to get what you want for yourself.

And to light a fire, go make something of yourself and show your stepmom what you are made of, a man who made something of himself.

Good luck to you ~ remember, you can do it if you truly want to. Don't sit back doing nothing now and then 30 years from now, start living with regrets of what you could have done and didn't.

Answer 5

Unfortunately, you are having a rough time. Things change on a daily basis. I never really had many friends either. You will meet new people through maybe school, or jobs or just the social scene. Your stepmother, you'll have to ignore her. Many people have had crappy cars when they were younger, but eventually you'll have to get that fixed by having a job and making some money. Don't settle for unhappiness, try to do something to change your situation for the better. Remember life is what you make it sometimes.

Answer 6

I know the feeling, my car is having problems and work is getting SLOW to the point I might be layed-off soon. But you just have to keep digging and don't let it get you down. Find away to earn some money so you can get out and make a fresh start somewhere. Life isn't easy, you have to learn to roll with the punches and accept it as a challenge you want to overcome. Good Luck!

Answer 7

A bunch of my friends moved.. and i didnt even get to say goodbye...
Maybe your friendship with them wasnt supposed to last and you'll meet even better peopl eon the way.
Just think about all the time you have in the future... this phase "life sucks" will soon go away...
P.s. People have it worse than you....so be happy

Answer 8

You're going to have to realize childhood friends can be fickle when it comes to interests and some move on to keep in stride with those who have like objectives and goals. You're going to have to find new friends through work or other means now who share your interests anew. The school crowd going to college has their interests and have in essence snubbed you.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

First stop being a little B****. Life could be a lot worst. as long as you have close on your back a roof over your head and food on the table. Life's not that bad. There are people that have nowhere to live and haven't had anything to eat in weeks.