i have this friend who used to date one of my ex boyfriend's friend...and when she and her ex was having some problems,my then boyfriend used to help her a lot...now that my ex and i have broken up,the both of them seems really close...she is seeing someone else and i think he might still have some slight feelings for me left in him but i cant stand the fact that they are so close...she sends him messages saying that she misses him,that she'll stand by him and...and my ex still tells me stuff about his conversation with her...i'm still in love with my ex but i know that its over and i have to move on but i'm still really bothered by the fact that they r so close,and the other day he told me that my friend is more of a woman than i'll ever be...and it really hurts coz my ex and i used to be closer than close and i'm emotionally attached to him...do you think they might get together?my ex doing this to make me feel jelous?i am still on talking terms with the both of them..
2007-06-05 03:08:15 · 6 answers · asked by broken angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they may have real feelings for one another but have not pursued them yet...
but yes, have no doubt, they are on their wahy of getting together...
I would let them both go.. you are one of their ccmmonalities /connections... a reason for them to communicate... to share feelings, etc..they are using you to stay close..
let them both go and see what happens...
and she is not your friend.. she is his..and he is not your friend either...
any man that says someone is more of a woman than you -- why would you want to be involved with him.. show him you are the one with more class.. take the high road.. and move on...
otherwise, you will be deemed the pathetic one and she will be the one he values.. you leave and end contact and he will regret it the rest of his life... especially when things with her and him and not so secretive and exciting anymore... and he'll realize he had a good thing that he lost - in you...
2007-06-05 03:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by astutewoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you let it bother you, more than likely the more they will keep doing it. Who broke it off with you and him? and why? If it hurts you, then maybe you should just ignore both of them and if/when they ask you why then let them have the scoop- If they care anything about you or your feelings they will try and talk to you about it.
2007-06-05 03:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your friend.. If she says its nothing then its nothing.. Maybe they're just close friends? Just because its not a same sex friendship doesnt mean they cant just be friends.. You clearly dont trust your friend.. And it sounds a little like he is tryin to make you jelous.. Seriously confront your friend and ask her whats going on..
2007-06-05 03:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by ashlee jade : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they aren't dumping on you and doing or saying bad stuff about you, don't worry about it. You're attachments shouldn't affect your feelings to the point it causes this much stress about past relations. Move on, even if it means reevaluating friendships.
2007-06-05 03:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like they could end up hooking up. i would talk to you friend about the situation. tell her how you feel, if she is a good friend she would understand. try to convince her that he is a jerk and not to go out with ihm.
2007-06-05 03:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by imsoemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore both
2007-06-05 03:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋