Is there something missing? It just seems that guys are not interested in being involved with me. Like when it seems it is time for the next step they bail. I like sports and having a good time. I think it is important for each person to have time on their own so I really don't care if a guy is out with his friends as long as I get some time with him. I am intelligent and have goals in life. I'm usually laid back and go with the flow. Some guys talk about how great I am but its really funny that they don't want to take a chance on me. Sorry but I am just kind of down right now because I thought someone really like me and I guess I was wrong.
2007-06-05 02:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you're probably sick of waiting for the right guy to come along, but it's what you need to do because you will find a guy who loves all those things about you and will be ecstatic about taking it to the next step. Just because it hasn't worked out so far, it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. you sound like a wonderful person so just it give it time.
2007-06-05 02:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem for years. The best thing is to always be yourself and don't get bitter. When you meet men, be in control and have no expectations. If you are looking for a relationship every time you meet someone new, then you risk scaring men off.
It looks like you are laid back so that's not the problem. I think you just haven't met the right guy that's on the same wavelength with you. Trust me, it sucks to wait but in the end it will be worth it. Keep trying and don't give up!!
2007-06-05 02:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by saintsantiago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were just seeing the wrong fella.Give it time and you will find someone that you click with.It took me years to find my wife and she possesses a lot of the same qualities that you mentioned about yourself-intelligent,tolerant,easy going.To be honest,most of the guys that would like a girl like you and want to be involved on a deeper,long term level are guys like myself who have been through too much B.S. with women and really appreciate someone who treats them right.You have probably just had the misfortune of dating too many immature guys who haven't been around enough to know what a wonderful thing a decent Woman can be.You may want to look for a Man who is slightly older(Assuming you are an adult!)whose just plain done with all of the games-good luck doll.
2007-06-05 02:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're being too pushy?
You sound like you'd be a perfect girlfriend. Maybe you're trying to get involved with all the wrong guys & also, some guys might think you're too good to be true. Perhaps they see you as one of the guys... If that's the case, throw them off by sporting a skirt one day or something. Don't be slutty but, just show your girly side if you normally aren't like that.
If you already have all that down pat, don't worry about it. You'll find somebody but, it takes time.
2007-06-05 02:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly your independence disturbs them. Many men think of women as possessions and want them to be incapable of independent thinking or doing. My daughters drive anything with wheels, shoot any type of weapon they can get shells for, and take no prisoners. By and large they have husbands who sleep with one eye open most of the time.
2007-06-05 02:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure they do like you but i think they may be a little intimidated because you are so smart and athletic maybe i think you'll break there heart....think about it hun.....your probably a catch and you can't even get the chance to express that because you are who you are....don't give up on yourself there is someone out there who isn't afraid to be themselves
2007-06-05 02:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by *DrEaMgIrL* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bit depressing when that happens...it used to happen to me too...but i guess when the time is right you will find someone who will love you for who you are....maybe the person is already there but you just dont notice him...take chances...good luck
2007-06-05 02:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by broken angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a fantastic person.. seriously, you just have to wait until the rite person turns up. sadly it just takes longer for some people.
2007-06-05 02:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How 'bout dinner and a movie...?
I pick the restaurant...
You pick the movie (and hopefully NOT your nose)
2007-06-05 02:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you move to quickly.
2007-06-05 02:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mason S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋