Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

I talked to this one guy once, (in my school) during a free period. This was at the end of March. We haven't talked since but lol i had a dream about him one night, and from then on I haven't and can't get him out of my mind! He's very friendly and always confident.. but not REALLY loud.. I'm too shy to talk to him again.. i see him in school sometimes..

my question is do loudish, confident fellas only go for loudish, confident, pretty girls?

2007-06-05 04:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is getting me an engagement ring, I think he is having trouble getting the one he has picked sized. Does anyone have a smaller finger than this? What did you have to do when you got your rings??

2007-06-05 04:01:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

always masturbating why????? i don't like it when he does that but he dosen't seem to understand how i feel can you guys give me advice.. Thanks So Much..

2007-06-05 03:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do not want them to be my bridesmaids but They all have children ( boys) around the age of 2 , is this too young to be a page boy ? what would this entail ?

2007-06-05 03:56:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When I was 26, I met a guy, it was great. I had been with a few guys but I fell head over heals in love with this one. He was married but both were really unhappy. They divorced soon after we met, but it wasn't b/c of me. His ex was a nice person & knew I wasn't the reason for their divorce.

4 yrs later, this guy & I get married. I did it b/c I thought it was time but I wasn't really in love anymore. I felt trapped & fell into deep depression. I wasn't in love & wanted a divorce. After 2 yrs, we filed for divorce.

Yet the divorce hurt, felt rejected, felt bad abt myself. I hardly contacted him once we broke up.

One of the things he said that sticks in my brain was "I'm probably the only one who would have wanted/married you". He didn't want me anymore but why would someone say such a mean thing to another? I wasn't asking him back. It's been 14 yrs & I still think of that comment. It hurt so deep. Is it true that some people just aren't "marriage" material

2007-06-05 03:56:47 · 32 answers · asked by Sunny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend went to a restaraunt and as the waitress passed by, he grabbed her apron string and giggles. Then she walks back to take our order and he pulls on her dress as she leaves. I think she was just trying to get rid of him.
I would guess her to be about 23 yrs old.
She totally ignores him. He says its because he has known her for about 10 yrs. What do you think he was doing?
I think he was being a dirty old man. What would you think if someone pulled on your apron strings and your dress?

2007-06-05 03:56:42 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I'm just feeling kind of crummy lately. Right or wrong, this is how I am feeling.. Maybe you can shed some light for me...Just a quick run down of what is on my mind:
You came to bed late Thusday night just to sit in the living room and watch tv with matt (son).Friday, you knew it was the night before I was leaving for 2 daya and I told you I was going to bed around 10 - 10:30 (at 9pm). You stayed up till almost midnight (made me feel unloved). Saturday you woke up and left (paint job), knowing that I was leaving and traveling with my kids you put you phone in your car and didn't check it until 5pm. You also tell me later that you went to bed around 10 and didn't stay up to watch TV on a saturday night with matt.Sunday - you still haven't made any attempt to text me or call on your own... Monday - still, no text, etc... I get home at 11:30 - you don't come home till after 4:30... We both are busy, but you start a movie before i get home and watch it till midnight (i am sad)

2007-06-05 03:56:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 03:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by zls_1984 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf has gone on holiday for 10days. she has gone to lloret de mar. She got back with me 1 and half week ago. She says she loves me and also says she wud never have a one nite stand. im missing her already i havent text or rung her since sunday nite. Should i text or ring her today or shall i wait untill tommorow evening ???????? Also do you think she would snog guys while she is out there ??? she is alot confident when she is drunk, and she rarely kisses me. what are the channces she could snog sum1 out there ?? she kind be flirty at times thanks

2007-06-05 03:55:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 03:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Would any Woman/Man be stupid enough to go on a blind date, alone, only chatting to someone ONCE on a internet chat room?

2007-06-05 03:52:25 · 16 answers · asked by john d 3 in Singles & Dating

If your wife/husband or gf/bf did not have a job and could not pay his or her bills or anything else and you had to pay for everything and was trying to get something but it was taking for ever would you leave?

2007-06-05 03:50:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

esp. in time of crisis and differences?

2007-06-05 03:50:09 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have left India many years ago. Lost all connections in India

2007-06-05 03:48:27 · 10 answers · asked by Hi There 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never bought a wedding gift before and I am actually accompanying her uncle. They have a 6 month old baby and live in a home which they have already bought. She is 30 yrs old and her and the fiance have lived together since 13 yrs ago. I am not close to her but feel like I should buy a gift.
Her uncle never includes me in the gift thing even though my name was on the inviatation. He always writes a check. I feel sort of weird about this.
What should I do?

2007-06-05 03:45:19 · 22 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Weddings

He hides his porn, gets update messages, doesn't make love, wants me to initiate always & is one of those lay there & do nothing guys while you do all the work. Yet he treats me like a queen otherwise. He doesn't go out- just goes to internet skin sites- may be doing some online dating???? Now gets violent when I bring the hiding up. But doesn't hit me- just tears up stuff. I am fed up as a woman & frustrated. We have been married for over 19 years. I am not unattractive or a prude. I have been very patient. But.......now what? Does anyone know what the sassy connection is? It seems to be a private connection. He claims though it is on his computer that he doesn't ???? He is being a #1 jerk. and AAA h***o. Right now I am elsewhere and not home. Not in a hurry to go back. Is he hopeless? I have prayed for answers- tried to talk to him & he only says he is doing nothing!!!????? I don't want to live like this.

2007-06-05 03:42:15 · 11 answers · asked by nolongeractive 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short. I was divorced in Jan. As part of the divorce I wanted to sell and get my 50% and so that we could move on our separate ways. He convinced me not to, that he wanted our 2 girls to live in the house they have known and that he would pay 50% of mortgage plus child support. We would sell the house in 9 yrs when my little one turns 18... I said ok. I was reluctant, but because I would have exclusive use of the house I said ok. All this is in the divorice decree. Now, he "changed" his mind, he wants to sell the house. Now I don't want to, I'm comfortable. He's taking me to court to change the decree. I'm thinking of justing giving in, other than my girls I don't want anymore connections with him. And I don't want to pay for another lawyer but at the same time dont want to give into him because I know it's a control issue. I really don't want to move, I love my house.

2007-06-05 03:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why or why not?

2007-06-05 03:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by Proud mother! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 03:35:13 · 43 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Weddings

Do girls prefer to stay naked at home all the time when they are alone or during their presence with their spouses?

2007-06-05 03:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Bean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently I have grown very close to my sister-in-law. I have known my wife for 7+ years and my sister-in-law for the same amount of time by association. Over the past few years I have felt drawn to my Sister-in-Law. At first I thought this was just a crush, but it is more powerful than that. When I am with her I don't feel aroused or turned on like I might do when I see a particularly good looking woman. What I feel is an intense sense of longing. My heart breaks a little everytime we meet.
I have never been unfaihtful to my wife nor have I been tempted to. In fact I love my wife and worship her...but I think I love her sister as well. This sucks and I am beginning to get really depressed. I have a tiny suspicion that my sister-in-law might harbour feelings for me as well. She is married with kids and I am married and talking about having kids. Some days I feel like leaving the country to get away from this mess. Other mornings I want to sweep my Sis-in-law off her feet. Advice?

2007-06-05 03:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister-in-law does not make her kids wear seatbelts. They are 3, 5, and 10. When I ride in the car with them my SIL drives and I really want the kids to wear their seatbelts. Do you think she would get mad if I turned around and told them to put their seatbelts on? Any advice on a nice way to approach it? I have told my husband they need to be wearing their seatbelts (my husband and I both do), but he won't say anything to his sister. I feel like the kids lives are in danger. If we had a wreck I'm sure they would be seriously injured, if not killed.

2007-06-05 03:27:22 · 28 answers · asked by susan t 2 in Family

hey guys, i met this girl at a friends party......... ive known for since 21st May, ive spoken to her on the phone everyday and ive met her almost every day........ i wanna know if she likes me, and i wanna know WHEN, and HOW to ask her out.......

2007-06-05 03:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by devilkid41 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me... my hiusband to be live far away from me. we call each other nice & we misses each other my only problem is that i don't know whether he really love me. he tell me that he love me but i don't believe because he don't call me even to visit him where he is staying it almost 5 years i dont know where is staying when he is at work . His family know me me and they love me but my problem is i don't trust him what i alway think is that he is cheating on me and he always says im am the star in his life & no one will take my place in his heart help help help

2007-06-05 03:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by CHINAEYEZ 1 in Weddings

Today is our 8th wedding anniversary. Last week we signed the settlement papers for a divorce. I am so sad about all of this - wish it was different. Counseling etc didn't help. We are in contact - emails, instant msgng, etc. Should I acknowledge that today is our anniversary? If yes, any ideas on how?

2007-06-05 03:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by echolaine 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother left very spacific instructions that the money was to be put into a spend thrift trust for me in case I needed it.She did not trust my husband when it came to money for fear he would waste it.
Right now we are in a big financial disaster due to a foot injury my husband has.My question is,is there any thing we can do to get this money or a portion of it?I`ve tried talking to my sister and she refuses to let me have a penny.Can I contact a lawyer?Do I have a case.I don`t want to do this,I feel like I`m disgracing my mothers memory and disgracing my family.At the same time,I have 3 kids and we just baught a house.I`m really being put in a very bad position here,but I feel like I`m being backed into a corner and being forced to take drastic meaures.Any advise would be helpful.Legal advice?Is this morally the right thing to do?Also my husband needs surgery and in alot of pain.He has to work under these conditions,on his feet 10 hours.$$ is needed for surgery to be possible.

2007-06-05 03:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by mom2119114 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 yrs and I just cannot deal with his relationship with his ex wife. She cheated and now has moved in with her life and I believe she has a stable marriage.
It creates a lot of tension between us. She shows up at all his family functions. She goes to all the weddings and funerals and family reunions. She is in all his financial business. In 5 yrs, I have never heard his kids call him because she always does the calling. They dont ever have a phone conversation with their dad because they never call, she does it. These kids are 17 and 18.
I have a 21 yr old and 19 yr old and he tells his ex all of our personal business which infuriates me. He tells her when we buy a car, where we bought it, how much we were going to spend,..... and its none of her business. We stopped telling him anything.
He asked me if I wanted her to do my taxes!!! Its none of her business. He told her how much money I made in a financial deal. Is it me?

2007-06-05 03:21:11 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I am married and their is this really good friend of mine, and I love him and I always thought I just loved him like a brother but now he is dating another really good friend of mine, and it hurts me, and I dont know why, I kinda think cause I know her and she will probably hurt him, she just isn't the "settle down" type. So I was thinking these feeling are more worry cause I dont want to see him hurt he is one of my closest friends... I know for a fact if he ever tried to kiss me or something I wouldn't cause I love my husband and I am completely loyal to him I just don't know where these feelings are coming from...

2007-06-05 03:20:29 · 19 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Singles & Dating

I hear lots of women say they want the guy to like them for who they are and not just for sex. What is it he's suppose to like...shopping, girl talk, her drama & emotions? What is it that we're suppose to have in common with a girlfriend?

2007-06-05 03:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

money but when you are older money is more important then love?

2007-06-05 03:20:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating