Why or why not?
2007-06-05 03:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by Proud mother! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I would.
I am married for twenty years and happy.
I do not have a house but a home.
It is our home.
We have our differences and have different opinions but on a healthy level.
I do take time to revalue my relationship.
Both of us do not compete with each other.
We do what is to be done.
My wife can join her friends for dinner or a drink I am fine with that .
We have space between us .Because of the space we can breath freely.
2007-06-05 03:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by thumba 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I would still want to have my son, but as far as the whole marriage thing I don't know if I'd do it over. I was 18 when I got married and I wouldn't listen to anyone when they were trying to tell me not to. Now I see that maybe they were right. People change as they get older. I am now 26 and I have changed a lot. I am not the same person now that I used to be and I would probably be dating very different people now compared to those I used to date. So now that I think about it if I had to do it all over I would have waited a little longer and seen where the relationship went before I got married. It's so hard to get out of it once you're in. I have a friend going through a very ugly divorce and there is a toddler involved and it's so hard on him. Well, I hope it answered your question.
2007-06-05 03:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by sweetypie_617 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point, while I'm going through my divorce, I'm tempted to say no. My husband has turned out to be a completely different person from who I thought he was and I am hurting really bad.
However, I got some really great things from our marriage, #1 being my beautiful son. And the truth is, I loved (and still love) my husband so very much. I would never take him back or have him in my life in any way, except as a father to his child, but the love is still there.
Hopefully, if I ever do this again, the person I marry will feel the same way about me as I do about them and it will actually last.
2007-06-05 05:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I like to imagine how my life would be different if I had made certain decisions differently. Any major decision before meeting my wife, I always reach a dead end if I realize, "No, if I hadn't done that, I wouldn't have met her." What I'm saying is that any changes I could go back in my life and make would only start after my marriage. I feel very glad and lucky to have met and married the woman I did. So, yes, I would definitely marry my wife all over again. We are very compatible, and she is perfect for me. She has also given me two of the most charming and beautiful daughters in the world.
2007-06-05 03:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
My 1st marriage, I would still do it over again. I wouldnt have my daughter if I didnt and I would be a different person. I love the person I have become and my ex helped me become that.
My 2nd marriage, I would do it over again. I am still in love with him. We may not get along very much at times, but he makes me tick.
I honestly wouldnt change anything in my past...good or bad. Without the bad I wouldn't have learned and without the good I wouldnt be happy,
2007-06-05 03:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My 1st marriage - NO and I knew it before I walked down the aisle but felt the pressure of letting family down. Should have listened to my intuition.
My 2nd marriage - I would do over and over and over again..love him very much...just maybe not the expense of a huge wedding all over again...
2007-06-05 03:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by linda m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would still marry the same person because he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and he makes me want to become a better person. He's also really hot! The only thing I would have changed was that I would have started to date him earlier. We were friends for over a year and a half before we started dating.
2007-06-05 03:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a chance! I was 22 at the time i got married and I have spent more than 1/2 of the past 5 years regretting it. The bad times for me far outweigh the good right now.
2007-06-05 04:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been married, but I had a bf that loved so much and was with for almost 3 years. I would do it all again, wouldn't take back a day..because with him I lived a thousand lives in one. We all make mistakes no matter how hard we try. I think I still love him. We had great time together.
2007-06-05 03:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes Yes Yes!!!!!! He has always been my best friend and the best partner a woman could ask for. We have been married 36 1/2 years and love him more each day we share together. After all these years I still find love notes from him every single day.
2007-06-05 03:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋