Help me... my hiusband to be live far away from me. we call each other nice & we misses each other my only problem is that i don't know whether he really love me. he tell me that he love me but i don't believe because he don't call me even to visit him where he is staying it almost 5 years i dont know where is staying when he is at work . His family know me me and they love me but my problem is i don't trust him what i alway think is that he is cheating on me and he always says im am the star in his life & no one will take my place in his heart help help help
2007-06-05 03:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by CHINAEYEZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hold on. You don't know where he lives, you've never been to his house, you don't know where he lives or where he works, and its been 5 YEARS?!?!
Yeah thats b/c he has a wife. Listen to what chris rock says on the subject. "If you've been with a guy 3 months and you aint met any of his friends--you are not his girlfriend".
Chris Rock says 3 months--not 5 years. Seriously if this is even a real question, I know it sounds harsh but you don't know where he lives, works, who he lives with--your issue isn't just trust. There is a reason why you don't know this information and I'd bet a lot of money that he doesn't work for the CIA. B/c even if he was top secret spy, you'd have a cover story of where he works and lives.
Perhaps he isn't married already, but something is seriously wrong. A lot more than a mere case of you not having trust. You have nothing to trust. What do you even know about him to begin with b/c usually those details are the first things you discuss with someone.
This relationship is so far over there isn't anything even to try to save.
2007-06-05 04:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would definitely find out all this information that you don't know before you go marrying this man- because you don't trust him and in order for your marriage to work you have to trust. You need to try and tell him you want to visit him and see what his reaction is- If it's been 5 years and you don't trust him? Then I would not marry him till I knew for sure you can trust him.
2007-06-05 10:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him then he should not be your husband to be. evidently you have issues and need to work them out or your marriage is destined to fail. you need to work out your insecurities and not take them out on him. if he has given you a reason to not trust him, then you definitely should not be marrying him.
2007-06-05 10:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Best 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont trust anyone either
2007-06-05 10:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by lolab!tch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋