I have never bought a wedding gift before and I am actually accompanying her uncle. They have a 6 month old baby and live in a home which they have already bought. She is 30 yrs old and her and the fiance have lived together since 13 yrs ago. I am not close to her but feel like I should buy a gift.
Her uncle never includes me in the gift thing even though my name was on the inviatation. He always writes a check. I feel sort of weird about this.
What should I do?
2007-06-05 03:45:19 · 22 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You can never go wrong with really nice picture frames. They're getting married and will have tons of pictures of their wedding, so nice frames will be nice!
2007-06-05 03:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation, but on the other side. I am getting married in less then two weeks, and my fiance and I have lived together and have a child together as well. We don't need anything, so creating a registry was very difficult. I would suggest something new for the home, such as a wall decoration, candles, or perhaps a new set of pillows. You could always get them a gift card for an evening out or a store. You might see if they are taking a honeymoon and donate mo ney for that event. Hope this helps or gives ya some insight.
2007-06-05 10:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by countrymomv4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out if they are registered and buy something off of their gift registry. If they aren't registered then you could ask the uncle if he knows of anything that they need. If he doesn't, you could buy picture frames, bedding, wine glasses... Picture frames are great because they will need frames to display their new wedding photos. Bedding is great because it's nice to have brand new sheets and blankets to sleep in as a new married couple. Wine glasses are a good gift because they are traditional and nice to have on special occasions. I hope I was of some help. Good luck!
2007-06-05 10:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your Uncle includes you in the gift giving (adding your name to the card)
could be he has alot more $ than you and is trying to help you financially by getting the gift/writing the check
why feel weird? Uncle sounds like he is being thoughtful to your financial situation
2007-06-05 10:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately MONEY because that is what most newly weds need the most. Especially after paying for a wedding and reception. I know first hand. If they are already loaded buy them a toaster, kitchen knife set, drinking glasses, or something like that. Or you can always check their registry.
2007-06-05 10:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since they probably have all their household items you could give them a gift certificate to a nice restaurant, a bottle of wine, picture frame or photo album.
2007-06-05 10:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Luv2RIDE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get them a nice picture frame. You can't go wrong with a picture frame. They could put their wedding picture in it or pictures of the children. Also, it is not too expensive and they look nice.
2007-06-05 10:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by CIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they registered? If not, how about something like Omaha Steaks or a fruit basket, a gift card?
2007-06-05 10:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by AtLarge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy something from their registry, if they are registered anywhere. You can search for their registry at www.theknot.com. Or you can look at target.com or other similar places.
If they are not registered, write them a check and enclose it in a nice card.
2007-06-05 11:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Scorch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not close, something as simple as a picture frame for their wedding memories would be nice, simple, yet still a little personal!
2007-06-05 10:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋