I hear lots of women say they want the guy to like them for who they are and not just for sex. What is it he's suppose to like...shopping, girl talk, her drama & emotions? What is it that we're suppose to have in common with a girlfriend?
2007-06-05 03:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's a Teaser. A playa can actually get involve without the emotional mess. I don't know what your other question means.
2007-06-05 03:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking two different questions.. In your first question: let's turn it around, shall we? The guy is stringing the girl along just because he wants sex, and so far he hasn't gotten it, right? Oh, that isn't what you said? Sorry....it sure sounded like it. It doesn't mean the woman is a "Player"; it only means she doesn't want to have sex with the guy. If that is all he is after, then he is the Player. To your second question: When you find the right girlfriend, you'll find you have a lot in common with her....or maybe not...opposites do attract. But there is much more to a female than shopping and girl talk. Girls like most of the same things guys like. Maybe she likes Nascar. Maybe she will be a Nascar driver someday...then won't you feel silly because you couldn't find anything to talk about with her? Get to know someone and you might find you have a lot of fun together. Unless all you want is casual sex....if so, play on.
2007-06-05 03:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best relationships are the ones that are formed on a friendship and not how they perform in the bedroom. It's like a test if he hangs around without the sex it means he is worth having and if he runs he wasn't worth it. She is't a player she just wants more than a booty call. You aren't expected to have everything in common,you just need to listen to each other and be able to have a real conversation about anything you desire.
2007-06-05 03:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by biancajoe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it twisted, she is definitely not a "Player" in the true sense of the word....but if you are spending money and time on her and you get the feeling that she is not really digging you...then You are playing Yourself!!!
Furthermore, If you have nothing at all in common with this Girl and have to find things to talk about instead of things flowing naturally on their own , then why waste your time or her time?.....unless, of course, the only thing you are interesed in is sleeping with her. And if that is the case, If I was her....I'd string you along ,too!!!
2007-06-05 04:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by lisa ann s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you stuck to your guns. I understand the need for some cultures to conform to family pressure because they feel they know best for their child. But where does that leave you as he instigated this relationship thereby insuring that he is ok with dating you and making his own decisions. I was in the same position years ago, but the girl his family liked was just as nice as I was and since it was a LDR, she was physically there, able to bond with him moreso then I and he married her. But you're physically here, therefore have a stronger bond then this other girl and eventually he's going to have to grow up and man up enough to make a decision. But the fact that you advise him of your empowerment, will light a fire under his butt to either punk out, or piss off his family. Stick with it. Whatever decision he makes will go a long way in helping you not waste your time in being with him.
2016-05-17 07:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by kimberley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stringing anyone along is being a tease. You're supposed to have similar interests in common that way the relationship has something to grow off of. Like if you both like camping, or cars, or what not. Maybe you don't have to be interested, like when my husband and I were dating- he hung out with a group of car tuners. Not my thing, but I went along to the shows with him cause I like to travel.
2007-06-05 03:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your looking for a good relationship, then getting to know her is very important. you need to become friends, if its just a physical thing, it wont last long, and it will be a shallow relationship. she is not a player, she wants a BF not just sex
2007-06-05 03:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interests, hobbies, feelings (you DO have them, right?) ... do you honestly feel that every single male/female relationship is just based on sex?
2007-06-05 03:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By the sound of it, you may be better suited to have a boyfriend than a girlfriend.
2007-06-05 03:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Neoclew 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so, but i think its wrong. 'A Player' isnt the only bad thing in the world of dating. I think its more of... an ***. Yeah, thats it. Are you referring to yourself?
2007-06-05 03:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋