There is this girl I really like at work. She is really pretty and sweet, but english is not her first language, and when I flirt with her, I don't think she gets that I am flirting. Any suggestions?
2007-06-05 02:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she is not american...you must be careful with the way you flirt..you don't want to be to abrasive and send the wrong message...
giving her a flower, or small tokens of affection can't be misinterpreted...
find an english to (her language) dictionary...if you go to a college bookstore you can find almost any...
start writing little notes or cards..or even making small talk in her language...
don't know if she doesn't speak english or not, but if you show the initiative in learning her language that should get you tons of brownie points..
best of luck...and hope all goes well
2007-06-05 02:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by la21unica 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, flirt is a body language, not so much just words. The body speaks louder than words and if she's not getting it, then perhaps she's just not paying attention. You should probably tell her straight out that you like her. There will be no doubt in her mind then.
2007-06-05 02:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Faith . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you know where she is from so do some reading on how to court her. Talk to her and ask her about her culture. That is one way of getting to know her. Watch her response then when the time is right and she feels more comfortable talking with you, try asking her out on a lunch date and then build from there. Sometimes going back to the old ways is better than flirting! Good Luck.
2007-06-05 02:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 21:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to say something flirtatious in her language. That should make it obvious! Also, I think a woman would no if someone is flirting by their body language alone.
2007-06-05 02:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by rec girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to learn some of her language so she will know you are interested. I know a girl from Taiwan and when I tell her a joke I spend the next half hour explaining why it is a joke to her. American sense of humor is different from hers.
2007-06-05 02:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body language is the universal language my friend. Your prolly already sending out the vibes. Pick up a book and throw some phrases at her. And if you actually get good at it, it'll be all the more impressive.
Put in the effort and reap in the rewards.
2007-06-05 02:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Draw some pictures,do sign language.
2007-06-05 06:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave a short note saying hello! or something like have a nice day in her language and signed by you on her desk... :) this is cute and simple but she'll understand!!!
besos and good luck!
2007-06-05 02:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what language we speak..the eyes speak for themselves..always use the eyes. Or Cut her out a paper heart and give it to her. Small enough she can slip into her pocket.
2007-06-05 02:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋