Ok so yes we broke up he went to the races with his friend for the weekend...but i wonder if he slept with another girl...I wonder because when he broke up with me he went to call me jen slipped and called me ashley which is my real name...But then when we got back togeather he was doing things in bed that he has never done before y is that could it be because he is afraid for me to find out or what is it if you know the answer leave me one and thank you for all your help!
2007-06-05 02:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because he knows new styles doesn't mean he was cheating on you. but I'd be mad about him calling me some one else's name even if he just hinted at calling me another name. give him a chance though, a relationship not built on trust will crumble.
2007-06-05 02:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just a tad confused........... why would he call you Jen if Ashley is your name?
As for the changes in bed, that could just be renewed vigour...
If you think he cheated on you, the best thing you could do is ask him about it. If you were broken up for that time period, there is really no way to hold it against him, then again I would wonder if he is going to break up with you the next time he wants to sleep with someone too.
You should talk, as calmly as you can, tell him that while you like the changes he has made, you cannot help but wonder where they came from...........................
2007-06-05 09:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by mrsmommaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely love him to the point to receive him back after he call you Jen - not your real name and had experience a new kind of sexual encounter in bed. Why? He's cheating on you and you don't know what type of sexual disease he might have pick up. Don't be so readily to recieve him back. Let him go - because he's probabley continuing with his bad habit and who knows what name he'll call you next time.
2007-06-05 09:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, that you "broke up". There are reasons for the break up. Did you approach the reasons and try to mend them? If you didn't and got back together with him, nothing is solved!
It doesn't matter what he is doing with his life. Just focus on your life. Do what makes you happy and a good person to all. Respect yourself and others.
Be your own friend first.
2007-06-05 09:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all. I think you hit the nail right on the head.
If it really bugs you, ask him straight out if he slept with whoever. You'll be able to tell by his response whether he's lying or telling the truth. (If he looks down or away, without answering, it means he's trying to think up a quick story; if he maintains a steady gaze at you its probably the truth.)
2007-06-05 09:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe at the races he listened with his ears instead of his mouth and overheard conversation about "how to" or something. Did he bring back any money?
2007-06-05 09:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you think he was with a more experienced woman? Good luck!
2007-06-05 09:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by krafty1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, having sex with someone that can't even get your name right. That's scary.
2007-06-05 09:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥TacySay♥ 12/18/08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2007-06-05 09:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be.... jen
2007-06-05 09:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋