Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

My wife is seeking custody of our two teenage children (15 & 13) I think they might want to live with me. I tell them all the time that both of us love them very much and that they will be able to spend as much time with either parent as they want no matter where they live. My wife wants them to live with her for obvious reasons not just the child support, however she is counting on that; but I think the kids want to live with me. I know the courts take their wishes into consideration, and both of us are equally capable of taking good care of our kids. We both love them very very much and we both want them to live with us. Any help with this?

2007-06-05 11:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by da_catcar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well this guy i have known for a good two or three months we talk sometimes and when he isn't at work and around 11 or twelve at night he tells me I can come over if i want.Then when I do I want to have sex but then he asks me for a ******** and i give it to him and he says I will give you what ever you want if you ive me what I want.Then after we finish he makes up an excuse so we can't have sex like I don't know what he is doing.What is wrong?Is it me or him?

2007-06-05 11:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by Hotmom1216 3 in Singles & Dating

They don't have a custody order she just wont let him see the kids. They want to see there father.

2007-06-05 11:48:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 11:47:18 · 24 answers · asked by Mandy Blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys how are you. there is a woman whos children go to my daughters niursery i cant stand her she dresses well elegant and attractive and evrybody sems to think so she has a car loads of money iam the complete opposite . I feel so jealous of her she has a expensive car nice clothes and hair my husband and daughter said so guys what should I do about this woman she is like the victoria beckham of wise owl there is nothing better than Id like to make her the worzel gummage of the montessori or even better turn her into dawn french, joe brand, or even better janet street porter and really make her life a misery that is what i would liek to do to her guys how should I handle this what should I do?

2007-06-05 11:46:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has stopped calling cause refused to have sex with him

2007-06-05 11:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by adeola r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year,and we were best friends before that.We've had our share of ups and downs but we always get through it,and it makes us stronger.Because he hangs around with his best friend's girlfriend,he has become good friends with her,which is fair enough,i have close guy friends too.He is also in a band with her.And sometimes he just mentions her like,if he sees something he will say 'oh she wanted that!'or if a movie is on 'she wants to see that'.It doesnt happen often but the occasional comment.and today someone was on tv and she reminded him of her?i know my boyfriend loves me more than anything,etc,as he is always telling me,and im mad about him.am i just being stupid and jealous?

2007-06-05 11:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the invitation it was specified: "No boxed gifts, please". The wedding is in Montreal, QC, Canada

2007-06-05 11:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I had a very bad break up with my boyfriend. We broke up in January. I tried to apolyigize, but i think i hurt him to a point where it still hurts him. I shouldn't have said the things i said, or even gone there...I love him!!!! I love him more than anything! If we honestly can never be again, i just want to look in his face, hold him and tell him i am sorry, kiss him then walk away. We were inseprable! And this is all my fault. If i weren't so STUPID i would have taken a different approach and not lost him. I at least need to make a big one last time effort! We were suppose to get married! I know i broke his heart, but there has to be something i can say to make things right again. If i can't i just need to tell him how sorry i am i hurt him , and that i had no intention of hurting him so bad! I am miserable without him. Until i nip this in the bud, i can't move on. I need some advice. So, if anyone out there has been in love, & lost some1, u kno what i am going thru, IT REALLY HURTS

2007-06-05 11:39:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why or why not?

2007-06-05 11:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or not cuz you are afraid it may change your relationship with him and you might lose a good friend>>>

2007-06-05 11:37:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl who has a bf, but i think kinda likes me back. we were talking hypothetically if it is right to tell someone in a relationship u like them. she said it was okay to tell them. i said that i liked a girl in a relationship but i cared too much about her to put her in a bad position. would u respect this? take it as me really caring? or would u think it made me gutless?

2007-06-05 11:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, for the past 2 months or so, 2 guys in my class have been staring at me. Today, while i was sitting behind them, they kept staring back looking at me and laughing. Were they making fun of me ?

2007-06-05 11:33:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have recently gone to a new school and this girl from my old school keeps calling me and sending me emails asking if she can come round to my house she really annoys me but im not the type of person to tell her to p*ss off i feel really guilty egnoring her because she used to be my friend but after she tried to eat my gold fish i thought maybe not.
all she does is talk about sex in detail and eats like a caveman and she's only 13
what should i do im fed up of her calling me and emailing me today she rang me like 5 times and then sent me an emai asking if she could come over on thursday please help what should i do?

2007-06-05 11:33:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My partner and I from the very beginning discussed being open and honest with each other. The other day he told me that some guy at the gym kept looking at him and even approached him and asked him to go to his place for a drink and more. He didn't do anything, but should I be worried about this. I got very jealous when he told me about it. At first I wondered if he just told me to make me feel jealous, but maybe he just wanted to share it with me. I feel as if the same thing happened to me that I would totally tell him about it as well. Am I worrying for nothing or is it strange that he told me about this? He apparently told his best friend about it as well and the last time I hung out with her she mentioned jokingly if he had told me about the dude that tried to pick him up at the gym. I tend to be very jealous and insecure and don't know if I might be reading into this too much?

2007-06-05 11:32:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys what is the point in sending messages to a girl through somebody else for months if you're not going to ask the girl out?

2007-06-05 11:26:02 · 1 answers · asked by Bird 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not planning to get married until a couple of years, but I want to be prepared.

2007-06-05 11:25:38 · 42 answers · asked by NT 2 in Weddings

My guy and I have been together for about a year and just recently I let him move in with me for financial reasons. We were spending ALL of our time together anyways so it just made more sense. The other day he had his email up and I decided to look at it (not every single email), but a couple in particular stood out to me. There was a few from some chick that he was trying to meet up with and have sex but then he told her he couldn't do it at that time. There was another one about an ad placed to meet transgender/transexual women, placed by a male around the same age as him (most likely he posted it). So I asked him about it and his first response was "where are you coming from with this?" Then he acted like he had an attitude for me checking his email. Needless to say we didn't really talk about it because I was too upset and just walked away and he sat in the room and continued to play video games and then went to sleep. I don't trust him and he just moved in, what to do?

2007-06-05 11:24:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....for a cat, Everything I learned about men I learned from my dog, Dating mating and manhandling, Every man I love is either married gay or dead, How to train a man, When momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy.
These are just a sampling of the books available to women about men. I tried very hard to find comparably misogynistic books about women, but had little luck.

How would women feel if they saw books with titles like these?:

-Feminists that aren't suitable for dating and how to spot them.

-Yes, all women are crazy (when it comes to communicating with their man).

-The man's guide to PMS.

-Signs and symptoms of a high-maintenance woman.

-Can you afford her?

2007-06-05 11:21:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend and I started a business together, things got ugly, she brought in her sisters and one of them stole a couple of thousand dollars. They blamed me, she believed them and voted me out of the company. That was one year ago. My life has been terrible, since. I've been out of work and am losing my house. Her Mom passed away, a day ago. I want to reach out to her, but she thinks I'm a theif and a liar, and she screwed up my life. I'm really worried about her, because she lost a daughter 10 years ago and her Grandma a couple of years ago, and this is going to be a terrible blow. HELP.

2007-06-05 11:21:38 · 21 answers · asked by lovestogarden 3 in Friends

humiliate, hurt(verbally) a guy that treats women like nothing but sex toys and let other girls know about this so noone else gets hurt?

2007-06-05 11:21:27 · 3 answers · asked by Juliet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for example:

What happened, how did it start?

Was it with the same person each time?

Did your online affair carry into real life?

Did it ruin your marriage, or was it kept secret?

How many times?

2007-06-05 11:20:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will have 2 flower girls and 2 ring bearers in my wedding. My question is my fiance will have a black suit black shirt w/ white vest/tie and so will one ring bearer. the groomsmens will have black on black w/ red tie/vest and so wil lthe other ringbearer. the flower girls will have a dress closely matching mine theirs is also white but theyll wear a red sash so it doesnt seem like too much. Is that lame? He said about theyll look like a miniture bride and groom. I thought it was cute. At least its cute in those pics of kids dressed up as brides and grooms..would it not b so cute in real life?
also we will have a smaller wedding of around 150-200 guests.
what r ur thoughts of having an usher to help seat the guests (there will only b a moh and bridesmaid...best man and groomsmen) the reson for 2 flower girls and ringbears is i have 2 neices and a nephew he has a nephew and we tried but we just cant choose between them theyll all b so precious dressed up!!

2007-06-05 11:19:22 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Weddings

My mom tells me I'm stupid but turns around saying I'm smart but I act stupid. She's the only one that done that until I met some girl who's 25 this year, and I live with her now. She treats me like I'm stupid and I don't know how to do anything. She says "Oh no you're not stupid you're sheltered!"

Am I stupid or what because two people think so!!

2007-06-05 11:18:59 · 5 answers · asked by Out of the Blue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-05 11:15:54 · 1 answers · asked by Clem P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-05 11:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even at this late stage, these grown women are trying to get to her. The company is being revamped so a lot of them are taking redundancy or being transferred. Even now this woman(the ringleader) in particular just cant help herself and is trying to cause more misery on my friend. The staff have traditions of leaving do's etc & this woman has managed to
exclude my friend from doing her bit & in the process making her look bad/miserly. 3 women (including my friend) are all leaving within a few days of each other & the normal practise is to have a joint do at a local bar & all 3 to put money behind the bar to buy everyone a drink. This woman decided she would have her own "do" then joined forces with the other girl & they have also arranged a buffet lunch in the office. My friend has not being invited to participate, only to attend. I think she shouldnt show it bothers her but i want her to be able to do something to annoy this woman & her posse but in a dignified way.

2007-06-05 11:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

5 years ago, we decided to marry. Two years ago, we got our marriage license.

We were madly in love, and we went through so much to get together. We married against our parents wishes, and I haven't spoken to my father in almost 2 years.

But now, I feel nothing. Whenever we spend a week or two together, we spend most of our time fighting. I no longer see her as the beautiful person (in body, mind, and spirit) that I used to see. We don't get along, we have nothing in common, and we don't even share the same interests and goals in life. I honestly don't remember why I wanted her so much, except that I was happy when I was with her, but that's gone now, and I see no reason for us to be together.

I told her this, and she did not take it well. She says that I ruined her life. What can I do? Can I just leave without any "real" reason?

But can I live forever like this? Yet, if I leave, how can I ever trust myself to be with another woman? Won't I just hurt another person?

2007-06-05 11:14:28 · 22 answers · asked by Yes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The father of my child is successful and makes good money(he is in the oilfield bussiness) he can be very mean, mentaly and physicaly abusive.. but I never had to worry about anything as far as money went. when we broke up I met a guy that was my age(21) and he is what I have been looking for as far as a relationship, he treats me like im the only woman in the world, no one has ever treated me like he does, I feel in love with him fast...but he lives with his mom and Grandma..I also make as much or more money than he does, and I am not used to that..I do not know what to do..do I get back with a guy who can support me and my child(the father of my child) and take the chance of being unhappy, but have anything and everything I want and need...or do I go with the guy who makes me happpy at heart and no be able to give my son ,everything he needs...I just dont know what to do...HELP

2007-06-05 11:13:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To Australia (not a joke) and i know that i will never see her again. Neither my family nor hers could pay for one of us to come over and see her. i am afraid that we will loose touch because she will be so far that we wont have much to talk about. I am really going to miss her! How do i keep in touch and raise the money to go see her in Australia? How much would a ticket cost from New York? I know its a lot but shes my best friend and im really going to miss her!

2007-06-05 11:09:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends