my boyfriend has stopped calling cause refused to have sex with him
2007-06-05 11:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by adeola r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one should pressure you to have sex. If you're not ready, you're not ready. Period. Any guy who will not call you because you refuse to do something you are uncomfortable with is not worthy of you or a relationship with you and is clearly using you for sex.
Break up with him, and save sex for when you're ready to share an intimate moment with someone you love, not someone who just wants a piece of a.
2007-06-05 11:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Yogi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He stopped calling because he didn't love you, he only wanted to have sex with you. You don't need a guy like him in your life. Wait for the right one and the right time to have sex. Don't do it if you don't want to. Once you give it away, you will never have it back. So don't give it to some jerk, give it to someone you really want to and love.
2007-06-05 19:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by silent_mind 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then he was not a good boyfriend, people shouldn't feel pressured to having sex, EVER, like the whole " if you don't have sex with me, then I'm going to dump you." a lot of people have sex there first time because of pressure, and not cuz they want to they aren't even ready, and you aren't either, cuz you're scared, and that's ok, it's fine to be scared, don't have sex until you have no fears of doing it.
2007-06-05 18:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that stupid.. Doesnt he have feelings for what you want!! I didnt have sex till my wedding night and im not a old chick i got married in 2000. i was 20 years old. He should have a lil more respect. and if he ignore's you because you didnt sleep with him then its his lost of a nice girl
2007-06-05 18:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are better off without him...If he were truly understanding, he would not be pressuring you to have sex. You are saving yourself from STD's etc., Don't feel too badly, you will meet someone caring who won't pressure you into having sex.
2007-06-05 18:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser you deserve better. No lose to you, he didn't deserve you.
If he doesn't respect you enough that you want to wait, then he's not worth it.
Save yourself for someone that will cherish, respect and love and care for you.
He's a jerk. You'll find yourself a real man.
DO NOT GIVE INTO THE CREEP, YOU'LL REGRET IT!!!!
Good luck sweetie!
2007-06-05 18:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Shanny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then he's a jerk and he doesn't deserve you anyway.
Also, don't feel bad about yourself for not wanting to be sexually active yet. It's a big decision and you should feel comfortable with yourself and the person you're with before you take such a big step.
2007-06-05 19:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley Osborn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt deserve u girl...u need to break up wit him...if he really loves u he wouldnt pressure u to have sex wit him
2007-06-05 19:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by eve_girl2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
notice that all these people are telling you the same thing,thats cuz their all correct.hard to argue with that.
2007-06-05 21:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Stretch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not ready
and thats ALL he wanted from you, so let the jerk go
he didnt love you
2007-06-05 18:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋