for example:
What happened, how did it start?
Was it with the same person each time?
Did your online affair carry into real life?
Did it ruin your marriage, or was it kept secret?
How many times?
2007-06-05 11:20:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, that stuff is fake!
2007-06-05 11:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I never have, but I have considered it recently, though I won't, since I consider it cheating. Why have I even bothered to consider it though?
As Payback.
My wife did it.
She met a guy in an online game, and signed up for Myspace at his urging. Their flirty little chats led to full blown cyber sex , there.
It was with the same guy, every time.
She gave him our phone number, and he called her, and they had phone sex.
She kept it secret until I showed her the keylogger on her computer, and confronted her about it. It was secret until then, but it almost ruined our marriage when I forced her to confess everything.
It happend 6-8 times, and at least 2x on the phone, but that's when I caught her, and made her stop.
2007-06-05 13:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by KGene1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't, maybe I'm boring. As a matter of fact I have never had cyber sex period. My guess is as long as it remained on-line, it would not be a problem. If you masturbate in the shower while thinking about the sweet little peach in the front office, is that a problem? I think not as long as you don't go & touch the fir on the peach.
2007-06-12 21:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Flying_James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife did, she met a guy in a Political chatroom, had a fling, fell in love and left me and the kids. He was married also, I'm not sure if they're living together, as of Christmas(last time she saw the kids) he was still married. It was like reading a story, I was shocked it happened to me. Good Luck
2007-06-05 11:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this was before we got married. we were engaged.
my then fiance was talking to other girls from another country on webcam
without my knowledge for a month.
he was paying them to entertain him so he could get off.
it started when i was at work
and he came home early.
not with the same person ever time that i know of.
no it did not carried over to real life.
he thought it would least damaging to the relationship,
but in the end it destroy our relationship for a long time.
yes it was secret until i walked in on him accidentally one night
when he talking to one of them.
2007-06-12 21:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by llanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes years ago when i was single...no it did not carry into real life
it really didn't do much for me. I prefer the real thing
being married i never have, and never will as I respect my marriage and our vows.
2007-06-13 08:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband did. I can't tell you how many time he has. But one did lead to real life. If your married don't do it. It almost ended a 19 year marriage.If he dose it again it will be over.
2007-06-05 16:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by jan12211974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had cybersex, but it was way before I even met my husband. I was single at the time.
2007-06-05 11:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to answer until you labelled it an online affair. Whatever. It's typing a fantasy.
2007-06-05 12:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, haven't done it and wouldn't do it. What is the point? Especially when you are married and can get it at home whenever you want!
2007-06-13 10:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sparkles_65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know two marriages that have fell apart! Word of advice... don't do anything you wouldn't want your spouse to be doing.
2007-06-13 06:05:02 · answer #11 · answered by heather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋