Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

I am a wife of going on 7 years, and My question is to the husbands out there who are happily married: Name some things your wife does that keep you happy and satisfied (not just in the bedroom answers please). Thanks in advance!

2007-06-05 10:21:35 · 12 answers · asked by Drisana R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Boyfriends birth day??!!??!!??
my crush just asked me out about 5 seconds ago and i said yes!!!!!!! anyways his birth day was 2 days ago and i dont know what to do??!!!!??? please help me??!!???!!
we are both 12 now!!!! and also my brothers and dad r way over potective and im not allowed to have a bf until im 16... and my brother is only a year older than me!!! and we r both in middle school and tight and i think that hes going to figure out sooner or later!!!!!!!!!!! what should i do????

2007-06-05 10:16:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl had the baby and ran off he lived with me untill he was 3 and then i let him live with his grandma and she never even visited him. and we he was 6 they sent me a bill for 10grand,I told the judge that she never took care of the kid what am i paying her for he said''send your money or go to prison''now he is 9 and she has been in prison for2 years for robbin a BP and they still want me to pay her !!! they treat me like a lyar and are destroying my life why do i have to by her oxycottins and crack because she had a baby 10 years ago that she hasnt seen scince////am i the bad guy just cuz i am a man ?I am married with 3 kids an cant aford a lawyer I will be livin in a box soon what can i do???

2007-06-05 10:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is white gold cheap? The engagement ring that I'm thinking about buying is a mixture of white gold and gold......

2007-06-05 10:13:02 · 18 answers · asked by bizzle 2 in Weddings

Well I have been seperated from my husband for while and was hoping to work things out and he was telling me this seperation was temporary,he is in the milatary and is stationed at his base,while I have been staying with family,well he told me I should stay with them to save money,Well little did I know he wanted to save that money for a divorce and had been planning this for months,Today he sent me a text pic of the divorce papers, he is saying he owes me nothing at all finacially,I am still stung and in shock at his cruel behavior,oh yea he also included with the divorce pics a message about how much hotter his girl friend is than me,My question is what can I do about this now,I am scared and do not know what to do,I tried to call his sergent but he was cold and basically told me he can't do anything about him wanting a divorce,also I do not have a job and no way to get around so I am stuck,any advice,info.Thanks

2007-06-05 10:07:45 · 10 answers · asked by kikidee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. earlier this year, i went out with this guy. lets call him danny. everything was great. he is SUPER cute and really sweet. but i broke up with him because he ignored me at school and talked on and on over da phone. i still have feelings 4 him. and the only person that knows how much i still like him is my best friend. lets call her lizzie. i was acatually planning on getting bak with him. but 2 days ago, he asked lizzie out! lizzie came 2 me and asked my permission 2 go out with him. i said yea cuz i thought she knew how much i liked him and would b smart enough 2 say no 2 him. well now they r going out. and lizzie no's im jelous about them 2 going out and dat i still like him. she wants me around with her everytime she is with danny. and i dnt like dat. she even had her 1st kiss with my ex-bf!!! and they'v been going out 4 like 2 days!!! me and him went out 4 weeks and nothing like dat happened!! what do i do? i tried talking 2 her. didnt work. im really jelous and angry!

2007-06-05 10:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you need a marriage certificate or just the license to change these things?

2007-06-05 10:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by monkey_pg 1 in Weddings

Im currently not happy in our relationship. I feel like he lies all the time, and doesnt really want to be with me. Ive had this conversation before, and i feel like im not initiating the conversation right or he doesnt understand me. Ladies do you have any ideas of how exactly i should bring up this conversation or what i can say to make myself very clear. Im a very blunt person but I cant approach him like that because I always end up hurting his feelings. Please help me.

2007-06-05 10:02:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well my bf said he's gonna give me a treat soon, in other words he's gonna give me oral sex, i really do love him but im still scared,well im just wonering should i find out what exactly he's gonna do to me or should i just experience it first hand? But if anybody can tell me what he mite do then that would be good to, (please dont me mean in ur answers.)

2007-06-05 09:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i like for two years! yes i know that long. i still think he likes me but he is so very shy, that he hasn't asked me out. i know he liked me before because when i asked him out 2 years ago he walked away, but then sent me a valentine. and recently he actually invited me to study with him at his house and he seemed uncomfortable, figedty, and nrvous. what does this all mean? and should i actually talk with hi aout it? and what should i SAY? i see him tonight . thanks for your help.

2007-06-05 09:57:26 · 9 answers · asked by aleandria 1 in Singles & Dating

shall i start saveing now .

2007-06-05 09:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does they ever concern of me ? or something wrong with me not able to keep in touch or visit or what ?

2007-06-05 09:54:45 · 1 answers · asked by laura_dymkowski 1 in Friends

Can taking a break in your marriage ever end up back in "happily ever after"?

2007-06-05 09:53:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just about anyone can dance around a pole and shake their implanted goodies. How is this *Exotic*? What would be a more appropriate name for it?

2007-06-05 09:51:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a court order that gives my ex every other weekend, 1/2 summer, 1 week at Christmas with our 8 yo daughter. My ex has since moved out of state so obviously cannot have her every other weekend. Our daughter has since been diagnosed with ADHD, Dyslexia and fine motor skills disability. She is reading at a first grade level and is going in to 3rd grade. The school has requested she attend summer school for 5 weeks during summer break. My ex is demanding that I now allow him to have her for the whole summer. I have reiterated how important it is for her to go to summer school as her disabilities are having an effect on her confidence & self esteem, but he is threatening to take me back to court to force my hand. Can someone tell me if an ex-parte hearing would help my cause before he does the same. Also, can he request an ex-parte hearing in his state CO even though our initial order is in CA? Would I get equal rights to 1/2 the summer to enjoy with her?

2007-06-05 09:47:10 · 4 answers · asked by Kelly A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not!! I’m 16.
I've had been on the honor roll for seven years (but this year, do to some problems I have, to get a 4.0 GPA).I'm in a lot of good actives and a lot of people know me. I know a little Spanish and a little of Japanese as well. My old crush, Taylor had got beaten up not to long ago over some girl. And he always has put me down all the time, make me feel small. He was a loser from the beginning and I should have seen it. Also I’ve also heard one of them saying “don’t worry, she’s stupid, she believe anything!” I do not believe IN EVERYTHING!!
All my crushes ARE LOSERS, I don't want to end up like my grand mama, it had happen to her the same way as well.
Plus, my old crushes have friends like them and they keep thinking I'm stupid or weird, for the reason that I'm different from the other girls in my school.
One of my friends knows one of my old crushes, and she had said” he is a BIG JERK!”
How can I find some one who treats me right, like a best friend and turn into to my boyfriend someday?
Because, most of my guy friends are very nasty, bi, and gay and some a step above my old crushes.
Plus, three of them live around me and one lives in the city, (the 18 year old).

Please say (nice Things) Thanks!

2007-06-05 09:45:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to help my older brother who is going through a terrible time. He has been married for 40 years, (has grown children and grandchildren) basically in a very unhappy marriage. However, his wife is the type that would never leave him and my brother is the type who will put up with anything in order to keep the peace. She is very manipulative and vindictive and it will be horrible when and if this divorce comes about. But, my brother has met somebody, and they love each other and have so much in common and so much enjoyment together. He is afraid to take the first step and tell his wife so he has been talking to me. What should he do first, talk to his kids, try a separation, talking to his wife first would be out of the question as she will just go ballistic. His main concern, I believe, is the fact that he feels he will be letting everybody down (his family, friends, etc) and that his wife, at first, will be unhappy. Any ideas on how this could be made less painful?

2007-06-05 09:43:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay what kind of gifts are appropriate to give at the wedding versus the bridal shower?

2007-06-05 09:42:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex and I have been apart for a little over 4 yrs, hooking up occassionally. We already have a 5 y/o together & I just found out Im pregnant. We arent together & we have never talked about getting back together. We just enjoy how our lives are right now. After I told him, he tells me he has been talking to someone & they are beginning to get serious. Does this make me look like the bad person on the side by keeping the baby? Should I keep the baby, he doesnt plan on being with me? This is a very weird situation for us...please give me your advice?

2007-06-05 09:42:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a sexual partner texted you this how would you feel?
Its almost 7am. I told you i'd b on a course in Washington for 4wks. Whats ur stress. I hav exams, ease up a bit. This is costing me
Any ideas please

2007-06-05 09:42:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this girl online for awhile and i know her very well and everything and she calls me hun and babe. when is the right time to say i love you? i really like her and i want to be with her.

2007-06-05 09:38:40 · 1 answers · asked by d43118 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to move forward in my life now that I am Divorced Recently!!!Not my fault ( my Wife ran off with a Turkish Bloke While on Holiday) As happens!! Am 50 Tall slim ,Fit< GSOH!! Big Family Spread around UK! Also need a good diet Idea to pick me up out of this Hole!!

2007-06-05 09:34:28 · 23 answers · asked by bornagainandy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I find myself having these fantasies regularly and most I would be embarrassed to tell people out. Most are forbidden type of fantasies that society would look down upon. I think I am somewhat of a normal guy, but these fantasies and desires are still there. Just wanted to know if anyone else had these. Just interested I guess. You don’t have to admit to what yours are if you don’t want, but if you had the courage to go for it. I just wanted to see how many people would be willing to admit to this besides me. If anyone cares to leave there email addy then we could chat about some of are wierd fantasies if you would like. I would preffer not to send them out to the world, but would be willing to share them one on one. Mine is leavemealone230@hotmail.com

2007-06-05 09:33:20 · 3 answers · asked by cheeks230 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

in general

2007-06-05 09:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 5'5'' and 14 lbs but a lot of people say I'm pretty and carry my weight well and that I'm very pretty and funny if guys would you date me?

2007-06-05 09:32:50 · 24 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

This blonde FOOL is driving me crazy & I don’t know what to do.I’m African & I ve been dating a white man for 2 yrs with a painful 6 months breakup in between partly coz of her.She behaves as if she is entitled to him coz she’s white.She’s a spoiled child. She like, my B/friend comes from a wealth family.You can imagine(there’s the culture & status difference)it hasn’t been easy for me to be comfortable around his social circles.Everyone else is fine with me but her.This S*L*U*T & my boyfriend grew up together & were once a couple 4 yrs ago.What led to our break-up?He invited a few close friends that day & she showed up.He & I were in the kitchen getting food,she walked up to him flirting,saying things such as”I know you like it white & clean”I ignored her.He asked her to leave but before she did,she put her hands in his pants grabbing his pensis.I wanted to kill her.He pushed her away,she started laughing with a look that said”what are you going to about it” to me.what can I do?

2007-06-05 09:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 09:29:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is sooo cute but is wayy older than me!!!

2007-06-05 09:27:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married to a wonderful man and we have a 3 year old daughter.
But the thing is I have really big trust & jealousy issues. So much that I feel it's come close to ruining our marriage.
I know he's a good man and has never given me reason to think he would cheat on me or otherwise.
but I feel in my heart that I'm just lying to myself.
the way I think is that ppl can keep secrets so what if everything he does is just a lie?
is there a way to get over this?
suggestions would be greatly appreciated :)

2007-06-05 09:21:03 · 19 answers · asked by preggo&luvinit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a bisexual

2007-06-05 09:20:22 · 17 answers · asked by Here kitty kitty 5 in Marriage & Divorce