This guy i like for two years! yes i know that long. i still think he likes me but he is so very shy, that he hasn't asked me out. i know he liked me before because when i asked him out 2 years ago he walked away, but then sent me a valentine. and recently he actually invited me to study with him at his house and he seemed uncomfortable, figedty, and nrvous. what does this all mean? and should i actually talk with hi aout it? and what should i SAY? i see him tonight . thanks for your help.
2007-06-05 09:57:26 · 9 answers · asked by aleandria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you. talk to him about things he likes but in a casual way. you go to the same school? he have a car? Ask him for rides home from school, thats a good way to start. making him feel comfortable with you is 100% the way to go. if you push too hard and confess or somthing before hes comfortable, you willl make things even more akward.
2007-06-05 10:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems lime he might like you. He seems very shy to me too. Just go up and talk about sports, so that it will make him feel more comfortable and he will not get so nervous and stuff. I hope every thing works out between you guys!!!!!
NOTE: I said sports, but any topic that interest him a lot will do. The point is to make him feel comfortable, and talking about something you know a lot about is a good way to do that.
2007-06-05 17:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be obvious. But then again, you're just a kid. The guy likes you, but he's too nervous to let you know. He's made attempts, like sending you the valentine and inviting you to study with him. But he can't follow through, because he's letting his anxieties run him. Just try to make him relax. Be comfortable around him, and perhaps he'll be comfortable around you. You've got to let him unwind. But don't make things worse, like immediately telling him how you feel. That may make him even more timid. Ease it out.
2007-06-05 17:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Niko? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me thinks he likey-likey you. Heh heh. He likes you and he's probably trying to ask you out, but he's too nervous to do so. Maybe you should start tonight by getting to know him a little better and when you two get a littl ebit more comfortable with eachother, YOU ask him out. If he doesn't say "yes", then... I'm prett ysure he likes you. Start off the conversation with general questions like "what's your favorite sports team?" stuff like that. I hope this helps! Good Luck. =]
2007-06-05 17:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, I am the king of shy and what I always wanted was for a girl to be totally upfront and honest , and put the moves on me!
2007-06-05 17:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he actually likes you. He may be nervous because he just wants things to be right and perfect. Drop in some hints about your affection for him and he may finally come out and profess his affection for you.
2007-06-05 17:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is nervous around you and llikes you. You see its hard for shy guys to talk to girls since we have low self esteme so mabye you should talk obut things he likes
2007-06-05 17:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dragon-Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that hes cute
2007-06-05 17:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Crashovdr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you please.. treat him the other way like .... considering him more confi then you think try to... do things the way he wants..
2007-06-05 17:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by allen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋