I'm not!! I’m 16.
I've had been on the honor roll for seven years (but this year, do to some problems I have, to get a 4.0 GPA).I'm in a lot of good actives and a lot of people know me. I know a little Spanish and a little of Japanese as well. My old crush, Taylor had got beaten up not to long ago over some girl. And he always has put me down all the time, make me feel small. He was a loser from the beginning and I should have seen it. Also I’ve also heard one of them saying “don’t worry, she’s stupid, she believe anything!” I do not believe IN EVERYTHING!!
All my crushes ARE LOSERS, I don't want to end up like my grand mama, it had happen to her the same way as well.
Plus, my old crushes have friends like them and they keep thinking I'm stupid or weird, for the reason that I'm different from the other girls in my school.
One of my friends knows one of my old crushes, and she had said” he is a BIG JERK!”
How can I find some one who treats me right, like a best friend and turn into to my boyfriend someday?
Because, most of my guy friends are very nasty, bi, and gay and some a step above my old crushes.
Plus, three of them live around me and one lives in the city, (the 18 year old).
Please say (nice Things) Thanks!
2007-06-05 09:45:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, one had said it over the phone, by, leaving the phone on while he was talking to his mom. And he was the ONE who was crying on the cell!!! When he first had called me! And later HE had lie to me about he doesn’t have a girlfriend, they just friends, THATS A LIE!!
The other one is a jerk! He had a girlfriend in the SAME class we were in (health in 9th) and 1 and a half year later he was beaten up and it shows!!
So how can I find a guy who treats me right?
2007-06-05 10:47:15 · update #1
You have style and heart. You have a brain, and a future. This makes you a target for losers who want to pull you down to their level. They obviously know that you're not stupid, or you wouldn't do so well in school. And if weird means getting good grades and being sweet and sensitve, then it would be nicer if more people in the world were weird (and there ARE a lot of people who fall into this category -- every school has someone going through the exact same thing). Just shake your head at their poor pathetic ignorance.
Sure, it would be nice to have a crush respond with a reciprocal crush. Why is it that so many of the good looking, funny, interesting guys always also seem to have puny brains, or big egos, or otherwise be defective? Many of them grow out of it, but teenage boys notoriously have little peanut brains ruled by hormones. Girls want romance and partnership, and boys are looking for...well, whatever.
Fortunately, in just a few years (you can break this down into weeks!), you can be out of this high school and moving on to great guys who are also looking to a brighter future and who are using their brains in college, in jobs, etc. Look at the pictures of guys on college and career websites. These are the guys you will want in the future! This high school and the little-minded people you have to deal with right now are just a stage that you have to go through to get there. Someday they will wait on you in stores or service your car...or may be in prison or on welfare, while you -- with all your wonderful weirdness and 4.0 GPA -- will be successful and happy. Don't let the little people get you down.
2007-06-05 09:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Neonzeus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That you would give one second's thought to worrying about what your ex's and their friends think is exactly why you keep ending up with losers who are big jerks!
You shouldn't care what they think. They are losers!
If you keep reaching down and picking up doo-doo, it's time to move on to a different patch of grass!
Change your scenery. You're a smart girl. Hang out with other smart people. You'll certainly end up meeting someone nice and the chances of them being a loser is a lot less.
Let your ex's and the losers they hang around with find each other and make like miserable for each other into the sunset. YOU are taking a different path.
But only if you really want to.
2007-06-05 09:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, first off I say...Who gives a hell what they think obviously they're are not seeing the great qualities that you have. And about finding a guy who treats you right, don't worry you still have a long life ahead of you, he'll come to you. What's weird is when you give up and stop looking is when he usually comes around lol.
2007-06-13 08:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Little Green One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sems like you are a very intelligent girl and you know what's right for you.
just keep looking, and i'm sure you will find the right one for you.
whether it's tomorrow, or three years from now.
everyone has a someone.
it's just that you may not have found yours yet.
much love,
alex.
2007-06-05 09:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by goodlife1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, its the age. they don't get any type of maturity until at least 23. Then they still act like jerks.
2007-06-13 08:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by howlie_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're entitled to your opinion about them, then they are entitled to their opinion about you. What does it matter they are ex's, it's natural to assume there would be some bitterness or petty dealings with them.
2007-06-05 09:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...im not say this alot..seriously but you are soooo pms-ing
calm the hell down lady...this happens to everyone!!! You broke up with them (or they did) do you exspect them to still be super nice to you....
2007-06-13 07:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by orange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are haters!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or they just jealous of you do your thang thang
2007-06-05 09:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by K_Dizzle35** Y!A_MoSt HaTed!* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋