ok. earlier this year, i went out with this guy. lets call him danny. everything was great. he is SUPER cute and really sweet. but i broke up with him because he ignored me at school and talked on and on over da phone. i still have feelings 4 him. and the only person that knows how much i still like him is my best friend. lets call her lizzie. i was acatually planning on getting bak with him. but 2 days ago, he asked lizzie out! lizzie came 2 me and asked my permission 2 go out with him. i said yea cuz i thought she knew how much i liked him and would b smart enough 2 say no 2 him. well now they r going out. and lizzie no's im jelous about them 2 going out and dat i still like him. she wants me around with her everytime she is with danny. and i dnt like dat. she even had her 1st kiss with my ex-bf!!! and they'v been going out 4 like 2 days!!! me and him went out 4 weeks and nothing like dat happened!! what do i do? i tried talking 2 her. didnt work. im really jelous and angry!
2007-06-05 10:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldnt have told her yes.... you cant be too angry with her because dhe atleast asked you first
2007-06-05 10:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on...I know you don't want to hear this answer. I wouldn't either but your best friend was being a good friend by asking if you cared if they went out. Even though she shouldn't have anyway just because you guys broke up, she still asked, which means she cares.
You can't really do anything because she didn't do anything wrong. So just hold your head up high & stay strong & look for other guys. If he moved on to another girl that fast then he'll always be that way. That shows he's not a good boyfriend anyway.
Good luck
2007-06-06 12:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want her to go out with him you should have said no. Don't expect people to read your mind - you will be disappointed every time.
She proved her friendship for you by asking before dating your ex - prove your friendship to her by sticking by what you said (that you didn't mind her dating him). Keep the lesson - if you cannot handle a friend dating your ex - in the future be honest about it. (ie: Geeze Lizzie, I would really appreciate it if you didn't date him. If she does it anyway then she isn't much of a friend.)
Trust me - this will happen again.
Never, ever let a guy come between you and a girlfriend, as a rule they are not worth it.
2007-06-05 10:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by andijxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Step back and move on with a new guy ! They connected, you and he did not ! That is just part of the pain when one steps into the "dating game"!
2007-06-05 10:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your superb chum and your ex are egocentric, your Bff might desire to've refuse his advances in basic terms because of the fact He dated you. come clean inclusive of your Bff and permit Her understand the kind you experience, my Bff and that i save on with this easy rule to maintain our friendship risk-free (in no way Date each and each others ex) try your friendships enable them to understand the kind you experience in the event that they do no longer understand why you experience such as you do enable them to Have one yet another they do no longer should be your chum.
2016-11-05 01:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT...I went thourgh this idk how many times where I was jealous of my best friend just cuz of a guy it wastes ure time dont get jealous find a new guy unless ure that retarded if I was u I would hide my feels and be nice to friend and be happy for her not be a jealous *****
2007-06-05 10:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋