this girl had the baby and ran off he lived with me untill he was 3 and then i let him live with his grandma and she never even visited him. and we he was 6 they sent me a bill for 10grand,I told the judge that she never took care of the kid what am i paying her for he said''send your money or go to prison''now he is 9 and she has been in prison for2 years for robbin a BP and they still want me to pay her !!! they treat me like a lyar and are destroying my life why do i have to by her oxycottins and crack because she had a baby 10 years ago that she hasnt seen scince////am i the bad guy just cuz i am a man ?I am married with 3 kids an cant aford a lawyer I will be livin in a box soon what can i do???
2007-06-05 10:14:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your kids (sons especially) put it on before you put it in or you'll pay for it later.
2007-06-05 10:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did the State support your son when you left him in the care of his Grandma? If so that is why they are wanting the money back. If we have children we should try and support them. You've done well being married and having other children, so who is raising your first son now? You talk about your life but has anyone considered this son you have that is 9 years old? Grow up and stop whinning about supporting a child you had or either take and raise him yourself.
2007-06-05 10:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be paying child support to the grandparents who are supporting your son. Call a lawyer and make sure she never sees a penny of that money.
2007-06-05 10:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by jade j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the money sould go to the person whom has legal custody of the kisd so if grandma has him grandma should get the money.contact yor childs social worker which I am sure he has... u'll have to pay... period... weather she's a crack head or not the government doesnt care, but i would contact social services and tell them thats she getting the money and the grandma should.
The state doesnt care about your reasons so remeber that.Just support your son to the best of your ability.
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-05 10:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by brooke s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the only option I know of would be to get a lawyer. Why don't you try to get custody of him! That is ridiculous that you have to pay her. But you should be paying whoever is taking care of him.
2007-06-05 10:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn..I say run..or get a lawyer you can't pay anyone if they aren't taking care of the baby.
2007-06-05 10:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever the guardian is, that person is entitled to child support. If you didn't want to father a child, you should have used a condom.
2007-06-05 10:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to find a way to get a lawyer - call every one you can find and see if they will do a payment plan - see if family can loan you a retainer, get a title loan on your car...something...
this is NOT something you can fix on your own.
2007-06-05 10:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were man enough to make a baby, be man enough to support your own child.
Shame on you!
2007-06-05 10:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋