i have recently gone to a new school and this girl from my old school keeps calling me and sending me emails asking if she can come round to my house she really annoys me but im not the type of person to tell her to p*ss off i feel really guilty egnoring her because she used to be my friend but after she tried to eat my gold fish i thought maybe not.
all she does is talk about sex in detail and eats like a caveman and she's only 13
what should i do im fed up of her calling me and emailing me today she rang me like 5 times and then sent me an emai asking if she could come over on thursday please help what should i do?
2007-06-05 11:33:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her you cant be bothered with her. Its easier over the internet you dont have to see her face.
"eats like a caveman and she's only 13"
^that is so funny im rofl^
2007-06-05 11:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang out with her. If all she is talking about is sex, then she is not a good influence on you, and you know that there is a good chance that you will end up the same way if you hang around her. Just tell her nicely that you don't want to hang out or talk to her because she is a bad influence on you. She will probably get mad at you, but what do you care if you don't want to be her friend?
2007-06-05 11:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bobert R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm .. she sounds kinda strange i can see why you dont wanna be bothered with her. i have been in that situation before.. i'd say tell her your busy cause if you say you'll hang out she'll call you all the time just say your really busy with your schoolwork and stuff.. and if shes 13 she should not know ant details about sex and i hope she hasnt experienced it yet .. you should tell her that you dont feel comfortable talking about stuff like that .. shes the type of person thats just looking for friends and wants to fit in.. if you see her around say hi dont be rude. but if you want her to back off reply to the email saying you can and you'll call her.. eventually she'll stop. i feel bad for her, but you might wanna tell her the truth.
2007-06-05 11:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you won't be with her that you have moved on and found new people to hang around with and because you can't see her all of the time you want to have more time to spend with your new friends. Tell her that you think that you should go different ways from now on
2007-06-05 11:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by xoxox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She tried to eat your goldfish?! Just ignore her! I have a friend like that and I only ever meet up with him if I get really bored and have nothing better to do - harsh I know, but he is a bit annoying, I can't put up with him for to long!
2007-06-05 12:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. They are GOLD FISH. Don't hold a grudge on her for that. On the other hand, she does not need to talk about sex. Talk to her about it. Then tell her her phone calls and emails are a bit aggravating, and to please stop phoning. Tell her if you want her to come over, you will call her.
2007-06-05 11:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by princessbeyondrepair1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your not the type to be mean then call her and disguise your voice and say stop f**cking calling my friend so much and act like your someone else or one of your new friends and maybe she will stop calling you it worked with me.
2007-06-05 11:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid of telling her that she needs to back off a little bit. Everything will work out in the end.
2007-06-05 11:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by surfnblondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just tell her that u dnt really see her as a friend no more and let her go.....
it seems harsh but you have to do it if u dnt want to hang round with her anymore....
if she still doesnt stop calling you then tell your mum and then she will deal with it
2007-06-05 11:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by hamstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm..
1. don't feel guilty lol she sounds annoying already
2. change your number/get a new email? sounds reasonable =o
3. POOR GOLDFISH
2007-06-05 11:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by De-Sire~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋