It is very hard for me to be alone
2007-06-05 12:17:32 · 8 answers · asked by bestmother2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was a husband who lost his wife so it's probably a bit different for me but I stayed very busy and found lots of social activities to do. After some time it became easier to be alone. Its been 8 years for me now and things are good. Still miss my wife but keep moving forward and now looking for a new partner. good to you.
2007-06-05 12:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what are you going through, I also lost my husband a year ago and let me tell you somethings that I did. The first six months were really bad, I cried a lot and I did not have energy to do anything, I felt I was dead too. A new year started and I though that I have just two options: 1. Destroy my life or 2. Start over again. I choose the 2nd one. I have a lot of faith and that help me a lot and I have decided that life is too short to be sad and I'm enjoying every minute in my own way telling God, Thank you for give me such a wonderful husband, I'm very glad that he is with you, please give me the straight to keep living without him.
I wish you the best, and if you ever want to chat just let me know.
2007-06-08 20:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lashede 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spending time with a good friend or family members, they know you the best and will do whatever it takes, Get into a class at a local college, or maybe a book club, card clubs are out there too. I wish you the best of luck, and remember there are caring people on Answers, that will be a freind too.
2007-06-05 19:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by lorenzolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried grief counseling? You should find sombody to talk to - maybe a friend who understands or a therapist. I think it's important that you find a way to cope and move on with your life. God Bless
2007-06-05 19:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just have to surround yourself with supportive people who understand your situation, try to have some alone time, maybe start a journal and try not to get depressed.
2007-06-05 19:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Curious1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. You need to get out, "I know" it is hard but it really does work. Just spend time with friends and family. If you need anyone to just talk to, you can always message me.
2007-06-05 19:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pet. Cats and dogs need good owners .
2007-06-05 19:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a child? if you dont you can find another guy easier.
2007-06-05 19:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by MeAko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋