I saw my friend’s girl with another guy.?

Question

I don’t know if I should tell. I really don’t want to look like a snitch. Or cause a mess in there relationship. When I seen her with the other guy it really did not look inacent. Good thing she did not see me. HELP

Answer 1

If it didn't look innocent, you should tell your friend. He deserves to know what's going on.

Answer 2

Stay out...certainly don't be a snitch or get involved. Some times people don't want to know the truth because it hurts. If you can't resist the temptation of getting involved, are you in close contact with the girl? You might want to give her a heads up that you saw her with someone else (advising that you haven't said anything to your friend, yet) and that you think something might be up. Let her explain it (or try to lie about it off the cuff). There could be a very good excuse (or a real quick lie) for her actions...

Answer 3

You shouldn't tell him as much as you would like to all because you might put your friendship in jeopardy. Now, if your friend is in love with this girl then no matter what you say wouldn't change his mind about the girl. Next time you see his gf out with another guy then just call your friend up and tell him to come to the place cause you want to talk to him about something serious or you could just take a picture of his gf and the other guy only if you're at the same place as she is.

Answer 4

Well, what were they doing? I'm a girl and if she jus gave him a hug, or something like that then 2 me it's ok. But if u really feel it wasn't, then i would first talk 2 her. I would ask her 2 b completly honestly, and ask what she was doing with that guy. If she says shes cheating then say he really likes you, and u don't want 2 c ur friend get hurt. So either brake up with 1 of them, instead of playing them, or u will tell ur friend what happened. If she said it was nothing i would still keep an eye on it, to try and get more info. i hope i helped . . . good luck

Answer 5

Only you can really make that decision, but it's kind of a lose/lose situation for everyone...It will more than likely cause a big mess in their relationship, and maybe even one between you and him. He might get angry with you or not even believe you...so if I were you, I would wait until it came out into the open on it's own. You may feel like you need to say something, but I would hold off and just support him when he finds out on his own.

Answer 6

Well... let's see here. I think about this as putting it as if it were me. So if it were me and my boyfriend were cheating on me - I personally would want my friend to tell me if they saw him with another girl. I wouldn't want to be with a guy who didn't really like me and was out with other girls. I'd just have to get over him! Hope that helps and good luck with this! Another thing I might do is confront the girl and ask her what was going on? It all depends on how well you know both of all 3 of these people and what kind of people they are.

Answer 7

You have to ask yourself about your relationship with him and your relations with her. You also have to look at age. If you are all under 25 then let things be. Things have yet to be learned.If you say something you could lose a friend. If you don't and he finds out later that you knew, you could lose a friend. If you care for him and you feel in your heart that he needs to know,then tell him. But you could still lose a friend. But then again he could be very accepting of the "heads up". How good of a friend is he? You know him better than I.

Answer 8

hi there mm mm many things u can do OK now
read up you can write him a letter but it's your neck on the line you might lose a friend she can lie to it you need prove solid evidences. see if you or someone can take a picture of her and this other guy find out what she is doing this weekend most likely movies or a club if older just take a picture or have someone else with you when you see her with the other guy that too can be your evidence. but by just saying it his love and hers is too strong to believe you prove ina court of law is the best policy.


be well be safe P.S it's not being a snitch it's watching out for your friend and sickness out there. better be safe than sorry

Answer 9

Well, if it were me, I'd tell. Because I have absolutely NO tact and I'd want someone to tell me if my guy were with another girl. But I'd tell it like I saw it--did it look innocent? No? Why not? Maybe it was a situation that could easily be misconstrued?

A very good friend of my boyfriend just married a girl he is almost certain cheated on him not once, but twice. Everyone knows it won't end well.

You have to think about how your friend will take it. Is he madly in love with her? Are they just dating?

The only person who can best determine the reasonable action is you.

Answer 10

If he's your friend then say something, but try not to make it sound like you think it wasnt innocent. Just give him a little information and see if he comes to the same conclussion.

She may have told him where she was at the time, and this discrepency could save him a ton of agrivation. Or he may know the guy and know she was with him.

Answer 11

This is a tricky one. You are really worried about your friend and his relationship with his girlfriend. But I would say that the right thing would be to tell him. This isn't hard, trust me I know from experience, and it doesn't always seem like the right thing to do, especially when you don't want to jeopardize their relationship. But your friend does deserve to know what has been happening. You don't have to tell him that his girlfriend has been possibly cheating on him, just steer the subject to find out if he knows, and if that's OK with him. But i would recommend telling your friend.