Is one enough to destroy the relationship or will you give him more chances? What if he breaks off with the other girl and humbly apologizes to you and makes amends?
2007-06-05 22:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will not give anyone a second chance if they cheated on me. That's just a boundary I can't forgive. That's the most disrespectful thing you can do to me. I won't give him a chance to say shame on me. Cause if he does it once shame on him but if I take him back and he does it again, shame on me. No way. But that's just me! Yeah people can change but not that fast.
2007-06-05 22:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give him another chance he will take it & somewhere in the future cheat on you again....a leopard does not change it's spots - the thrill is too great for the animal to resist - pure denial if you believe otherwise....he can cry a river of apologies, but once he betrays the girl he is with he knows he can get away with it again, once she licks the wounds with him - blunt but true - denial party otherwise!
2007-06-06 05:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by eluvsdmode 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whtever happen happen for the best so kets hope for the best one u should thank god that u r not spending your time with such a fool like him so just disown him from your life
Don't ever accept him again even if he apologies but if u are good at heart then u'll have to forgive him but let him know this time that u rnot his toys and u r also like him a human whose heart is also is a humaN OK
2007-06-06 05:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ameerah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If just dating the person 1 strike and your out. If your married with kids, 2 strikes. Either way he's getting a swift kick to the nuts.
2007-06-06 05:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't like cheaters and I make that very clear when I am dating a guy. The number one thing I ask is no lying and cheating is a form of lying. You would be lucky if she takes you back, and if she doesn you better hold on to her cuz she might be the one for you!
2007-06-06 05:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no second chances with infidelity. It shows a total and complete lack of respect, loyalty and compassion for the initial relationship in the first place.
2007-06-06 05:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is this, I would probably try to forgive him, but a friend went through this said that she couldn't do it. She said that she just couldn't forget. It affected every aspect of her life, and she said that it would never be the same again, and she didn't know if they could create a new relationship.
So my answer is.... I would try if we were married. Boyfriend would be history
2007-06-06 05:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by mel s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first I would ask him why did he do it, because obviously he had desperate needs for someone else. If he had relationship with her, there's nothing on this world that could make me forgive him. If you really love someone, you don't need someone else. No, I wouldn't give him any chance. Would you? I don't think so.
2007-06-06 05:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Elina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women will always say once he cheats, he's gone.
But in my opinion, if they really love the guy, usually a second chance is given.
2007-06-06 05:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by HaLF_BaKeD123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What age group are we talking about here? And how do you define cheating? I'd need more info to answer the question.
2007-06-06 05:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋