Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

i like this guy.he asked me to show him my breast 4 a pack of gum,should i show him my breast or get to know him more.

2007-06-05 19:14:35 · 28 answers · asked by Tonicia M 1 in Singles & Dating

my new neighbour keeps on climing on to the fence and stering into our window when he first moved in he got his latter and put it up a small tree and was cutting it down and haveing a good look at us he also stands at the fence and tryes to listen to our convasations. my littel sisters got a water pistle and when he was looking threw our windows they squirted him. they done this about 4 or 5 times. then they called the cops on us because they got squirted with a water pistle WHAT SHOULD I DO

2007-06-05 19:09:09 · 17 answers · asked by Eamon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-05 19:04:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine who I have known for 5 yrs. has recently broke up with his gf of 6 yrs. He told her that they should see other people; but we was also cheating on her. He didn't tell her that. Also him and another good friend of ours told his sister that the dog that my good friend got from her had died; when we don't know if he died and hat had actually happen was that he lost the dog. He hasn't told her. I understand the thing about "White Truths" or "Half Truths" but I think that these 2 incidents have kind of cross the line. These are also the same people who indirectly call me crazy; when I know that when they ask me something personal I tell them, but when I ask them they get all defensive and deny it and a couple other issues that I won't go into detail because I am running out of space lol. So am I a victim of deception? Or is deception on its way in time?

2007-06-05 19:03:26 · 2 answers · asked by ebrewski0075 1 in Friends

I got mad at my teacher because I think she was talking about me to her teacher friends. I was supposed to grade papers since I'm her TA, i'm a junior in HS. I told her intern that I thought the teacher was a no good b*tch and all, but I don't know if he told her. I also threw her pen across the room where she couldn't find it. Well I walked out of her class and the next thing I know, she comes looking for me all over the school. She even came into the lunchroom, but never found me. From what I've heard, she went back to the class and said out loud that she was going to write me up, but never did. I've done it twice already. Why did she come looking for me, but not write me up? She wouldn't talk to me a few days after that, but then she was all nice to me, atleast it seemed, maybe fake nice.

2007-06-05 18:57:56 · 6 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate it when people rip off the welfare system, am i paying for these cheats through taxes, whilst trying to earn some money while studying and hardly keeping my head above water. they are out there claiming the welfare and extra money on top of that and not declaring it!
this is my question, i know someone who is cheating the system, not in a huge way but enough to annoy the hell out of me, he/she works less than me and earns much more, and i get no welfare but i pay for him/her..... should i tell the welfare system he/she is cheating? Is that wrong for me to do?

2007-06-05 18:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This is going to be a lengthy one...

I've been friends with this one lady since we were in late elementary school. We were best friends for a bit before she found out that I had developed a romantic interest in her that helped strain our relationship. That was six years ago and we're back on good terms with each other now. We have a lot in common, but are different enough to keep things interesting. We know each other extremely well. For example, we can tell when the other person is lying or covering something up, even when chatting online. At one point we both said that we wouldn't work. I'm not so sure of that anymore. So my question is: Is it possible to know someone too well to have a relationship with them? I'd appreciate it if you explain your answer. Thanks in advance.

2007-06-05 18:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by tigeracts03 2 in Singles & Dating

Now I've found this great guy who's so perfect, we've been together for over three years, we're never had a major, major fight, it's all going great. (Maybe I paid my dues) anyways I still can't help getting weird-ed out when he goes out with his friends. I just have this mentality that he's going to do something stupid and screw over a really great thing. His friends are so sweet (to me) but treat their girlfriends like crap, it might be that I think they’re bad influences.

It's probably because of my past and I say to myself that I trust him and he would never do anything to hurt me but it still bothers me. I don't want it to bother me anymore; I desperately need some advice and please don't be mean. Thanks

2007-06-05 18:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 18:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by Vv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this girl since we both were in high school, we are now both graduated from college. I dated her cousin but we are not together any longer since beginning of our college years. Now the girl used to date this guy and we all used to hang out, but not any longer. The girl was going to get married to this guy and they had a child together which is now 10 years old, but they haven't been together since their son was 3 years old, due to the girl being dirty and saying if he doesn't buy me a platinum ring I will not marry him. I told her that it shouldn't matter how much the ring cost do you love him? Anyway me and the guy hooked up together, because we used to talk before about our partners about what we don't like about them, and we now have a 2 year old daughter and are planning on getting married this year. I called and apologize to this girl because it was really bothering me that I did this to her, but I can't take what I did back. Is there anything else I should say or do?

2007-06-05 18:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She doesn't seem to like anyone and everyone thinks she's a ***** mainly because her attitude?

2007-06-05 18:31:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 21 my love is 22 he's white and I'm black we broke up about 9 mo's ago because his parents don't like that I'm black. We met back up today and found out we still love each other very deeply and so we're going to plan a Sunday night dinner talk with his parents. What would you say to them. We're christans so please no profanity. Thanks for your help.

2007-06-05 18:26:06 · 28 answers · asked by justtryingtohelp 4 in Singles & Dating

at roman catholic churches if your not a member and your family or your fiance and his family arent members will they let you get married in their church?

2007-06-05 18:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend and i have been together for 20 months. but i have a problem with becoming jealous when other girls talk to him (in a flirty way...girls can tell when other girls are flirting). he completely acts like the girl isnt even there and always reassures me that theres nothing to worry about. it just drives me nuts seeing another girl even try to talk to him. i trust him and i know he thinks im the one for him. but how to i make things easier on me and on him??

2007-06-05 18:16:37 · 5 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Singles & Dating

I been single for over 2 years and it's hard not having a male to talk too and share with. Whys is this so hard????

2007-06-05 18:15:13 · 20 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married to an addict. We have been through the iraq war, and many other deployments. He is not addicted to a plathora of drugs and has been stealing from our family and friends. He is in a drug treatment facility but does not seem like he is up for the help. He is trying to get on the methadone program and talking about how he COULD get drugs up there if he wanted. What do I do? We have 2 kids 8, and 20 months.

2007-06-05 18:12:23 · 12 answers · asked by help_for_u&me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

attitude?
the way they dress?
im in 7th GR

2007-06-05 18:04:19 · 3 answers · asked by Mayra 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy i have a crush on, well he asked me: "what do you miss about having a boyfriend" so i told him the answer, then he said "ok i thought that would be too personal for you to answer" how in the world is that a personal question?

2007-06-05 17:58:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what else to say or do, when she does drugs it hurts. She understands that and agrees with everything i say and then says she quit and she wont do it again. That is the part that hurts the most, she says she will quit and acts like she understands and then she does them anyway, and she tells me she is sorry and cries and says she wont do it again. She was huffing and not telling me, she had huge headaches and never told me why. Then she randomly tells me a week after she was doing it and asks me to forgive her, it hurt so bad knowing she was doing that to herself. She quit for awhile and the other day i went over to her house the other day to surprise her and she was so messed up she couldnt stand, she was panicking, couldnt breathe, she was throwing up, i could barley breathe watching her, it couldnt stand watching her like that, it hurt so much. all i could do was help her get better and talk to her about it the next day. anyway i dont know what i should do.

2007-06-05 17:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by VKuroV 1 in Singles & Dating

What the Hell do I do when she has questions about her female things? (period) That scares me.

2007-06-05 17:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by justin c 1 in Family

1. I tell my girlfriend that I worry about accidentally getting her pregnant. She responds with "If it happens it happens. I don't worry about it so much like you do. It wouldn't be the end of the world."

2. I tell her "What about school and your dreams?" She tells me "I will finish school, and follow my dreams no matter what, with obstacles or without."

3. It seems like she gets more freaked out than I am about the whole "What if" situation. She hangs around many grown ups who have kids. She loves them.

4. A few days ago ... she dreamed she was pregnant. She told me.

Are these signs that she may want a baby with me?

2007-06-05 17:55:29 · 13 answers · asked by Johnny_Jurassic 1 in Singles & Dating

i like my boyfriend alot.and i think i'm ready to have sex with him.he said he loves me too.should i do it????all my friends have done it and they say it's fun and it's safe too if your carefull and probably use condoms.should i do it???????????????????please help!

2007-06-05 17:52:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes she's caring and nice but sometimes everyday, she critisizes me of my weight. She's a bit mean to me and calling me names and I usually cry sometimes. There are so many things I like to say about her or tell her, but I can't because I get into more trouble and I can't tell anyone of the same reason. Usually she threatens me that she will send me off someday. I'm so sick of it. Sometimes I think I hate my mom.What does she want? why does she act like this?

2007-06-05 17:51:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-05 17:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by lostfallenangel_girl 1 in Friends

I am just stuck in a rut after all this happened. I haven't left the house in a week, im lonely, im stuck in a pool self-pity unable to think of anything else. I just can't look anyone in the eye anymore I feel like everyone that sees me can just tell like it's written on my face or something. Even when I do meet women I don't know what to say or do and it quickly just gets awkward. To make matters worse my neighbor is my wifes best friend and she hangs out over there all the time which just makes it awkward. I am just so lonely. I spend all day with our kids, I take them to work with me, i do everything since she left and it's getting harder and harder to just go on everyday. My mom says to let her or my mother-in-law take them so I can have a break but then when I do I just can't handle them not being here and I end up hurting worse for it. I don't know how much longer i can take this, im overwhlmed, im hurting, and i hate to admit that I often think about suicide. what do i do?

2007-06-05 17:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The wife of a guy at work want's a divorce (he's a great guy, excellent job, etc.) She says she doesn't feel anything for him anymore, after 13 yrs. of marriage. Considering over half of marriages end in divorce, what's a mans incentive to get married, he'll end up paying alimony and or child support......

2007-06-05 17:44:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well for starters Im generally shy and this doesnt help. I get anxious and nervous when approaching girls. I have tried online but that hasnt worked for me. I tend to talk to girls who have been cheated on who have a kid from some dude they hate and so on and so on.

Im somewhat attarctive and can be funny and sweet.

So my question is at what age is it impossible to meet a sweet lovable girl who doesnt carry anger and baggage and still has some innocene left in them. I prefer to date between 23 and 28. Younger or older i might consider.

Also any good places to go would be great. I dont do so well in bars to many people to loud to many drinkns by time i get courage to talk.

2007-06-05 17:43:23 · 4 answers · asked by Russell C 2 in Singles & Dating

we were out at a heritage days in a nearby town and thats when he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him I am 34 and engaged to be married hes almost 50 and ugly as hell smells bad and doesnt shower I am busy planning a wedding and my sisters is upset too he asked her on the phone when she was waiting for our mother to come to the phone what should i do?

2007-06-05 17:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by midnight_gypsy_rose 2 in Family

is this true?

2007-06-05 17:41:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are informally separated and we have a house together. I moved out of the house a few months age, but I still pay my share of mortgage. I noticed that he brings his GF to the house when our son and I are not home.

Can I ask for police restrain to stop her coming to our house when I am away?

2007-06-05 17:41:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anne A 1 in Marriage & Divorce