we were out at a heritage days in a nearby town and thats when he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him I am 34 and engaged to be married hes almost 50 and ugly as hell smells bad and doesnt shower I am busy planning a wedding and my sisters is upset too he asked her on the phone when she was waiting for our mother to come to the phone what should i do?
2007-06-05 17:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by midnight_gypsy_rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Advise HIM immediately that you are telling your mother about the advances. Give him a chance to explain WHY he did it. I presume he WAS serious, but if you approach your mother first, he will deny it and say you girls were making it up and hitting on him. Don't ignore him, or give him excuses (or he might think you're willing at some future date) when he does this to either of you. Treat it very seriously and let him know point blank you WILL pursue telling your mother and or the police and file sexual harassment charges against him. if it doesn't stop immediately. If he asks again..TELL YOUR MOTHER!
2007-06-05 17:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try keeping a log on what day, time, type of clothes he was wearing that day. 2nd. as suggested by others, try having him taped 3- hide a cam cord somewhere when you think you will be alson and he also, he probably will confront you, and pictures do not lie. and as suggested, Have your sister with you and do tell her, but I would definitely have the video or camcord recording in case she would try upholding his word, this way after the talk, you could show her or hear the recording good luck
2007-06-05 18:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-10 15:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her you need to talk. I don't know of any woman who would want to be with someone who is actively seeking to sleep with another person or persons, much less her daughters! She may be upset but she will be better off in the long run. If you are afraid she will not believe you then make sure he is present and confront him in front of her. If confronting him in her presence, make sure that you are in a safe location... You never know how he may react.
2007-06-05 17:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by LS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are 34 yrs old...a woman...not a child...just tell your mother what a nasty slob he is...if she doesnt get rid of him then stay away until she does....you nor your sister need to be around such a man...if your mother wants to live with such a person then that is her choice not yours! but be honest with her and tell her the whole story!
2007-06-06 00:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother as soon as you can. Here's a better idea,
get it on tape. Your mother needs to know the truth, but
be prepared, she may not leave her or kick him out.
2007-06-05 19:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom, but be careful HOW you tell her or else she might not believe you. Sometimes love is blind.
Maybe you should try to trick him into saying something like that again and secretly record him.
2007-06-05 18:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your sister need to sit down with your mom and tell her what is going on. This guy sound sick and needs to be out of your lives.
2007-06-05 17:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Amy F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you simply tell your mother she will never believe you. You will have to get a recording of him propositioning you/your sister.
2007-06-05 17:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better tell your mom get him to ask u again and recored it so u have proof good luck i would slap him next time
2007-06-05 17:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋