I been single for over 2 years and it's hard not having a male to talk too and share with. Whys is this so hard????
2007-06-05 18:15:13 · 20 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell God, everything you want in a man.
Remember God knows your heart.
I dont think Gods gonna send him knocking on your door, your probably gonna have to do some looking around.
Like, Christian websites, Christian Singles websites, Christian Chat rooms, etc.
And don't forget, you don't have to dress like an old school marm, for a Christian man to notice you!
But yeh, it's hard to find a Chrisitian man because they are rare, if it was easy, anyone could do it.
2007-06-05 18:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because men are smart. They know that the constraints imposed by Christianity as it is practiced today are meant to control you and and your body and keep you beliving in a capitalist system and has little to do with the teachings of Jesus. Men do not like to be trapped, so they are not interested. Too many of the men left in the Christian Church are gay and using Christianity as a cover because they have been raised to hate themselves. Good luck finding your Christian man. Hopefully, before you get trapped being some guy's helpmeet, you will study what is is you actually believe and what purpose it serves and why you as a woman are more constrained than are men, when there is supposedly no Jew or Gentile, male or female, slave or free as Paul said.
2007-06-05 18:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by yp_plum_new_york 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Religion is a personal thing to men. Either they were raised (in your case ) Christians and choose to live life according to them. Or they choose to follow religion and stay strong to Gods word. Myself, I'm a Catholic but am in a current state of "depression" which makes me question my faith (although i still feel strongly about God) It's a touchy subject to talk to men, some handle it well, while others fear the thought of religion and stay away from "church goers" I'm sure you'll find that special Christian guy someday, just keep looking. God make an ocean of people, your just fishing in a pond. Hope this helps.
2007-06-05 18:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by irishredfishstick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard because not everyone might not be as strong in faith as you. But there good men of God out there - whether you're looking for friendship, companionship, a relationship or just polite conversation. Try checking out blogsites for Christians.
Also, there are organizations out there for single Christians. Maybe you can check out your local Singles for Christ chapter or youth ministry in your area?
Good luck and God bless you.
2007-06-05 18:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by milky_mooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to you be patient. God has the perfect man for you. I would also tell you to join a christian singles group at a church. Most single men who goto church are serious about God. The man who loves God is a man who will love his Wife.
2007-06-05 18:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dalton 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl tell me about it. It is hard. But the way I'm taught in church, is that we are not suppose to search for them. Let them find us. Also they tell us, that instead of searching for a man, search and grow in God so that when that Good Godly Man comes your way, u will know how to handel him, u won't mess him up.
I know it's difficult, But just keep praying that 1st God will prepare you for the right man, and pray that God sends More Godly men to your church, or in your path of life. And you know you gotta have faith. So just thank God in advance for that man that you desire.
Get yourself Right with God
Pray and Have faith
Let them find you.
But in the mean time...check out these sites.
www.spiritchristiansingles.com
www.bigchurch.com
relationships.com
2007-06-05 18:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Imdatchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am only 13... but i've been trying 2 find christian friends and it's hard... i think it's this way because most people who claim 2 be christian aren't.. and many true christians dont act like it sumtimes... but start praying for a christian guy that could be ur husband sumday... i'll pray 4 u 2... but also try working on ur relationship w/ God 1rst...and he'll bring sum1 2 u... hope this helps!
Love ya, Nicole
2007-06-05 18:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friedrich Nietzsche once remarked that "God is Dead" meaning the influence of christianity was dying in the hearts of the people. Its increasingly harder to find someone who's really Christian, at least as Christian as early doctrine intended.
My point is that values change.
2007-06-05 18:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard because not alot of men are serious about God. but try some new churches. and i have been in the same boat as you i tried to find a good christian girl and there either taken or they turn out to be not so "holy" lol
2007-06-05 18:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Krazy_Rican 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check Christian dating sites. You might have more luck there or at least get someone to talk to out of it. Open up a little bit and let the less religious in a little, maybe they will open up to Christ more in the outcome. Good luck!
2007-06-05 18:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋