I need Your advice please,
Ive recently moved into a house with a girl i worked with,ive known her over a year now and we get on great..I really fancied her but she was going out with a guy for over a year at the time so i didnt pursue anything but she knew how i felt,she said she does like me but couldnt with her bf and i totally respected that so i left it,anyway she broke up with him over a month ago saying she fell out of love with him,3 wks ago she asked me would i move in with her so i did,now where gettin on great in the house and have alot of laughs but i dont know if she wants more because she seems to hint at something every nite when were alone talking but i dont know wether or not to do anything,i wouldnt class myself as being a good looking guy,i mean her ex was a good looking guy and shes had friends over that are male and there all good looking guys to be honest so with that im thinking i wnt say anythin because she really is out of my league and im fine with that becau
2007-06-05 23:57:43 · 13 answers · asked by John A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why don't you just take one day at a time and see what happens. Get to know her better. You never know when something might develop.
2007-06-06 00:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem like an upright minded guy and she is lucky to have you there as a housemate and friend..what l have to say is kinda sensitive but this is what am reading in the whole thing..she breaks up(it happens) she asks you to move in, you do, she knows how you feel about her and so far she knows you are not in a relationship..and your affection for her is still burning..she mayb a nice person but she is taking advantage of you/and your feelings...how long are you guyz going to live in the same roof knowing how you feel and not pursue her or someone else becoz l know you are hoping she may warm up to you..To me the moving in wasnt a good idea becoz of the feelings involved..you need to know where you are going with this..
2007-06-06 07:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this girl is for you or not dont ever judge yourself as you are not worthy of her, if she is giving that impression too,then i would say just be her friend,
love doesnt ask for a sexy or good looking guy,you can have a hunchback and there would be someone that will fall in love with you, it is not the way you looks that makes you a man, but the way you can make a woman feel and the way you treat her with respect and your relationship that makes you a true man.
and ask yourself ,they had it going for a year , and now she is hinting you something , than it means that she never loved him or that maybe she is on the rebound.
do you want history to repeats itself with you after a year.
i think you must give her time to sort out what she wants in life or you are going to be the next one, until then i can only say be there for her as a friend
2007-06-06 07:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by bedroomeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just broke up, I say be a great friend before doing anything. But I'm sure while you are being her friend that you don't want her to be bring home another guy. So, ask her, whats the chance? But personally, I'd just be a great friend and accept it as that, if it grows to something else, then you guys will have a great relationship for you were friends first... just my opinion.
2007-06-06 07:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by avengress 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a good start, my husband and I was friends for 20+years, we've been married for 10. tell her how you feel and let her know how important she is and just wait. If its meant to be it will happen!
2007-06-06 07:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by deanorjon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...if she values your looks so much she would n't be there at all!
Maybe what she wants is just companionship...so give her own space, free will and freedom...if she has something for you it will come to you!
In a relationship to work it is mutual respect which is what really makes it work...so until she tells you you are the 'one' don't think that you are!!!
2007-06-06 07:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cyrene J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your her best friend most likely she feels you woul be a smarter match for her than the ex..btu that may just be a rebound thing so dotn rush into it....because if you do....you might end up making the friendship wierd
2007-06-06 19:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cliche', but let nature take its course. I f she is single, and you are a nice fellow, and genuinely interested in her, it sounds like good things are coming your way. Patience and manners will work wonders in this scenario.
2007-06-06 07:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Elwood Blues 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the moment she is a room mate. If you are interested in more and she is hinting that she is to. make your move.
2007-06-06 07:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE HOT LOOKING TO BE ATTRACTIVE. WHEN YOU GET TO KNOW A PERSON THAT IS WHEN THERE TRUE LOOKS COME OUT. YOU CAN BE BRAD PITT BUT IF YOU HAVE A BAD OR NASTY ATTITUDE THEN YOU TURN UGLY. NO ONE IS OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. GOOD LUCK.
2007-06-06 07:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋