Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

2007-06-07 07:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and i have been together almost 10 years and married for 3 of the ten. Since we've been married my husband has cheated on me at least 4 times that i know of one being three days after we got married. I know i should have left then ,but i just called myself paying him back by sleeping with someone else. His lastest was a girl he worked with .When is enough, enough? I do love my husband but i cant keep pertending i'm happy. He says he sorry and want to start over by renewing our vows. So what should i do. I only want serious commets that can help me.

2007-06-07 07:38:37 · 20 answers · asked by msnettaboo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why are we madly in love with someone (bf, gf, future spouse) n then after awhile it dies down?
I've been married for 3 yrs, and with him for 4, in the beginning it was awsome....now it's still good, but nothing like before. Why does that happen? Is there a way to reignite the spark (without doing anything weird) ?

2007-06-07 07:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by badkitty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my hubby that a few days ago and nothing has changed. NOTHING. We get along really good, no fighting, screaming, yelling. Much like if you had a really nice roomate. I don't dislike him, but I don't feel I love him either. I would just like to retire after our 25th wedding anniversary this year. I told him all of this and guess what?! Nothing. I don't know what else to do.

2007-06-07 07:30:16 · 21 answers · asked by Lynne H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a guy for about 6 months. He will tell me that he loves me sometimes. But a few days ago, he asked if I was "in love" with him and I said maybe (I was caught off guard). I asked him if he was "in love" with me and he said no. He said he wasn't sure if he ever has been and whether or not he could be (in love with anyone).
When I brought this up a few days later, he said he thought I was rushing things and that it sounds like I had been thikning about the future. He said he cares about me and likes spending time with me and getting to know me. And then wanted to know if I was in love with him.
The more I thought about what he said the more it bothers me.
Can anyone explain this behavior and what they think the difference between being "in love" and loving someone?
And what they would do in this situation?

2007-06-07 07:29:57 · 23 answers · asked by *Rumer*Severin* 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a tight frenum so I called the urology department and spoke to a nurse...and made an appt. I've made a few in the last month but I'm scared so I didnt go. The nurse said there's been patients in for tight frenums of the penis and needed surgery to REMOVE it. And my regular doctor, she said the same thing. I'm just really scared... any advice??

2007-06-07 07:29:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there any other ways to tell if your spouse is cheating, besides lack of sex.

2007-06-07 07:29:18 · 17 answers · asked by divaliscous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 6 years and we are 22 years old. I love her to death. I can't imagine myself without her. Next week is our anniversary. She love me too. What should I do for our 7 year anniversary. She's the one for me. Since I am attending college for my Ph.D, I already got my B.A. I'm planning on marrying her but not after until I get my Ph.D. So, what should I do for our 7 year anniversary? I want to make it special to let her know that she's really special to me and I love her and how much she means to me.

2007-06-07 07:29:07 · 2 answers · asked by Ken H 1 in Family

2007-06-07 07:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by trer 3 in Family

I want to know that 2 years ago, I know that my relationship with my wife is going to end up in a divorce court room because she married me for green card and claim for my asset because I have my own business. she black mail me to help her to apply for her green card otherwise she will come after my asset. We have been separated since, I never help her to get her green card but I didn't report her to INS either.
At that time I have transfer most of my asset to my girlfriend's name since me and my girl have a daughter together, now 2 years later if I file for divorce can she still claim for the asset that I gave to my girlfriend as a gift?

2007-06-07 07:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by chocho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a better marriage system

With all the separations, divorces, fighting.

Maybe have partner swapping or trading clauses in all marriage licenses.

Any suggestions?

2007-06-07 07:23:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, we've been together 4 years. He's 24. He says that everywhere we go, or he goes, there are beautiful women looking at him like they want him, and, being beautiful, him being a guy, he wants them too. Sometimes he goes in to way too much details about how they flirt and what he likes about them, skin color, eyes, body, etc...He gets all whiny about how perfect some oportunities are, and that he can't take them. That if I was ok with him being with others it would be awesome. Of course he knows i'm not. He also says that I'm too tall for his taste (we're the same height) and too old. (I'm a year older than him). At other times he picks stupid fights with me, he says they're my fault, but i can tell he does it just 'cause he's bored or something. But he stays with me, and says he cares about me. I don't know if I should cut him loose to let him "enjoy his youth", 'cause it seems to me he suffers way too much for not sleeping around. Or should i stay and be grateful he's honest?

2007-06-07 07:22:54 · 38 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't talked to him in awhile. But a couple nights ago he unblocked me from instant message. i had my away message up saying BBL ( be back later) so he sent me a message hi. so I took of my away message. I said hi back and he said sup? I said nothing Then he said nm (not much). Then he said any bfs. ( i think he was saying boyfriends. what is going on with him? we haven't talk since we broke up a couple months ago. why is he know talking to me on aim? please help me.....

2007-06-07 07:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

do you guys prefer tall girls with long legs or shorter girls with more of an athletic build??? (i know its a stupid question jw lol)

2007-06-07 07:22:05 · 10 answers · asked by hottie789 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 07:21:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it possible that I fell out of love ever since I moved in with my with girlfriend. I know there were chemical sparks before I moved in with her. We've been together for 6 years already. The sparks isn't there anymore after I've moved in with her.

2007-06-07 07:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can never get a resolution from him. When he does something wrong and I confront him he will be like, "well you did the same thing 2 years ago." Or be like you didn't do the dishes. he always flips the conversation to take the heat off himself. How do I get him to communicate and take responsibility?

2007-06-07 07:16:09 · 14 answers · asked by All Smiles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 07:13:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Am I allowed to see them like any other person or stranger? Can I live in the same town? Work at their school? Can I legally be in my kids' lives since the courts decided I cannot have them to raise?

2007-06-07 07:12:01 · 17 answers · asked by Dawn G 1 in Family

I'm a commitment-phobe in that I don't like the pressures accompanied within Exclusivity ie, role-playing and expectations but I met someone whom I've been seeing for approx a month now which for me is Huge bc I haven't given anyone a second call back in over a year.
So How do I chill and relax and take one day at a time??? How do I Not Sabatoge a Good thing??? How do I create that Balance between my Him and the Assumed Pressure I Fear and Dread??? Perhaps its in both our best interest if I walk away now before I hurt him/me...I think so:<

2007-06-07 07:09:41 · 12 answers · asked by Melika 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess I'm stupid because I had this whole idea in my head that the first year of marriage would be really special. Birthday's, holidays, special times spent together but instead (not even married yet, but soon) by husband to be makes all these plans with his friends for his birthday, mine (all within 1 month after getting married), holidays, and now there's no time left for us and our relationship. It's all about him and his friends. What's that about? I've heard the first year is hard but I'm considering calling this off if this is how it's gonna be :(

2007-06-07 07:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I decided we would rather stay in the US for a honeymoon, and save money for our new house instead of an all out cruise or caribbean vacation.

We are going to treat ourselves to a second honeymoon somewhere awesome on our 10th anniversary.

Any suggestions on afforable, yet romantic and fun honeymoons that we could do in the states, or abroad-but with low budget in mind?

Thanks!

2007-06-07 07:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Weddings

we have already been seperated for over a year, i still love him, but we argue toooooo much and insult ea other always. He doesn't want to get back, but he doesn't want to give me a divorce when i tell him. He tells me once in a while he still loves me, but i don't think he does anymore....A divorce is the way i can get over him and feel nothing can hold us together anymore, but our child. I think he just wants to party and have me waiting for when hes done with all the partying. He gets mad if i do anything with my friends.

2007-06-07 07:07:59 · 12 answers · asked by houston-girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A while back, I decided to have an affair. I hooked up with an ex-boyfriend from college and it has been wonderful. My husband does not know about any of this.

My problem is I got pregnant.

When I have sex with my husband, we don't use protection. With my ex, he wears a condom.

The reason I'm concerned that its my ex's baby is that my husband and I have not conceived in seven years - we have never used any sort of birth control.

I don't know if I should tell my husband that the baby is his or have an abortion. Another problem is that my ex is black and my husband is white.

What should I do?

2007-06-07 07:07:36 · 23 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends ex-wife gave him their kids and said that she will be back the next day. It has been 4 days now and she still has not came back or even called. Many people including myself has seen her running around. Doesn't seem that she really wants the kids.

2007-06-07 07:06:28 · 9 answers · asked by chriswh90 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have friends but they are paired off except for a few. When we hang out, they just do stuff like eating, movie and then go home and sleep. This is not making me happy because I'm not meeting anyone new with this scene. I just want to be in a social enviornemt by myself so I chat up with some girls and get to know them. I'm not doing that because I'll look very awkward in a social setting by myself.

2007-06-07 07:05:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 07:05:27 · 12 answers · asked by Charlie McKool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's 39,Im 20, he tells me he's a pimp, and I tell him I'm not in2 that lifestyle, but nevertheless we contiued talking and weeks later had sex. Afterwards he acted like he was going threw all types of problems and just didn't have time to 2 see me or call.2 weeks later I called 2 remind him of my birthday that day, he wishes happy birthsday but fails on his promise to take me out to dinner. It's been 3 weeks, and he calls and leaves a voicemail apologizing saying he's been gowing threw alot, he really likes me alot but understands if I no longer want to see him, but he wants me to know he cares about me. But this doesnt justify him not making any contact with me after we had sex,leaving me feeling alone and used. I fought with all my strenght not to call him back and I didn't but now, I do wanna talk to him...should I return his call?

2007-06-07 07:05:07 · 20 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 07:03:56 · 21 answers · asked by AO 4 Yayo 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my real father passed away 7 years ago. I havent forgotten him, but God has blessed me with a wonderful stepfather. He is someone I knew before my mom met him, so he already had my approval. He's a good, honest, godly man. He loves me and my sister like we are his own children (he has 2 children of his own, and we get along with one of the really well, and the other one fairly well). When talking about the family, he refers to me, my sister, and his children as "mine and Angela's children". Don't get the wrong idea. When he first became my mom's boyfriend, and things were starting to look serious, he told me he didnt want to be my daddy. He wants to be my friend. And he is. He's done so much working away to provide our family with everything we need, and even some things we want. I want to show him i appreciate it. He collects Hull Pottery, the brown ones. He also has a kid in him, he likes Shrek (He bought us the glasses.....lol). He also likes gospel music.

2007-06-07 07:03:42 · 5 answers · asked by pocketful_of_sunshine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships