He's 39,Im 20, he tells me he's a pimp, and I tell him I'm not in2 that lifestyle, but nevertheless we contiued talking and weeks later had sex. Afterwards he acted like he was going threw all types of problems and just didn't have time to 2 see me or call.2 weeks later I called 2 remind him of my birthday that day, he wishes happy birthsday but fails on his promise to take me out to dinner. It's been 3 weeks, and he calls and leaves a voicemail apologizing saying he's been gowing threw alot, he really likes me alot but understands if I no longer want to see him, but he wants me to know he cares about me. But this doesnt justify him not making any contact with me after we had sex,leaving me feeling alone and used. I fought with all my strenght not to call him back and I didn't but now, I do wanna talk to him...should I return his call?
2007-06-07 07:05:07 · 20 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no....hes 40 years old and you young 20 y bother he was just looking for a young piece of *** for the night he probably has a wife and kids your age and that's why he hasn't been calling you, don't take that chance and yeah i could see how you would feel used but it was a one nite thing guys are assholes what do think!?.
.......................and a pimp at 40 yeah okay.
2007-06-15 02:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is 39 and should be a GROWN UP!! You are only 20(not looking at the age difference, my exhusband was 15 yrs my senior) I would do some self examination first, figure out why I messed with a person that clearly told me he is a pimp, like that is alright. I am not a materialistic person, I dont really expect gifts, but a phone call?? come on!! I also expect people to follow through on their word, no EXCUSES!!Then I would never acknowldge him again, chalk it up as a learning experience and move on!! Good Luck!!
2007-06-15 02:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by dhix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha, he is a pimp! What the heck did you expect. I think you should go to the hospital and have your head examined. Seriously, you need some common sense. He is using you and you are letting him. Go find yourself a better man but first I would check to see if you have any std's. Having sex with a pimp may be a prime way to get one.
2007-06-07 14:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sean B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you from the get that he was a pimp, why did you waste your time talking to him anymore. Unless you were a prostitute, what good could he ever be to you? Don't tolerate abuse, not only from him but from anybody. That is, physically, mentally or any other way. Learn to love yourself before you look to others for love, otherwise it will never work. The moment people detect that you don't demand respect, they will start to take advantage of you. Get a self esteem, make a liar out of them. Your love is to precious to be thrown away on a looser like him.
2007-06-15 14:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay away from him. Live your life, move on and find a MAN that respects and cares about you... He is probably just with someone else doing what he did to you.. Be strong, i know you want to talk to him and find out why he did what he did.. but you know what? he is probably going to give you all the excuses in the world that he has probably used before and then use you again.. Dont let him do that to you...
Its your life and you do what you feel is best for you... and if this is it, good luck!
I wish you the best but i hope you look for someone else that will really love you.
2007-06-07 14:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never again. First mistake having sex. Second mistake hanging around after he said he was a pimp. Third mistake wondering if you should call him back. Clean up the act and move on, hell you could almost go to the local homeless shelter and do better than this. And he said he was sorry, cmon.
2007-06-07 14:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by dave n 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
o sweety dont do it! he used u, i know its hard sometimes but sum men r just jerks like that trust me i know! think the best thing to do is forget him move on an find somene else u deserve better dont let men like that get u down, dismiss there little games an be a bigger person then him if not he will do the same thing all over again call wen he wants sex then ignore u again.....dont let him keep u on the back burner!
2007-06-15 13:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by shawty67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he warned ya. Sometimes the fire attacks, but other times people dive in. You dove in and got burned girl. I'd stay away from this guy. He sounds like human scum. A pimp? Give me a break. When did that ever become cool?
2007-06-14 19:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Hitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh....sweetheart. You are being played big time! As much as you don't want to hear this, I don't want to say it even more...he's used you. Feelings are very deceptive and can mean anything, saying he "cares" for you isn't really saying a whole lot...you can "care" for a pet or a car or an article of clothing as well as another human being. Please understand that I'm not comparing you to any of those things, however, "caring" doesn't mean "love" in any sense of the word. Dump the boy...he doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve the heartache that keeping him in your life will bring!
2007-06-07 14:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by wittylaughingwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie. You've been used. He tells you he's a "pimp", shags you, ignores you, keeps you hanging on just in case he needs an ego boost (or more sex, if no new prospects), and you need to ask if you should write him off. It sucks, I know, but you are jumping into a lot more heartache if you don't cut your losses now. No one deserves to be treated like he's treating you, even if they seem a bit "charming" when they need to keep you hanging on. Good luck!
2007-06-07 14:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by Misty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋