Is it possible that I fell out of love ever since I moved in with my with girlfriend. I know there were chemical sparks before I moved in with her. We've been together for 6 years already. The sparks isn't there anymore after I've moved in with her.
2007-06-07 07:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relationships do change and mellow with time and comfort.
You will never keep the first blush of love but you can build a permanent constant glow that will continually need to be stoked to keep the love alive.
Relationships are work. They take time, effort and energy.
Go back over old pictures and videos of the two of you. Look at the way you look at her and she looks at you. Do you still do that? Are you still the gentleman that you were before? Do you still open her door? Do you still hold her hand for no reason? Do you still bring her flowers or candy just because?
It is rarely if ever the doings of one party that allows the relationship to stale.
Take some time to rekindle the flame of your relationship and see where it takes you.
2007-06-07 07:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel like that. After many years together and living in the same house, the sparks kind of peter out. The good news it that they do come back.
Its a cycle in any long term relationship. When you first meet its all so new and exciting. You wonder what she's doing, you think she looks perfect in the morning, you don't notice morning breath, you worry that she might find another and so on. After you live together, you feel more secure, you tend to notice annoying or gross habits and you become very familiar with each other. No surprise, no thrill of the chase, no mystery. Then, WHAMMO! For a while you feel the spark again and all is well.
If you are truly committed to this woman and you love her for who she is as a person, then stick it out. If you aren't truly committed and do not love her as an individual, then it may be time to let go.
2007-06-07 07:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well once you spend so much time together it gets a bit boring, you need to look at her with love like you did at your first date, the love is still there, but now your probably wondering whats time, you got the person you want now what start going out, spend some time with friends and have fun together with your gf
2007-06-07 07:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there aren't any kids, it's not that hard to pack up your stuff and leave.
If there are children involved, you'll be best served by speaking with a lawyer before just dissappearing.
2007-06-07 07:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because you have already conquered her.
2007-06-07 07:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what are you doing? LEAVE!
2007-06-07 07:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋