we have already been seperated for over a year, i still love him, but we argue toooooo much and insult ea other always. He doesn't want to get back, but he doesn't want to give me a divorce when i tell him. He tells me once in a while he still loves me, but i don't think he does anymore....A divorce is the way i can get over him and feel nothing can hold us together anymore, but our child. I think he just wants to party and have me waiting for when hes done with all the partying. He gets mad if i do anything with my friends.
2007-06-07 07:07:59 · 12 answers · asked by houston-girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-06-10 18:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone doesn't mean living a miserable life. I love the father of my daughter but he just wasn't good for me. Too controlling. Getting a divorce wont help you get over him either. I mean it won't help emotionally. Free yourself. Why should you sit at home waiting for him to become an honest man while he lives his life as though he were single? Let it go.
2007-06-07 07:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by MeMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being "USED". Of course your husband doesn't want a divorce. That would mean that he would have to loose money and support you and your child. It's so, so, so much easier (and cheaper) for him to just leave you and your child and leave YOU to raise your child and leave YOU to pay all the bills and for him to come back to you whenever he chooses. You better get a little smarter here girl! You're being used. You better hi-tail it to the nearest divorce attorney pronto! Start getting reimbursed for all that child care YOU are paying for. And stop falling for his bull. He doesn't love you. If you don't believe me, just look at how he's shown you he loves you. Don't listen to what he says, look at how he's shown you!
2007-06-07 07:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him for a divorce, you can file for one w/out him and it may take a little longer, but it will go through. Leave him alone and move on with your life.
2007-06-07 07:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems like he wants to be in control of you. He doesn't want you to spend time with anyone and the doesn't want to divorce you because he doesn't want you to be with anyone else. He wants his freedom, but he wants to keep you tied down. Divorce him by all means necessary.
2007-06-07 07:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by mama of 2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So as a parent whom I will assume loves her child, what would you tell your child to if they were on the recieving end of what your going through.
THINK ABOUT IT
Now that you have that answer, you have your answer
2007-06-07 07:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and you could start by getting a divorce.
Start meeting new people and you will be alright.
2007-06-07 08:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kymica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if you are waisting your time with him get a divorce already
2007-06-10 22:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So file already. Or do you really go for the drama?
2007-06-07 07:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Houston we have a problem!!
Leave his a s s.
2007-06-07 07:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋