I have friends but they are paired off except for a few. When we hang out, they just do stuff like eating, movie and then go home and sleep. This is not making me happy because I'm not meeting anyone new with this scene. I just want to be in a social enviornemt by myself so I chat up with some girls and get to know them. I'm not doing that because I'll look very awkward in a social setting by myself.
2007-06-07 07:05:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell yourself that you really like you and ask yourself if you would like to go out to dinner and maybe a movie sometime.
2007-06-07 07:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! Your gonna miss out if you do that. I'm a woman & I don't see anything wrong with a guy going out by himself to meet new people. I think it shows confidence! The ONLY people that may look at you funny are the insecure ones that you "wouldn't" want to get to know anyway. Besides..They would only be showing out in front of there friends anyway. If YOU feel like you are an interesting person & like to go out then I don't think you will have any problems meeting someone or even a few more people that are great to hang out with that like to do the same things as you. Try it out a few times..Just because you go out alone doesn't mean you don't have friends & I know that's not what I would think or anyone else for that matter!
2007-06-07 14:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by BG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard to go out by yourself and aspect to socialise and chat with some girls. Unless, you know someone that knows somebody that can hook you up with that person - that interest you. It seems that you grew up from the former scene and want to move on into something more your style. Depending on where you're looking for girls or should I say a young lady - go where you can find a singles scene and take it slow and do some scoping.
2007-06-07 14:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a wing girl. Have a female who will chat up some girls and point her in your direction. A tried and true fact, a girl will be more into you when she thinks your road tested, if another girl thinks your cool and is telling her she should talk to you, she's more likely to do so. As opposed to hanging on ur own, and having them thing your some stalker waiting to happen at the end of the bar.
2007-06-07 14:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by johnva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About a week ago, I was meeting some friends at this happy hour place that is always crowded. They were late, so I sat down by myself to wait for them. Three guys hit on me. That never would have happened if I was with my friends. Guys will not approach a gaggle of girls. Same deal with a guy. I would definitely approach a single guy... but not if he was hanging with his friends. So, put yourself out there.
2007-06-07 14:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could ask u friends that if they want to try something new since it is kind of boring just going to movies and dinner and than back to home for sleep ... Try to set an explain or just plan a night for them it might just work
2007-06-07 14:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think you need to decide what type of environment you want to be in is it a bar, club, coffee house, or the local poetry spot, or your favorite spot. because this is going to have something to do with the type of person you will meet. then you need to tell yourself ....hey i got it going on and you out here to do your thing enjoy learning more about yourself and also to meet a new person that you can enjoy getting to know and them getting to know you as well. basically getting the confidence to go out and find what you are looking for and what you need!
2007-06-07 14:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know I've only gone out by myself a few times.
Sometimes when I travel on business to Chicago I go out by myself because it's chicago. But in my own city, I once went out by myself and actually met a girl who would become my girlfriend, and probably favorite girlfriend I've had. But she came up to me and asked me if I was alone and when I said yes she asked me to dance with her. Good luck, I know it can be kind of awkward, but you never know what can happen, and it's a plus if a girl sees you alone and approaches you to keep you company.
2007-06-07 14:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join a club, volunteer somewhere at a charity, join a gym, etc. You need to be different places to meet different girls. The ones you find in a bar probably won't work out.
2007-06-07 14:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a wingman... someone to make sure you don't get stuck with an ugle chic. A drinking buddy/ clubbin buddy cuz that way you are both trying to score... helping each other out. Anyone in your crew sound like this?
2007-06-07 14:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by black97accord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it like you are just going out with yourself. When I accidently go out by myself I am very outgoig, chatty and make new friends. When I go out with myself with the attention of meeting women I am selfconcious and feel uncomfortable.
Easier said than done Ehh bro? I think your up to the challenge.
2007-06-07 14:11:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋